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for Paul Molnar
Wm. Martin Smith
May 10, 2022
Looking for old friends and classmates and found Paul.
He and I were classmates in West Logan Grade School and attended Logan High School. We were great friends for so many years and one never forgets their buddies.
Susan Burden
April 23, 2009
Words can not express how I feel about losing Paul. I was lucky to have known him and wish it could have been for much longer. Paul was very welcoming to me from the first moment that I met him. He was thoughtful, kind, smart, funny - simply a really good man. I know he will live on through many great memories and through the family that I now share.
Gary and Betty Leiser
April 17, 2009
Our condolences go to the Molnar Family. We knew Paul through our mutual friends, Donna and Lee Weppler. They spoke of Paul often and always with fondness. We did have the privilege of being with Paul a very few times; enough to know we wish we had known him better. He will be missed.
Caroline Toth
April 16, 2009
Uncle Paul was truely one of the most amazing people I have ever met. I remember when I was little, I would always be so excited to go up to Fresno to visit because I knew he and Aunt Betty would be there to welcome me, make me laugh and be there for me through everything and anything I had to encounter. Uncle Paul was always the one to sneak me candy before dinner or to teach me how to play a new game. However, I highly admired him for his optimism and genuinely good heart. His presence never went unnoticed and he was the type of person that everybody got along with. Personally, he is an inspiration to me and how i hope to live my life. There won't be a day that goes by where I won't miss him, and I'm truely blessed to have him touch my life the way he has. We love you, Uncle Paul. You've helped us all grow stronger in some way.
Paula Molnar
April 16, 2009
Although the miles separated us, I cherish the time I was able to spend with my Uncle Paul. He was with me on my first trip to Disney. I recall the Christmas when everyone had the flu (yikes), Uncle Paul and my Dad admiring my Dad's garden (amazing when we realized how much alike they were) and riding the cable cars in San Francisco (watch those toes!!). More than anything, I know that I always felt welcomed, loved, and accepted by Uncle Paul. He was truly a special man and I am grateful for the time I was able to spend with him. I will truly miss him. It is a tremendous loss to the Molnar family and to anyone that was fortunate enough to know him
I send special Love to Aunt Betty, Erik and Melinda.
jaimee helmstetler
April 16, 2009
Dear Aunt Betty,Erick and Mendy,
I remember the day I got the phone call my mom that Uncle Paul had passed. As I could hear in her voice the sadness I realized that I didn't just loose and uncle but my mother had lost her brother. This was when this past summer provided us with alot of memories. Even though there was distance that separated our families this summer was there for catching up and building new ones. My boys were even touch with his loss as they said he was so cool. If an 13 year old and an 18 year old would say that then you must have made one awesome impression. I will never forget his laugh and how he alway seem so happy. If we all could be so lucky to touch peoples lives like he did. My prayer go out to you during this time.
Love you,
Jaimee,Darren,Tyler&Dakota
Helmstetler
Tom Toth
April 16, 2009
Uncle Paul was more than an uncle to me. He was my big brother, my friend. I can't remember a time in my life when he wasn't there. During the good times, he was there to share in my joy and laughter. During the bad times, he was there to offer me his support. I once heard a saying that goes something like this: "For the short time we are on this earth, if just one person can say that their life was better for knowing us, then our life was a success." If that is true, then Uncle Paul's life was extremely successful. I can honestly say, my life was better and I am a better person for having him in my life. I will never forget his optimistic outlook on life, his trademark smile and the twinkle that was always in his eye. We will miss you Uncle Paul. You will never be forgotten.
Stan Scrivner
April 15, 2009
It is with saddened heart and swollen eyes I write these words.
I have known many wonderful men, but Paul you were SPECIAL. We put out many a camp fire, under Florence Lake stars, swopping lies and telling each other stories never to be repeated.
We knocked down one too many Rum and Cokes, told each other jokes - and laughed until we cried.
Paul, you owe me one more fishing trip, so bait up, get the canoe ready, no more excuses. P.S. We will take the wives next - no more lies.
