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Paula Costis
June 9, 2020
Alexi,
Happy Birthday!
You are missed and remembered with love and beautiful memories every day....especially on this occasion.
Love, Mom
Jackie Voyles
February 5, 2020
Alex although I never met you Kathy Dalton talked highly of you. I hope you are both having fun up there in Heaven. Tell her hello for me and let her know I love her so...Come visit your mom and family they would like that.
Always Jackie
Paula Costis
February 4, 2020
Alexi,
Your generous Spirit and quest for knowledge is embedded in all who had the opportunity to share your expansive zest for life.....always present.... never forgotten. Remembered with admiration and everlasting love.
Mom
June 11, 2018
Always great memories miss my GREAT friend,
Paula Costis
June 10, 2018
ALEXI,
June 9, 2018
A benchmark date of a storied and adventurous Spirit that persists as a lasting legacy of courage, knowledge, love and compassion.
Missed always and forever.
Mom
Paula Costis
February 4, 2018
Alexi,
Another difficult date, but I trust you are in a peaceful and happy state, and that we will reconnect someday.
Always loved and remembered.
Mom
June 9, 2017
ALEXI,
Miss you every day, especially on this occasion.
Love, Mom
PAULA COSTIS
February 4, 2017
LOVE
NEVER EBBS,
NEVER FADES,
NEVER CEASES.
MOM
PAULA COSTIS
June 9, 2016
SUNRISE
ALEXI,
JUNE 9TH WILL ALWAYS RECALL YOUR JOYFUL ARRIVAL AND MANY PRIVILEGED AND PRECIOUS YEARS SPENT TOGETHER.
ALWAYS LOVED,
ALWAYS REMEMBERED,
MOM
SHADOW
PAULA COSTIS
February 4, 2016
ALEXI,
MEASURED TIME HAS PASSED, BUT IN THE RECESSES OF THE HEART, MIND AND SOUL....YOU ARE ENCASED FOREVER.
LOVE,
MOM
Paula Costis
June 9, 2015
Alex,
Missing you on this special day and remembering all the great times, discussions, walks and travels we shared together.
Happy Birthday!
Forever loved,
Mom
thena Costis
June 9, 2015
Happy Birthday Little Brother!! I still want to pick up the phone and call you and I think of you all the time. Wish you were here with us helping us get through the craziness of life. You will always be in my heart! Love you little boo!❤
Paula Costis
February 4, 2015
ALEXI,
Always in my heart.....soaring over Machu Picchu.
Missed....Loved.... Cherished.... Forever.
Mom
Athena Costis
February 4, 2015
I can't believe its been six years now. Although the time increases, it doesn't change the pain and loss I feel everyday. I miss you so much and wish you were here to share all the highs and lows. Hopefully, you and Dad are having all kinds of new adventures up there in the heavens! Love you little brother!??
Athena Costis
June 9, 2014
Happy Birthday Little Bro!!! Always missing you - at least I know that you have the company of our Dad now and you two are having amazing discussions about everything under the sun! Love you!!!
Paula Costis
June 9, 2014
Alex,
I remember..... your passion for adventure; love of history; generosity; infectious laugh; keen mind; respect for Nature; creativity.......but most of all.... your kindness, compassion and loving regard for others. I remember.
Love,
Mom
March 15, 2014
Hey Alex,
It's been a long time since I've written but you are frequently in my thoughts. You are not here but you are present at every event, every gathering and every group hug.
Please visit your Mom and Sister in their dreams,comfort them and let them feel your presence.
i wish i had known you better.
love,
Connie
February 6, 2014
Time...
Seems to go more slowly with each passing hour of every single day since
that day you were called away.
I know you're on the other side
busy as a bee.
Having your dad with you, I'm sure
the two of you are into mischief as much as you can be.
Those of us here anticipate the time we can celebrate together joining once again on the other side.
Loving you always,
Kathy D.
Paula Costis
February 4, 2014
FOREVER CHERISHED
FOREVER MISSED
FOREVER REMEMBERED
ALEXANDER GEORGE COSTIS
6/9/66 - 2/4/09
HARILAOS GEORGE COSTIS
1/1/28 - 12/21/13
LOVE,
MOM-POLLY
Athena Costis
February 4, 2014
Five years ago today we lost you and life has never really been the same. I think about you all the time and I only hope that now you have Dad there to keep you company. I miss you so much and I will cherish every happy time we had together. You were an amazing brother and I feel blessed to have had you in my life - sadly for too short of a time. Love you little brother - always! Never Forgotten- Ever
Athena Costis
June 9, 2013
Happy Birthday Gentle Giant!! Wish we were having a beer together today but I will definitely be drinking a toast in your honor. Love you and miss you!!!! Athena
Paula Ann Costis
June 9, 2013
ALEX,
ON THIS SPECIAL DAY.............
