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Mrs. Ruby Kathleen Neel

1916 - 2013

Mrs. Ruby Kathleen Neel obituary, 1916-2013, Frederick, MD

BORN

1916

DIED

2013

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Stauffer Funeral Homes, P.A. - Frederick

1621 Opossumtown Pike

Frederick, Maryland

Ruby Neel Obituary


Mrs. Ruby Kathleen Neel, 97, of 9410 Ernest Drive, Frederick, died Sunday, Aug. 11, at Frederick Memorial Hospital.

Born June 13, 1916, in Tazewell Co., Virginia, she was the daughter of the late William Walter Leffel and Mary Rebecca Elizabeth Hornbarger Leffel. She was the last of her immediate family.

She was married in Bluefield, VA, on March 23, 1935, to the late Earnest Dewey Neel, who passed away in 1999. They were married for 63 years.

Mrs. Neel retired from American Optical Co., June 30, 1978, after 21 years of service. She loved gardening, quilting and taking care of her family.

Surviving are four children, Donald W. Neel and wife Barbara, Charles E. Neel and wife Joan, Dixie C. Simmons and husband Kenneth, all of Frederick, and Teresa D. Dankmeyer and husband Jerry of Keedysville, 11 grandchildren, Monty Neel, Karen Wilcom, Donna Sweeney, Tina Johnson, Kelli Dawson, Wendy Nalborczyk, Michael Simmons, Troy Gladhill, and Brian, Andrew and Christopher Dankmeyer, 18 great-grandchildren and seven great-great-grandchildren.

Mrs. Neel will also be remembered by one son-in-law, Richard E. Gladhill Sr. of Frederick; and one special niece, Barbara Fouche of Frederick; and special friends Sandy and Henrick Johansen, Max Baer and his late wife Kaye; and Bonnie and Frank Nestor.
Besides her husband, Mrs. Neel was preceded in death by one daughter, Alfreda Gladhill in 1996; three brothers, Sherman, George and Clyde Leffel and one sister, Nelvia Neel.

The family will receive friends from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 pm Wednesday, Aug. 14 at Stauffer Funeral Home, 1621 Opossumtown Pike, Frederick, where funeral services will begin at 11 am on Thursday, Aug. 15. The Rev. Tim May will officiate.

Interment will be in Resthaven Memorial Gardens.

Memorial contributions may be made to Homewood at Crumland Farms, 7407 Willow Road, Frederick, MD 21702 or a charity of one's choice.

Online condolences may be expressed to the family at staufferfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Frederick News-Post on Aug. 13, 2013.

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Sherry Deaton Cannon

August 29, 2013

Teresa, Dixie,
I am sorry for your loss. I was finally going thru papers from when we were away a few days and saw. You are both in my prayers as are your families.

Bess Bombardieri

August 16, 2013

I am very sorry to hear of the passing of dear Miss Ruby. We were very happy to meet her and all of you when we visited Sandra and Henrik. They chose a wonderful place to live, having Miss Ruby and all of you for neighbors. She was a very dear lady. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. Sincere Sympathy, Bess.

August 16, 2013

Dear Karen, Joshua, Justin, and Kyle, I was saddened to hear of your grandmother Ruby's passing. I know that you loved her dearly. You and your family remain in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Fondly, Sharon & family

August 15, 2013

Dear Dixie & Family
So sorry to hear about your Mom. I remember she was a remarkable & hardworking woman.

Love Christine Goins Smith

August 13, 2013

Dear Donnie Bill, Charlie and Dixie, I am so sorry to hear of Aunt Ruby's death.I have such good memories of visiting your family back in VIrginia. I am so glad I was able to have a short visit with Aunt Ruby a few weeks ago at Homewood. Love to you and your families. Frances Wynne Noffsinger

August 13, 2013

Dear Don and Barbara, My deepest sympathy on the loss of Ruby who lived to be 97. My thoughts and prayers are with the two of you and the rest of her entire family. Quite a remarkable woman. Martha E.Church

Lisa Smoot

August 13, 2013

Donna, I am so very sorry for your loss. I know that grandma was so important to you. I hope you are able to find comfort in knowing she is not in any pain now and with your mom and grandpa. And remember, her body is gone but you can always still talk to her. I love you.

tim&kitty heerd

August 13, 2013

Donald&Barb.May god bless you and your family.

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