Your friend, Stan
Carole and Gaza Molnar
April 15, 2009
Dear Betty, Erik and Mendy,
I just recently received this poem which struck me as something Paul would have said to us all. I hope you will find some comfort in reading it.
MISS ME .... BUT LET ME GO
When I come to the end of the road
And the sun sets for me.
I want not rites in a gloom filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little - but not too long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that we once shared.
Miss me . . . But let me go!
For this is a journey we all must take.
And each must go alone.
It's all a part of the Master's plan.
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick of heart.
Go to the friends we know.
And bury your sorrows
In doing good deeds.
MISS ME ... BUT LET ME GO!
We love you and miss Paul so much.
Carole and Gaza
Sandy, Justin, Stacy and Kayla Rickard
April 15, 2009
When I heard the news of Uncle Paul's death, I was left with an uneasy feeling that he was taken so soon. He seemed to be living life to the fullest and was enjoying his "retirement" years to have it taken ever so suddenly. Then I smiled because I realized that he was in a much better and happier place and was looking down on all of us. He would be reunited with his parents, my grandparents, as well as his younger brother whom he talked about frequently.
We will surely miss Uncle Paul and his contagious smile and strong wits that were always present when he came to visit. I will surely cherish this past summer's visit and how he chose to stay with my mother and I(as well as my children) as my dad was having surgery in the hospital. We talked for hours about the past and how he wanted my family and I to visit him in Oregon and see the "other ocean" in the near future.
Aunt Betty, Mendy, and Erik, may God heal your hurting hearts and give you the strength to get through this very hard time. Aunt Betty, Uncle Paul couldn't have asked for a better life partner than you. You two were together through thick and thin and you knew how to stand your grounds with a "Molnar". We all know how strong willed that family(including my mom) can be. Mendy and Erik you both were lucky to have such a wonderful father. Just know that he loved you both with all of his heart and soul. You were his life and he talked about you constantly. He couldn't have asked for better children. Just know he will always be there for you guys!
Uncle Paul until we meet again..........
Your niece,
Sandy and family
Sally Osborn
April 14, 2009
Betty, Mendy and Erik,
My eyes well up with tears when I begin to think of your husband and your father. He was such a rare and exceptional person. Someone that I really looked up to. Brimming with personality, love and smarts, I am incredibly, overwhelmingly honored to be one of his many adopted daughters. There are so many memmories that I hold near and dear to my heart. Swimming in your pool on a hot summer day after we had run around terrorizing the neighborhood. Or getting a pop out of the soda machine at A to Z Muffler while he worked. And of course there is one of my favorites...Mendy and I getting yelled at by Paul for leaving Polly Wags in a milk carton in your garage. What ever we were up to, it seems your dad would figure out what we were doing and give a little chuckle. That joyful laugh of his was always my favorite.
I am hopeful that by now you know how much you are all loved by those who loved Paul. You Molnars are the best. Each of you added to my upbringing and I am grateful that I had Paul and you all in my life.
There are a few things that always bring a memmory of Paul to mind for me..passing an antique store, seeing someone with a welding mask on, biscuits and gravy and of course...Peanut Butter Fudge.
I send you a big hug and say that I share that heaviness you feel in your heart. What we all would do to spend just one more momment with him.
With all my love,
Sally
Patty Forrest
April 14, 2009
Dear Aunt Betty, Erick and Mendy,
As we mourn with you the loss of Uncle Paul we are reminded of a life that touched so many. Life is a journey and as Uncle Paul traveled that road he always took time to embrace others. Although distance separated us from being around him often the times we shared provided memories that will always be with us. I recall his ever present smile and a sense of humor that made anyone he met feel welcomed. He never seemed to meet a stranger and always had a heart that accepted others. I remember as a child the visits from my Uncle Paul and Aunt Betty from California as if they were coming from some foreign country to visit us. He always gave a big hug that melted away the miles. I remember his happy spirit that truly loved living life and being with his family. He always took time out of his schedule to talk or visit. Once, when I was in the hospital having given birth to my son Andrew prematurely I recall a knock on the door and then entered a familar smile. Uncle Paul and Aunt Betty had taken time to come and see me before traveling back home to California. His encouraging words and presence made me feel that all would be okay.