Cruise the Autobahn; Sky-view Machu Picchu; Check out the Web; Java/politic/Syvros; Critique Logos; Beachside/Greece; Scan a novel; Belly laugh; Dip at Millerton; Treat Shevi/Shadow/Flood; Camp with bros Rich, Matt; Call Athena/Andy; Tease Nikos, Cole, Jesse; Hi-five Ron; Challenge Dad; Visit the dunes; Take Tim for a spin; Save a rock; Plant a tree; Retrace Alexander...Guide me through the Net; Share some history; Dine on Ambrosia; Deck out/Wear a sharp suit; Pedal the TT; Chug a brew.... and Always Remember our Thoughts, Love and Memories are with You FOREVER.
Save a place for me!
Love, Mom
Athena Costis
February 4, 2013
Hey Little Brother,
Can't believe it's been 4 years. They haven't been good ones without you. I miss you so much and I think of you everyday. Wish you were here with us celebrating the good times and just enjoying the day to day world. My only solace is that someday we will be together again. Love you Boo! Athena
Paula Ann Costis
February 4, 2013
ALEXANDER GEORGE COSTIS
TESSARA
Often there are shadows
On Earth's terrain of clay
Reflections of a spirit
Residing far away
Love cannot diminish
Alter, fade or stray
Time can only measure
Heartbeats day by day
Mom
John N. Peters
September 11, 2012
I was trying to find you on Facebook and didn't expect this sad news. I vividly remember hiking with Alex in Lefkada when our families were there during Easter in the mid-'70's. We were just kids. My deepest condolences to all.
Kathy D.
June 11, 2012
June 11, 2012
Alex,
Like the breeze that blows gently through the trees
Stirring both birds and bees,
Thoughts of you float softly through my mind.
Through this passage of time those of us who love you,
Are trying to find a way - a path to keep us steady,
With your leaving we were not ready.
And like the ebb and flow of ocean
and our great expanse of sky,
each of us who loved you Alex, await our next encounter.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
Paula Ann Costis
June 9, 2012
ALEXANDER GEORGE COSTIS
FUSION
Far above the sunrise
Past Moon's cradled light
A link of Love connects us
Transcending day and night
Mom
Athena Costis
June 9, 2012
Happy Birthday Little Brother! Today you would have turned 46-you remain forever in my heart. I think about you everyday and I will never stop missing you! You will never be forgotten! I love you!
Paula Ann Costis
February 4, 2012
ALEXANDER GEORGE COSTIS
HEARTLAND
To reunite your spirit
With one left far behind
A quest ensued for traces
Of cryptic symbols signed
The journey was exhaustive
Transcending spans of time
Dreams and paths were followed
Memories realigned
Until at last I found you
Residing in my mind
Mom
Athena Costis
February 4, 2012
Three years ago, you were taken from us and time really hasn't healed the pain. It has helped us cope, but nothing will fill the hole your passing has left in my heart. I miss you so much and there isn't a day I don't think of you! My only solace is that someday I will be able to be with you again. I wish you were here so we could talk for days and days! Know that you are always with me, little brother and you are never ever forgotten! Athena
June 10, 2011
Though seprated by a million miles I'll bear no grief nor bitter tears,
Rather thinking of your cherished smiles
the love and friednship of a million years.
Rainbows, it is said, are made from both rain and sun
So too it is with friends
The sum of the parts,become as one in our hearts
Until eternity ends
When the world and all that is in it
are undone.
SPANNING
Paula Ann Costis
June 9, 2011
ALEXANDER GEORGE COSTIS
SPANNING
Years have passed
Since last we viewed
You close within our sight;
And yet your presence still remains
Embedded day and night.
As time advances on this Earth
Our Love for you holds sway
Deep within our heavy hearts
And settles there to stay.
Mom
Athena Costis
June 8, 2011
Happy Birthday Little Brother!!! Today you would have turned 45. There are still moments when I feel like I've been kicked in the stomach thinking about how much I miss you. I will be drinking a toast in your honor today. I miss my little brother. I love you!!!!! Athena
Paula Ann Costis
February 4, 2011
ALEXANDER GEORGE COSTIS
REMEMBRANCE
Remembrance is not measured
By rituals or plaques,
Words of adoration,
Epitaphs or acts.
