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Tammy Pilarcik Obituary
She was born in Brookville, PA on June 13, 1961 to Reverend Jack and Nada Elder. She graduated in 1984 from Edinboro University.
Tammy is survived by her mother Nada; brother Tim, and family, daughter Megan; son Seth and his wife Alyssa, and two grandchildren Calvin and Oliver
Tammy was a devoted member of Middletown United Methodist Church. She was active in many ministries and was always looking to help and serve others including mission trips through GROUP work camp and ASP.
Tammy loved living actively. She enjoying walking, hiking, and biking with friends. She traveled a lot and was always open to new adventures. But, more than anything else, Tammy loved spending time with her grandsons. She always had a huge smile on her face when they were around.
Memorial services will be held 2 PM. on Monday December 23rd at 2 PM from Middletown United Methodist Church, 7108 Fern Ct., Middletown. The family will receive friends one hour prior to the service at the church.
In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the Madeline Ann Burke Emergency Fund and sent to Middletown United Methodist Church, 7108 Fern Ct., Middletown, MD 21769.
Donald B. Thompson Funeral Home, 31 E. Main St., Middletown is in charge of arrangements.
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Larry Mickle
December 24, 2019
My sympathy to Tammy's family, I have many fond memories of Tammy while growing up in Linesville, and will always remember her smile, laugh and kindness.
Joanne Watkins
December 21, 2019
I worked with Tammy at SRA we worked closely for 7 years in the Travel Department. Tammy you were a great teacher and mentor to all of us in Travel Department. You will be greatly missed. Joanne Watkins
Brad Boyll
December 21, 2019
Tammy watched our boys at her home daycare some years ago and was an amazing person. I always felt they were in the best hands possible. She was thought of often and that will never change. I'm so sorry she had to leave us at a young age in her life. She gave so much and was beyond thoughtful. I appreciated that she was tough on me when I was late to pick up the boys. It showed her level of care for our family.
December 21, 2019
We are from Tammys home town and 2 of us graduated with her. She was always just the sweetest, kindness person we can remember....
Our prayers go out to her family.Love from The Camp Family.
Go in peace sweet beautiful friend xoxo
Rod Fry
December 20, 2019
Condolences to Megan. What a wonderful lady. Many great memories on the sidelines of Damascus Hurricanes fastpitch team with Tammy keeping the book for us. She was even forced into action one weekend and held her own playing with the college kids. She was such a positive influence on all of the players and coaches.
Former coach and present Pastor Rod Fry
December 20, 2019
My condolances. Loving thoughts from Sweden from Ceci & family
mary nichols
December 20, 2019
I am so sorry to hear tammy's passing. Such a wonderful women with a heart of gold. Many fond memories of Megan and her mom and all the girl scout antics...She will be truly missed/ So sorry for your loss Meghan
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