This past summer will always be remembered as a blessing. He shared the many pictures from his travels and new home in Oregon.He spoke of his love for the outdoors and nature and I remembered thinking, like myself, for him being outdoors made him feel closer to God. As we spoke he gave an invitation to come out this coming summer when he heard we were planning a trip out west and he excitedly spoke of the things we could do. I thank God that He gave us this last opportunity to spend some time together before his journey took him home.
May you know Uncle Paul is at peace with the one who created the beautiful nature he so loved. May you feel the embrace of God and the spirit of His presence as you heal. Know too that Uncle Paul lives forever both in heaven and in our hearts.
We love you all,
Patty and Andrew
Dawn Molnar-Wilson
April 13, 2009
Dear Aunt Betty, Erick, and Mendy,
I mourn with you in the loss of Uncle Paul. I know that we all must die for that is part of life, but still it is hard to let go of those we love so dearly.
Uncle Paul had such a dynamic personality: a beaming smile, a contagious laugh, and a quick wit. He made those around him feel positive and happy and want to embrace life as he did. Although these qualities made Uncle Paul so endearing to me, I feel that he holds a special place in my heart because he reminds me so much of my Dad. They both shared a love of the outdoors, especially fishing, and carpentry. Their skills and craftsmanship were apparently more of a learned trade of necessity which they have carried and used throughout their lives.
I am grateful that Uncle Paul and Aunt Betty were able to visit with us this past summer and even more grateful that Deanna was able to spend time with her Great-Uncle Paul. I remember him encouraging her to eat her fruit saying “…it will make you grow big and strong” and Deanna matter-of-factly responding “No, it will make me poop better”. Yes, it made him speechless for a few seconds (if you can believe a Molnar was made speechless) then he laughed so hard he turned bright red stating “Well, I guess she told me”. I also remember leaving Deanna in the care of her Papaw and Great-Uncle Paul while we went shopping only to return and find the two of them completely worn out by a 3 year old!
I feel blessed to have great memories of such a special person for in our memories, Uncle Paul will live forever. May you find peace with time.
I love you all –Tutti
Jim Bob and Melanie Frank
April 13, 2009
Dear Betty, Erik, and Mendy:
I didn't get to spend much time with Uncle Paul but from the many stories I have heard about him I know he loved fishing, antiquing and carpentry work. I think we had a lot in common because these are the same hobbies that I enjoy so much. Mamma says I am natured so much like him. During his visits, he loved to get together with Melanie and go antique hunting.
We will miss his visits to North Carolina and were looking forward to experiencing more good times together.
We love you.
Melanie and Jim Bob
Freddie Paul and Donnett Frank
April 13, 2009
Dear Betty, Erik and Mendy:
I was named after my Papaw Molnar and Uncle Paul. I am proud to have the name of two such wonderful men. I was lucky enough to inherit their love for carpentry work which has become a big part of my lively hood. Mamma says it runs in the family.
During the few times that Donnett and I had spent with Uncle Paul, we grew to love and respect him. We will miss his good since of humor and his adventuresome spirit.
We love you.
Freddie Paul and Donnett
Fred Frank
April 13, 2009
Dear Betty, Erik, and Mendy:
I will always remember the day that Freddie Paul was born and I went to pick up everyone to take them to our house to see our new baby. Paul said, "Let's name the baby Paul after his dad." I said, "No, let's name him Fred." Paul said, "OK, we'll name him Freddie Paul." This is how my oldest son got his name. I have always been proud of giving him the name Paul because of the fine respectful man his Uncle Paul grew up to be.
I will alway miss and love Paul. I am so saddened he had to leave us so soon.
I love you all.