Remembrance is a journey
Embarking from the heart,
Reaching destinations
A world or more apart.
Mom
Wish I could hug you again!
Athena Costis
February 3, 2011
My Beautiful Brother:
Today marks the second year you were taken from us. I still vividly remember all the chaos and tragedy of that day. The only thing that kept us going was our love for you and each other. As people began to come by our house, I was amazed at how much you had touched people's lives. Although you were taken much too quickly, you had made such an impact on those of us who loved you. You are forever in my heart! I love you and miss you everyday. I would give anything to have you back in our lives - the world would finally be right again. I love you little brother!!! Always missing you, Athena
Matthew Ray
June 9, 2010
On Your Birthday
No cake or candles here today
Or presents for you to open
Just love from friends who want to say
Happy Birthday, and that we're hoping
Somehow you can see and know
That we have not forgotten you
That we still remember, even though
You've departed from our view
And if you see us here below
And wonder why we care
It's just because we want to show
That a part of you is still here
You live within each memory's heart
And so you remain, though we're apart.
Athena Costis
June 9, 2010
Happy Birthday!
Nikos Dalton
June 9, 2010
Happy Birthday Uncle Alex! we miss you!
Nikos, Cole and Jesse
Athena Costis
June 9, 2010
Happy Birthday Little Brother!!! Hard to believe yet another birthday has arrived without you to celebrate. People say that time heals all wounds, but it's just not true. If anything, the fact that you're really not here anymore is more painful as it settles into reality. You are so loved and missed. Here's to you - my beautiful brother and friend. I love you and will miss you forever Alexander the Great!!! Athean
MOM
June 9, 2010
ALEXI- OLYMPIAN
TIME'S PASSING IS MEASURED
BY GAUGES WE KEEP;
ADVANCED BY THE SEASONS,
THEN TURNED TO RETREAT.
BUT THERE IS NO PASSAGE
IN SPHERES BEYOND REACH;
THE LOVE THAT RESIDES THERE
CAN NEVER BE BREACHED.
Matt Ray
February 4, 2010
Still missing you very much. The pain in my heart will never go away. You were more than a brother to me. You shared your Love and generosity more than any person I have ever known or will ever know. Its really hard to go back to places we use to go to like Santa Cruz, Pismo, skiing, Vegas, Newport, Palm Springs, and so many more. I cant understand why you are not with me, It really sucks without you and I just have to accept it. I have learned so much about life from you. This knowledge is so helpful and I Thank you for everything
~ Matt Ray, Fresno, California
February 4, 2010
ALEXANDER GEORGE COSTIS
6/09/66-2/04/09
IN LOVING MEMORY
Perhaps there is a reason
To suffer pain and loss;
Perhaps we shall unite again
And must bear Nature's cross.
There is no solid answer,
Nor can we see the view;
Regardless of the outcome,
Our love abides with you.
Mom
Athena Costis
February 3, 2010
Today marks one year from the date you were stolen from us. It honestly feels like yesterday. I see your face everyday and the pain I feel is overwhelming. Life just doesn't seem "right" anymore. How is it possible that we will never be able to speak to you or hold you - you were such a beautiful soul. I miss you so much and it breaks my heart to see the effect on Mom and Dad. I hope I can get to the day where I can just celebrate your life, but for now I still can only mourn your loss. I love you Alex, and I would give anything to bring you back. No one will ever forget the courageous and kind man you were. We were supposed to grow old together, and I would forever delight in hearing your laugh. It's still incomprehensible to me that this has really happened. I will spend the rest of my life making sure your memory is kept very much alive. I love you, little brother!
Athena
October 17, 2009
Last smile
Last beer
And then the drive
To eternal Light
Last talk
Last laugh
And then the fly
To eternal youth
He is not an image
On a cold stone
He is not a name
In an empty room
But he is a smile
Shining our mind
He is a sun stamp
Warming our world
Good bye Alex.
For us, you will always be alive.
Ismini, Andronikos, Magda, Christopher, Evangelos.
October 5, 2009
I was shocked when my father told me what happened to you. Although we met only few times,your cheerful eyes and your laugh, the joy you found in life are in my memory. Alex,I 'm confident that everything happens for a reason and there is a bigger plan that is for the best, even though we can't understand it because it hurts so much.I want to believe you are happy wherever you are now,all the pain is gone and you are looking after your love ones.Your cousin from Greece, LYDIA
June 9, 2009
Shoot...I don't know how to get this one started. I guess the best way is to just do it as the Nike commercial says.
Today commemorates the day you came into the world Alex. As fate has it, it is a beautiful day. Sunshine,some clouds, blue skies, and a little bit of wind to stir up the mix.
I have to share this story with your family who are also mine. This morning I woke up knowing today was your birthday and feeling a heaviness of heart knowing your mom,dad, and sister were going to be having a difficult time of it today. I am in hope that their hearts will be filled with many incredible, wonderful memories to help wash away the sadness their hearts carry around your not being here to celebrate your special day. I can still see that wonderful smile of yours and the sparkle of mischief in your eyes held just below the surface.
Anyways, I'm getting away from what I wanted to be sharing. This morning as I was leaving my driveway on my way to work in my "new" older Mustang convertible-- looking to the left; looking to the right...what do my wondering eyes see?...Downed by the wind, a fence, a tall weed growing, and landed right in front of the mailbox was of all things a helium balloon. It had sailed as far as it was going sail. (Wowzah, wasn't that a mouth full?) Now as far as I'm concerned that a balloon could have had anything written on. The balloon was all sparkly, multi-colored, star studded (if my memory is serving me)looking, with the words "HAPPY BIRTHDAY" on the front!!. Who knew? A sign or coincidence? The universe works is such mysterious ways. For myself I've got to say, how's that for a "sign" letting us here know a loved one is still around ? I feel you were making sure I remembered this was your day and for you it still means "party time."
I thought that was so cool. Today after work I'm stopping by and getting some balloons myself for me, mom, and my dad to send out into the cosmos reaching for the stars and honoring your life and the gifts you so freely shared with all you knew.
Happy Birthday buddy.
Always,
Kathy Dalton
Athena Costis
June 8, 2009
Although this day is incredibly sad, it's also an honor to celebrate the day you came into our lives. What a blessing! I was able to have such a kind and loving brother for 42 years. Today I will send you balloons with messages from me and the boys. I pray that you are able to see how much you have affected our lives and how empty our lives are without you. You always wanted to make an impact, my little brother, and boy did you. You have touched so many lives. You left us with the courageous tale to share forever. I love you, Alex, and I will make sure you are never forgotten. Big Sis
Paula Ann Costis
June 7, 2009
ALEXANDER GEORGE COSTIS
6/09/66--2/04/09
ELYSIUM
Free from all restraint and sorrow;
Free from pain and future strife;
Free from visions of tomorrow
Laced with threads of ebbing life
Free from riches that shall perish;
Free from bondage to this Earth;
Free from posing endless questions
Vexing Man from Psyche's birth
Free to gain elusive knowledge
Drawn from Wisdom's sacred well;
Free to rise above the clamor
Where unblemished souls may dwell
Free to hover over Beauty
High above the Ocean's swell;
Free to travel with a seagull
Far beyond the world's pell-mell
Mom (6/09/09)
Athena Costis
June 3, 2009
My Beautiful Brother:
Today marks the fourth month since we lost you. Your birthday is also coming up on June 9th. I think about you everyday. There are so many things that remind me of you: an Audi TT, a Toyota Tundra, a palm tree, cats, politics, a great historical or political book, itunes, Johnny Cash's "I've been everywhere" ... The list goes on - you can never be forgotten. I miss your beautiful smile and I have some great pictures of you that are always with me. I wish things really did get easier, but they don't. I still can't seem to wrap my head around the fact that you are really gone. I keep hoping that I will wake up to find it was all a horrible nightmare. I hope to hear from you and I hope you know how much I love you and miss you! Big Sis
Athena Costis
March 3, 2009
Little Brother,
It's been a month since you were taken from us and the range of emotions that I feel day to day is overwhelming. I keep on seeing your smiling face and I hear your wonderful giggle. I just can't accept that you are gone. You have touched so many lives, but your loss leaves us empty. It's just not right- I love you little brother and I hope to get some sign from you. I need to know that you are in a better place. I love you! Athena
Athanassiadis family
February 26, 2009
Dear Athena, Harry and Polly,
I hope that our love and the love of the hundreds of friends whose life Alex touched can be some comfort and can help carry you through the grief of Alex's tragic and untimely loss. May his memory be eternal.
Randi Dalton
February 23, 2009
Athena, Harry and Polly,
I think of you every day and I pray that Alex is resting in peace and that you are not suffering from your tragic loss.