Uncle Fred
Mary Frank
April 13, 2009
Dear Betty, Erik and Mendy:
Paul and I traveled many miles together in West Virginia walking to deliver papers, climbing up the mountain, picking flowers for our school classes, going to get materials for building our house and helping daddy turn our shack into a nice home for all of us. We also spent many hours together helping take care of the younger children. Paul had to take over many responsibilities for the family and was like a father to his younger brothers.
He has now gone on a journey we all have to take alone and he has gone ahead and taken this journey without me. He has left me with many cherished memories of the good times we had together. I will always love and miss him.
His Buddy
"Sis" Mary
Sandy, Justin, Stacy, and Kayla Rickard
April 13, 2009
It's hard to put into words exactly how you feel when such an unexpected event takes someone without warning. Aunt Betty, it was great seeing you and Uncle Paul this past summer and talking about old times. He was a very knowledgeable man and seemed to remember everything from any place or time. My kids were so looking forward to visiting you guys in Oregon in the near future and be able to "see the other ocean". Please come and visit--the door will always be open--you will always be our Aunt/Great Aunt Betty.
Uncle Paul was a very intelligent man who could answer any questions you may have had. He loved his family, kids and his extended family unconditionally and even though at times he had to "keep the peace" between his brothers and sisters he still loved them the same. Thanks for always being honest and straight-forward and keeping your sister/my mom in line (as well as Betty-hahahaha). You were a great brother to her and you will truly be missed. Until we meet again..........
Your niece,
Sandy and family
Ann Slaughter
April 13, 2009
I remember the night Paul was born. It had been raining alot and the creek was getting higher. We lived on one side of the creek and a road was beside the house against a mountain. The company houses were across the creek with the railroad tracks. Anyway, he came without any trouble, except Mama was alone with her 3 daughters age 2, almost 4 and 6. When Dad came home from working(in the mine) he saw his first-born son turning blue. Mama had wrapped him in blankets trying to keep him warm and us quiet. He took off for help from a neighbor and I thank God they responded, doctors also, so quickly since we had him to share for 70 years. Praise God for good people. Betty wrapped him in blankets at the hospital in his last days and I cherish the love these two women(Mom and Betty) had for him at the beginning to the end of his days.
I also remember his first day of school and how scared he was. I wanted to stay with him, but was told I had to go to the other building where the 4th-5th-6th grade levels were. Mary, his sister in 3rd grade, darted out of no where and took his hand and said, "I will help you, Paul!" Thank God for family, love and concern. I love you Paul, my oldest brother. You were a wonderful brother, father, uncle, great uncle, and husband and you will be missed tremondously. Thanks for the wonderful memories and God bless!
Monique Scrivner-Mays
April 12, 2009
One can not put into words the impressions and impact that a loved one has made in their lives.
I have had the honor to know a Man, absolute friend, dedicated Father, and devoted Husband as Paul, Papa Paul, and Dad.
From childhood to adult their were three things I can say that this wonderful being could be sought out for. Straight forward honesty, dependability, and dedication.
He will be missed, loved, and most of all NOT forgotten because of the Man he was.
Thank you, Paul/Dad
Love Always,
Betty Molnar
April 12, 2009
TO THE LOVE OF MY LIFE
How thankful and forunate I am to have shared 49 years of magic with you. I quote from your journal, "You are to me more precious than money or gold." It
is impossible to put into words how much I miss your sense of humor, the diddies you sang for me daily, and the companionship we shared. I will look
for your promise of the daily kiss carried by the wind. How lucky Erik
and Melinda were to have your unconditional love. You were the best Husband and Father. You will carry my heart with you always.
Your loving wife. Betty
The Molnar family would like to thank all for their support, kindness
and love during our time of loss. We sincerely appreciate all.
Judy and Jerry Dollar
April 9, 2009
Paul was a very unique person.he had talents that most of us, envied . he could be one of the best joke tellers around, on one hand and write some beautiful and encouraging thoughts in journals , letters, to his family. he will remain a man always missed by those of who were priviliged to have known him. Rest in peace, Paul.