Marilyn Meyer-Behringer
February 21, 2009
Harry,Paula and Athena
I just learned of Alex's death. I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences.
Randy Saake
February 19, 2009
It is with great saddness that I heard of the loss of Alex. Although I had not seen him since school days, he in fact did make an impact on my life as a "gentel giant" even as a young man.
Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Jim Leppo
February 19, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. I went to Jr. High School with Alex and always enjoyed hanging around him and him being my friend. What I remember of Alex was that he had a big heart and always had a way of making me laugh...... I have not talked nor seen him in over 25 years and when I saw the article, my heart just broke...
May God help you thru these tough times.
Tracy Mattos
February 17, 2009
I got the pleasure of meeting Alex while working at the title company. He was such a kind and gentle person. I am deeply sorry to the Costis family for your loss.
Jackie Voyles
February 17, 2009
To the Costis and Dalton Family:
First I want to say how sorry I am for your loss... May god shine his light upon all of you and bring you peace...
I am a co-workers of Kathy's and she always talks about her family so I feel I know you all... Here is a poem for Alex... Kathy called him a gentle giant...
Our Gentle Giant:
You are our gentle giant…
You passed through our lives like a whirled wind, leaving us all with a warm heart…
Your gentle ways of making us laugh, with each and every smile you laid upon us…
You walked in with the power to change us all, leaning on you made it so we would not fall…
You left us too early for the beauty in the sky…I guess God needed you in heaven more…
You Alex will forever be in the hearts of many and the memories of you they will hold dear.
You left your mark in the hearts of many forever… Our gentle giant…
You will be missed by all who knew YOU!
Godspeed our friend…Our Angel…
By: Jackie Voyles 02/17/2009
Kathy
February 15, 2009
Alexis,
Today has been a pretty hard day. Very emotional and unsettling, just like the weather we're having. The reality of what has happened, I think, really is starting to "settle" in. I'm feeling still the shock of your untimely passing and what that means for those of us left behind. Your mom, your dad, and your sister will need lots of support from you in the days to come. As my sister, Connie, has mentioned earlier please do whatever you can to let them know you are still with them and they are not alone.
Alex, it was truly amazing to see and feel all the love so many people have for you and the man you were. Many of your "companions" shared several interesting and funny stories from some of your younger days. I felt honored to be there and be able to learn more about the person you were.
I am sure after some healing your companions, whom you taught well about living life and being in the moment, will continue to share those qualities with all who cross paths with them in the days to come.
From what I witnessed on your "rites of passage" day, you had gathered a very diverse group of men around you who truly loved and admired you.
I'm just not knowing what to do with some of the feelings that are coming through today.
Harry, Polly, and Athena know I am carrying you very close in my heart this day. I love you all very much and I wanted to tell you again.
Connie(Aunt) Dalton
February 14, 2009
Dear Alex,
When i heard the news shock and disbelief washed over me. The tears came. Hundreds of thoughts slammed through my head. The pain that you must have felt. The unbearable pain your Mom, Dad, Athen, Ron & the boys are now feeling. Do the boys--Nikos,Cole and Jesse even know yet?? You are their only uncle--what will they do!! They love Uncle Alex!!!! What will everyone do without you???
There is so much pain and sorrow to be worked through. I belive that you are in a wonderful place,but you may also be having difficulty with this unexpected change. So I feel I can ask this....please each night as your Mom, Dad , Athena and the Boys go to bed, let them feel your spirit softly cradle them to sleep. Let them know you are near.
Rest in peace Alex. Much Love.
Gary and Teri Price
February 12, 2009
To the Costis and Dalton families, we are so sorry to hear of the loss of Alex. Our thoughts and prayers have been with you all since we heard of this tragedy and the heroic effort he made trying to save his loved one. May the cherished memories of your son and brother live in your hearts forever and help sustain you at this time. Gary and Teri Price.
Lawrence Nunes
February 12, 2009
An instant friend, enjoying company, conversation and a cold beer. We did not see much of each other after we first met some ten years ago. He would ask how I was doing and I would ask the same about him. When we did see each other again it was like before, always a treat. The company, conversation and friendship will be missed.
I can only imagine how blessed all of you are who were able to know Alex so well and enjoy him so much in your life. I also can only imagine how great your loss.
I am so deeply sad for your loss.
Amir Jassim
February 12, 2009
To Harry, Polly, and Athena,
Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved Alex. I will always remember that smiling student in my class. My prayers are with you during these hard times. May God bless Alex.