Terry Scrivner
April 9, 2009
It is funny how things turn out. Sometimes there is an unexpected twist which changes your life. I moved to Rd. 34 3/4 with my family in 1974. We bought a house across the street from our good friends, Miles and JoAnn Yates. They did not have children yet, so JoAnn enjoyed babysitting Jenny and Sally. My ex-husband, Bill Butler, and Miles had worked as wranglers in Yosemite. We built our little two acre ranches and helped each other do neighborly things. Then, a few years later, they moved to Yakima, Washington. Our good friends left us! But ... (here is the twist of fate), the Molnars bought the Yates' place. And we became fast friends.
Another family moved to Rd. 34 3/4. They built a house right next to me. How dare they take our kite flying field! Over time Erik, Mendy, Jenny, and Sally became friends with Monique and Paul Scrivner. Betty and Paul encouraged the kids by taking them to the desert and to Shaver Lake, and by teaching them to ride the ATVs. We got involved with Boy Scouts and 4-H and sports.
Meanwhile, back at the ranch, I had to let go of my cowboy. I was determined to raise my girls without help from anybody. But, another twist of fate brought change to my plans. When my water well began making strange noises, Stan Scrivner climbed over the barbed wire fence to see if he could solve the problem. He had not asked for permission, nor told me about the pump. I was still being unneighborly because he bought our kite field. Betty and Paul helped by lending their ears and hands. They encouraged us with their wise experience and humor.
Stan and I married in 1979 and my family of three became our family of six. Better yet, Betty and Paul became another set of parents. I called my youngest daughter Sally Molnar because she spent so much time across the street. We are thankful to have such good friends.
Everything was going smoothly. Our kids grew up and went to college. Betty got her teaching credential and master's degree in Special Education. I taught elementary school. Paul managed Fold Pak after selling his muffler businesses. Stan worked at the Fresno Bee for 40 years. Then we started retiring. More changes came to Rd. 34 3/4 when the Molnars sold their second home and moved to Oregon. We were very sad when they left, but intended to visit as soon as we sold our home. We moved to Carpinteria and only visit Rd. 34 3/4 to clean and make repairs to our house which is still for sale.
Before our last visit to Madera, Paul called to let us know they were in Fresno. We were looking forward to seeing them. Unfortunately, things changed before we arrived. Instead of getting together to plan another fishing trip, we visited Paul in the hospital and at the rehab center. His love of life and adventure will stay in our memories forever.
Thank you Betty, Mendy, and Erik, for letting us be part of your lives. Stay in touch. Come stay for a spell.
Love, Terry
Melinda Molnar
April 8, 2009
My father was a kind, intelligent man, who had a great sense of humor. He loved his family and extended family and enjoyed traveling to visit with all of them.
My parents really liked one another. After almost 49 years, to see two people who were such good friends and companions is rare in this world. Erik and I are lucky to have had such amazing role models to guide and help us figure things out in life.
One of my favorite memories of my Dad was on a fishing trip out of Homer, Alaska. We had been fishing for a few hours and all 6 of us were catching fish and having a great time. They were nice fish but no record setters. Dad got a bite and the fish fought hard for quite a while. Finally, and with the help of a crewmen, they landed the huge halibut on deck. My Dad stood over the monster fish and had the biggest smile on his face. I will never forget how excited he was (we both were). On the way back to the dock we agreed that this was one of our best fishing trips ever.
Mom, Erik, Sandra, Susan, I love you very much.
April 6, 2009
My friend Paul has left me to be caretaker of our more than 50 years of memories, which we have shared. I am so fortunate to have had him for a friend. He will be missed by all the people whose lives he touched. Harvey Feinman
Donna Weppler
April 4, 2009
Dear Betty, Erik, Melinda, Sandra and Susan,
Times like this it is very hard to express in words the thoughts that are in my heart and mind. Paul was more than a great friend. He was even better than a brother because we didn't fight and just enjoyed being together. My heart really aches and my eyes have hurt so much trying to keep from crying in front of all of you. I wanted to be the strong one and many times just didn't feel strong enough to keep the tears in check. You ARE a fantastic family and I know for certain that you will all continue to support each other in times of need.
Paul was a fantastic friend (for 51 years) in the truest sense, very loving, with a super sense of humor, the best at doing just about anything that needed being done... painting walls and garage doors, fixing fences, hanging drapes, laying tile on the front porch, repairing carpet/tile edges, pruning trees, checking out air conditioning ducts in the attic, plumbing, electrical etc.
Paul was very competitive and would get so angry with me when we played the Old Lady card game, because I never laid down the cards he expected me to because for some reason he always knew who had what cards in their hands. Then there was the Trivial Pursuit game he hated because he didn't see any use for trivia.
Because Paul was so well read he could talk intelligently about almost anything and we had many many great conversations over the years on everything from politics to religion.
I loved Paul very much and will miss him with all my heart !
I'd like to close this message to you all with a poem I really love called: THE BROKEN CHAIN
" We little knew that morning that God was going to call your name. In life we loved you dearly, in death we do the same. It broke our hearts to lose you, you did not go alone; for part of us went with you, the day you were called home. You left us peaceful memories, your love is still our guide, and though we cannot see you, you are always at our side. Our family (and friend) chain is broken, and nothing seems the same, but as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again."
I love you all,
Donna
Kevin Flannery
April 3, 2009
I am a friend and coworker of Melinda's, and I was lucky enough to meet Paul and spend various occasions over the years with him and Betty. What a great guy! I used to tell him he was a saint for the ribbing he took from Betty and Melinda. He always just laughed it off, but he would get his verbal revenge pretty quickly most times. You had to be on your toes with those three. He was always willing to help me with my dumb projects, just to be helpful. I feel honored and lucky that I got to know him and have him at my house, and my family feels the same. My life is better for having known Paul. Best of luck to all family and friends, as we are all feeling the loss of such a good guy.
Jere Farino
March 31, 2009
To the Molnar Family:
I will always remember Paul's sense of humor. Specifically, a private joke regarding an orange work jumpsuit. His kindness was infectious, his friendship always consistent. Helpful in many ways with his hands, Paul could fix just about anything! He could join in a conversation with a group of women and not be intimidated one bit. Paul adored his family. They were the most important thing to him and it showed!
This world will be a lot more dim without Paul Molnar, but isn't heaven a lot more bright?
Gaza Molnar
March 30, 2009
Because I was Paul's youngest brother, I don't have the many memories of him from my childhood as my older brother and sisters. I do remember watching him walking across the tipple the day he left for the Air Force to begin his new life apart from us.
Most of my memories come from our wonderful times spent together during our adult years. Now I can only dream about all the future times we had planned to share together.
Mendy called us two peas in a pod based not only on our similar appearances but our same interests, talents and views on life despite the miles between us. Now I am only one pea in the pod.
I will miss my oldest brother more than words can say.
The lone pea,
Gaza
Carole Molnar
March 30, 2009
I have many cherished memories of Paul in my heart. I always admired his sense of adventure, his quick whit and his creativity.
Paul never forgot his humble beginnings which played such an important role in molding his unforgettable character. He left a lasting impression on everyone he met.
Gaza and I had only begun to build on our memories of Paul when he was taken from us. I was truly blessed to have had such a wonderful brother-in-law.
Juanita Melnik
March 30, 2009
I had the opportunity to really know Paul and Betty well during their visit with Carole and Gaza this past summer. They were so friendly and funny. I enjoyed their visit tremendously. They made me laugh as we cooked supper together on a day when Carole was not feeling well.
I know he will be greatly missed by everyone who knew him.
Paul Scrivner
March 29, 2009
I have until this date been unable to express my sorrow for this passing of such a wonderful man. Paul, as do each of you, holds a special place in my heart and I hope for you all a peace which only faith may bring in the knowledge that you are in the thoughts of us all. For everything learned I am deeply greateful and never forgetful. How fortunate for me to have known Paul. I send to you Betty, Melinda and Erik my deepest regards. Always.