Shawntelle Nunes
February 11, 2009
My thoughts are with all of you who have suffered such a great loss. Life is so truly precious and its time like this that we realize how one moment can change so much in our lives.
"......death is not an ending but a symbol of movement along the path upon which we are all traveling. As it may be painful to lose contact with the physical aspect of one we love, the spirit can never be lost. We have been and always will be a part of each other."
Athena - My dearest friend, I am feeling your pain. Your childhood memories, like mine, will never be the same.
Alex - You will be greatly missed.
My prayers are with all your friends and family.
Ann Anderson
February 11, 2009
Harry, Polly and Athena
I love you all so much. I know you know how much I love Alex and you know that I have adopted you as a part of my extended family ever since that first day in 1967 when you moved into your home on ILA. I have been blessed by having the best little brother ( Alex ) at my side all these years. I loved Alex for all the reasons stated by so many others but mostly because of the way he loved all of you. Alex was definitely one of a kind. He was sweet and cuddly and strong and fierce as an opponent. He was dedicated to his family, his friends and his "causes" . His passion was infectious and as his friends said so well, he motivated us to be the best we could be. I feel so Blessed to have been raised with Alex and Athena and even more to have had the great fortune to have continued our relationship throughout our lives. He is a HERO today to many, but he was always a HERO to me. HE was always there to look out for me and Athena and to marvel in the creation of our children. Although, we feel such desperate pain and sorrow now, I pray with time, we will reach to one another even more, share our best memories and these darkest days and guide one another on as we journey through this thing they call life. ZOE!
Ann Locke Anderson
Keith George Family
February 11, 2009
To the Costis and Dalton families, We offer our sincere condolences on the loss of Alex. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you in this very difficult time. May God be with you in your times of sorrow and give you strength. God bless all of you.
Paul and June Lange
February 11, 2009
We will never forget what a great mentor Alex was to daughter, Janel, when she transferred into Bullard High. We also remember so many good times at the Costis' home with fellow faculty and friends. Paul remembers Alex with great fondness from his classes and I remember him as a young and enthusiastic real estate agent for Parker McCants RE. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. June and Paul
George, Ruzica, Vagelis, Eleni Costis
February 11, 2009
Dear Alex,
The time's come to say goodbye.The sadness's overwhelming.We'll always remember you free spirit and kindness.That bright face and contagious smile.We'll deeply miss you.Kalo taxidi, den tha se ksexasoume pote.
Janel McCants Flanigan
February 11, 2009
Alex was a beautiful person. On several occasions I shed some tears on those big shoulders. I will never forget the kindness, the protection and the twinkle in your eyes. My deepest sympathy to your family.
Kristy Cholakian Licursi
February 11, 2009
To the Costis Family,
I am so very sorry to hear about Alex. I hadn't seen him since high school but will always remember his wonderful smile and outgoing personality.
Our prayers are with all you and your family during this very sad time.
Elena Valdez
February 11, 2009
To the Costis and Dalton Family, I am deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you in this very difficult time...May God be your strength. God bless all of you.
Mark DerGarabedian
February 11, 2009
My deepest condolences to all of you. I had not seen Alex is a long time as I've moved from Fresno, but I remember the great times shared with him in high school. God bless you all.
ANGELA COSTIS
February 11, 2009
Dear Alex,
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
We, your family in Greece, will remember you the days you have been to Greece with your family, as a lively , fun, gentle and kind boy, and later as a gentle lovely young man. We all love you.
Se agapame. Aionia h mnhmh.
May God give His Peace to you dear uncle Harry & Polly and cousin Athena.
Angela , Babis
Manu Shahrokhi
February 10, 2009
To My friend, Harry and The Costis Family,
I am deeply saddened and sorrowful for your loss. Alex was like a son and of course a student. Alex was always so full of life. and a great and joyful man. It is tragic and a loss, memory and love that will be with you and all of us. My heart and prayers are with you. I know this first hand. Harry you know that 12 years ago, in a tragic car accident, I lost seven member of my family (younger brother, his wife, son, my mom, and three nephews and niece). It is not easy but I know you and your wonderful wife are strong and believe in God. Man and women of God believe in and accept the God's will. May you find more strength to cope with this unforgettable loss. I do not what to say but to tell you that I share your sorrow and pray for you. I know Alex is in a better place and I know we all go there, we know that Alex and my brother and his companions will be there to make our transition a little easier. On behalf of my family, our deepest condolences to you and your loved ones.