Misty Dawson
March 28, 2009
Dear Betty,Melinda,& Erik, I am truly sorry with the passing of your husband/father. I didn't know him, but felt as if I had from all the wonderful stories Monique has told me. This world has truly lost a wonderful man and he will greatly be missed. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers always.
Misty Dawson & Family
Frank & Maria Santiago
March 27, 2009
Mrs. Betty, Erik & Melinda,I am writing to express to you my greatest sympathy as you cope with the passing of your husband/father. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family during what must be the most trying of times. God Bless you.
Frank & Maria Santiago & Family
Bob Warren, Sr
March 26, 2009
I know that many people will miss Paul greatly because he was so easy to like. I liked Paul because he was fun to be around and lived his life doing what made him happy. One of the things that made Paul happy was working with kids and he was loved by all of the kids in our scout troop. Talented but humble, he touched many lives. Thanks for the memories, Paul.
Hugh McLean
March 25, 2009
To my adopted Father and Family: I have the utmost respect for Paul, who took on the role of my father in many ways. From spending time at the baseball diamond, on many Boy Scout functions, giving me a job at A to Z, and most importantly teaching me many important lessons in life. Some of my fondest/cherished childhood memories were spent at the Molnar Home on 34 3/4 Road I spent more time there with my adopted brother Erik than I sometimes spent in my own home. Paul is a rare gem that I was lucky enough for Betty, Erik, and Mendy to share with me. Paul, thank you for everything and I look forward to seeing you on the other side.
Love, Hughie
Charlie Fielder
March 24, 2009
To Betty, Melinda and Erik: Paul was a very cool person to know. I admired him for his easy smile and sharp mind. He was able to tap into that kid energy and have fun while also being a responsible adult. Something we all aspire to do. Paul did it. Thank you for sharing this beautiful life with me. His clever spirit is alive in each of us. Bless his soul.
love, Charlie
Erik Molnar
March 24, 2009
Dad, I am sure gonna miss you. You were the best father any son could have ever asked for. You taught me so many things. You gave so much of your time to me whether it was Boy Scouts, sports, restoring cars, or helping with school. The trips we took across America are cherished memories that I will NEVER forget. I hope you knew how much I loved you. I also hope that you knew that you would never have to worry about mom being helped with anything that may come up--Melinda & I will make sure of that. I am saddend that you didn't get to live to see your first grandchild, but just know that he or she WILL be told of just how great a man you were. Sandra & I will do our best to raise our children the way you did. I love you Dad, Vaya con Dios
Richard Holiman
March 24, 2009
To Betty, Mendy, and Erik,
It is with great sadness that I am typing this to you. I felt like one of the adopted children mentioned in the obituary. At a time in my life when I couldn't relate to my own parents you opened your home to me allowed me to attend the "Church of the Piston Heads" every Sunday and learn about cars from the master himself. What I've learned I am now passing down to my son. When Josh asks how I learned to do something on his Jeep a story always unfolds linked to Paul. I wouldn't be the person I am today with both Paul and Betty's influence. I wish you all the best in this time of sadness.
With love and a great sense of loss
Richard, Connie, Alex, Josh, and Raya
Chris Marshall
March 24, 2009
Betty, Melinda & Erik,
I was saddened to hear of Paul's passing. He was a good dude and I'll miss his visits up here, or down here, depending on which way he and Betty were traveling from. I'll never forget the time I took him Salmon fishing and all we caught was a bunch of jack smelt. We didn't even know what they were, but we were catching 2-3 at a time and they fought hard. He had a blast, and so did I. He'll be missed.
Craig Walker
March 23, 2009
To Erik, Melinda, and Miss Betty,
My family sends our most heartfelt condolences and prayers to you. Mr. Paul was a great person, and I will cherish the memories I have, like the great burnt hot dog feast and cruising with he and Erik in the '66 GTO. Visiting ya'll was like going to my own home. Mr. Paul will be greatly missed by a multitude of people, and please take comfort that they are all sharing thier prayers with you.