Manu
Don & Gail Baumback
February 10, 2009
What can be more painful than losing a child, we cannot imagine what you are going through. However, we want you to know our thoughts and prayers are with you. Alex will always be a part of our happy memories, expecially when he came to Maui and helped us celebrate Rich and Jamie's wedding.
Sareang Nhim
February 10, 2009
Dear Costis Family,
We are deeply sorry for your lost. Our condolences are with you and your family. May God bless Alex and your family.
-The Nhim Family
Lisa (Caire) Houts
February 10, 2009
To the Costis Family,
We send our deepest condolences. We are so saddened to hear this news. I remember going to elementary school with Alex, as well as being on London semester with him. He was a very special person. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God give you his peace.
Tiffany
February 10, 2009
Costis and Dalton Family: I’m truly sorry for your loss. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. May peace and comfort surround you during these hard times. Thinking of you-Tiffany
Eni
February 10, 2009
Costis and Dalton Family: We are really sorry for your loss. I didn't know Alex but have heard stories of what a great person he was. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Athena, Please know that we are here for you. I miss you and Love you. -Ruiz Family
HUGO & SALLY NOROYAN
February 10, 2009
We will miss a good friend and a great guy! Our deepest sympathies
to all his family.
Edward Crossman
February 10, 2009
I have written a poem as a tribute to Alex and his family.
Said Charon to the manchild
Aside the River Styx
Are you sure your time is due
and that your name be Alex?
I come by my own accord
was the answer firm and true
to right what was a perceived wrong
and see this error through
I see your actions pure enough Border on the stoic
You could not wait what was your fate
You leave the world heroic
It was my nature from the start
a gift as though a fire
to sing a song, to make a friend
to seek for something higher
Fare well then Alex
As your friends do set the Pyre
I'll let thee pass into the last
As the Cherubs play the Lyre
With love, Ed
Ron Sr.
February 10, 2009
Dear Alex,
I miss you as a son, your "free" spirit, your infectious grin when you spoke, and your love of others. When I think of you--you are always here and always will be...
God love you Alex.
Kathy
February 10, 2009
To Harry, Polly, and my sister Athena,
I am deeply, deeply sorrowful for the loss of your son and loving brother. As ever and always in times of grief , "mere words" can't ever begin express the emotions that besiege us during these times--like the waves of the ocean flowing in and out touching the sand on the shore.
As I think of Alex and bring him close into my heart, I am remembering such a sweet, caring, giving, and sometimes mischievious man. He was always so full of life. Although he was grown into manhood, he still viewed the world as great place to play and learn. He nurtured and loved his "child" within and wasn't afraid to let that part of him shine through for the world to see. What a wonderful trait and a shining example.
Alex was a very gentle man who gave of himself willingly to those he loved and cared about; sometimes at the expense of self...Selfless, what a great love for one to show and teach to those around them.
This evening we'll be there to honor the "rites of passage" for Alex's traveling to the other side. Although this was something no one was prepared for, I believe Alex was called to the other side for great reason. Maybe God, in His wisdom, saw how brightly Alex shined his Light and decided He needed Alex back "Home." I see Alex as a "Light Warrior" in God's Legions of spirits who assist us all on this earthly plane.
I know I will miss seeing that smile of his and his special way of being that only he could do.
I love you Athena, Polly, and Harry. I would, if it were in my power to do so, change these circumstances in a heartbeat myself...Know that I am here for you.
Always, and again, with Love,
Lance Torre
February 10, 2009
Kid, it`s me, Kid!
I am still waiting for your call, but I understand you`re with the greatest teacher of them all,
You are in my thoughts, and in my heart,
Knowing you are in a better place,
Comforts my heart!
Rick Loyd
February 10, 2009
Alex,
I miss you so much "Kid." I will always remember all the good times we've had, the trips we've taken and the risks we made (those darn palm trees). I will never, EVER forget you. You are so missed by everyone. We don't understand why you had to be taken away from your family and friends so soon.
You're the best friend, buddy, brother, uncle, Son that anyone could ever ask for.
I will see you again someday Kid. I love you Man. Don't worry about Shadow, we're taking care of her. She misses you...she waits for you at the end of the driveway.
Save me a spot in the Cabana by the pool.
Your friend and brother.......Rick
Matt Ray
February 10, 2009
Alex was responsible for many great experinces. We all remember the times. Alex was my friend for life and recently helped me through a difficut divorce by offering anything he could to make things better as a friend. You saved me when I needed it. This was your nature.
Alex had boundless energy and was unmatched in his abilty to succeed.
I was your adopted little brother and I will never forget you. I thank you and love you (Bros forever).
Loretta
February 10, 2009
Alex
The Man/Boy and gentle teddy bear I knew. He had a smile on his face most of the time. A good word to and for everyone. A great mind so full of information, no matter what the topic was about. He loved his family and friends.
The little boy in him showed up when his nephews, Nikos, Colton, and Jesse, celebrated their birthdays and Christmas. The array of toys he brought them--saying, "Little boys should have them."
Alex's best trait was putting other people first, unusual in our world today. He showed this side of himself in his last act in this world!
I love you Alex and will miss you much.
Loretta
Jack and Carolyn Norlyn
February 10, 2009
Costis Family - We ache for the loss of Alex and the devastating pain that you are experiencing. Our thoughts and love are with you.
Monica Frisoli Bray
February 10, 2009
Some of our fondest childhood memories were shared with Alex and his family. We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Most sincerely,
The Frisoli Family
(Maria, Mike, Matt, & Monica)
Maria Fierro (Frisoli)
February 10, 2009
Athena, Polly, & Harry;
I am saddened to hear about the tragic death of Alex. Monica called me last night to tell me of the terrible news and my heart sank. It is hard enough to lose the ones you love, but in such a sudden tragic way is the hardest. I remember when we were kids and how much fun Alex always brought to our lives, and it sounds as though in his adult life he continued to make people happy. Our hearts go out to you in your time of loss and Alex will always be thought of with happy memories. I speak for my brothers and sister and all of our childhood memories on Ila. God Bless. Maria
Ron
February 9, 2009
Alex,
I will miss your generous nature and interesting perspective on life. Thanks for being a great brother to my wife and a fun loving Uncle to our three sons. Thank you for giving me 15 years of friendship and for the many great memories. I will always hold you in high regards.
Athena, Polly and Harry
If I could shift the burden of grief from your shoulders to mine I would do it in a heartbeat. I love all of you, I am here for you and will help you in any way I can. I hope that all of you will seek and find comfort from your family and friends.
Barri Kay-Gowder
February 9, 2009
Dear Athena and Family-Although I never met your brother Alex, I have heard things about him through the years. I do know how important of a person he was in your lives and I know he will be greatly missed. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time.
Betsy Kohler
February 9, 2009
Athena and family; our wish for you is that God will hold you in his hands so that you may heal and the memory of Alex will give you great joy always. Love and support to you all, Betsy and Evan Kohler
Rich Nino
February 9, 2009
Dearest Alex, I will miss you so much brother. You are in my thoughts every second. I can remember so many great times with you.. it hurts me so bad that you are gone. Thinking that you are in a wonderful place now helps me get through the pain. You were the best buddy a guy could ever ask for. Some day I will be with you again brother and I can't wait to say whats up KID C. Its good to see you.
Your Loving Brother Rich.....
Kurt Gregory
February 9, 2009
My prayers are with your entire family during this difficult time. I will always remember Alex as a man that brought a lot of joy to those around him.
Kristin and Brett
February 9, 2009
Costis Family:
Alex had a quality of conviviality that is rare and unusual. We will remember him for his laugh and the seamless way he was able to enter into any conversation or discussion with a wealth of knowledge that seemed unmatched. Our deepest sympathies go out to you for this incredible loss.
Fran & Jordan Brodsky
February 9, 2009
Athena & Family - We were very saddened to hear of Alex's passing and we offer you our sincere sympathy.
Fran & Jordan Brodsky
(Randi Dalton's parents)
Terri Sameron
February 9, 2009
To all the loving family members and my friend Athena my heart goes out to all of you. Just know that Alex would have wanted all of you to take care of each other. I am so very sorry for your lose. I know your hearts are broken but find Alex in the sunrise of each day and treasure the years of memories.
John Few
February 9, 2009
TO: The Costis Family:
I loved Alex like a brother, and feel fortunate to have been able to call him my friend. He had a huge heart, and only wanted the best for those around him. I am completely devastated by the news of his passing, and can only find comfort in the countless memories of the wonderful times that we shared. He would want us all to smile and remember him fondly - which I always will. He was brilliant, loyal beyond compare, and had the sharpest sense of humor. He will be deeply missed, and you have our most profound sympathies.
Jayme Guitron
February 9, 2009
To the Costis and Dalton Family: Unfortunatley, I never got a chance to meet Alex but know how much Athena loves her brother. My heart breaks for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
The Guitron Family
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