Lisa Soto
March 23, 2009
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family Erik.
David Lake
March 23, 2009
Dear Mrs. Molnar and family,
I wanted to write and say how sad I am to read of Mr. Molnar's death. My one and only memory goes back to last summer when I met two amazing people in Logan County WVa. Paul and Betty helped me tremondously with a project I am working on of which his brother Frankie is a part. I came looking for information, which I got, but so much more. I must say that that day, I met two of the most interesting, engaging and giving people in my 43 years. Paul was very open and willing to share a story. I am forever grateful for this. We spent time together visiting the gravesites of his father and brother. This is time I treasure. He was a truly good person, with much more to give. Thank you for the moment in time you gave me.
ryan mays
March 22, 2009
It dosent seem like it could have happened, but we all are going to feel the effects and the memory of popa Paul will remain. I am going to miss him dearly and all the great times we've had together in our expierences. I've learned a great many of this from Popa Paul and have shared many. He was like another grandpa to me. I'm very sorry for everyone who else has lost him because he was a great friend and family member..He is and always will be in our hearts forever. I have had the best chance to be close to him living across the street when I was younger, many years ago but the memories were great enough to remember :) . I will miss dearly my Popa Paul. Love, Ryan
March 21, 2009
Hi Betty, Erik, and Mendy,
It is with great sadness in my heart that I send you this greeting. I am so sorry about Paul's death. I loved him too, but I can not begin to understand how you are feeling now. The grieving process is different for each of us and only time will allow you to understand the depth of your own emotions. I remember when my dad died that every day was different, some days I was able to celebrate his wisdom, love, and wit. Other days I could only cry over my loss. I never know what to say to folks who have suffered a great loss. But another thing I learned after dad's death, was how much I appreciated when other people shared personal stories of how their lives benefited from knowing him, so I thought I'd share my favorite Paul story with you. Can you guess what it is? That's right, the Trivial Pursuit night. I have told this story so many times over the years and always nearly pee my pants. No one else appreciates it quite like me, but no matter! As you know, we often spent the evening at your place playing cards. I learned nearly everything I know about playing cards from you guys. Paul was particularly amazing to me when playing cards. I too am a very competitive game player, and over the years I watched and learned from your dad. Anyway, one night I decided to bring out Trivial Pursuit. It was all the rage and I was a whiz! The game was going along just fine, thank you very much, until Paul landed on the blue pie piece space. The question now escapes me, but the answer was The Solar System. Paul answered, "The Universe". Quite obviously WRONG! Now my little 15 year old self (or my 40 year old self for that matter) could not tell you what the difference was between the Solar System and the Universe, but I could definitely read, with GREAT JOY I might add, the words S-O-L-A-R S-Y-S-T-E-M. And being that Paul was the greatest game player I knew, there was no way in Hell that I was giving him the benefit of the doubt. Well, let's just say the game all went downhill from there, literally. A great argument commenced and ended only when Paul picked up the entire board with all the pieces on it and chucked it down the stairs. We all laughed! It was a proud moment for me, a quiet little victory in the game-playing arena for me over "The Great One".
I pray that God gives you strength and grace to guide you through this time.
Love, Carrie
Susie Marques
March 20, 2009
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
Kish Family
March 19, 2009
Our condolences to the family. We were all so happy that we got to see Paul one last time this summer. He was such a fun , happy go lucky guy. He really knew how to enjoy life. The short amounts of time I got to see Paul you could see he knew what was important in life (his family and friends). We are so glad that Susie got to meet him. He will always be in our thoughts. We will miss him very much.
Jennifer Boelter
March 19, 2009
I had the lucky privilege of living across the street from the Molnar's for all my childhood/teen life on Road 34 and 3/4 in Madera. My sisters, Sally and Monique, and I grew up with Mindy and Erik. Paul and Betty were like "second parent's" most of the time. I have wonderful memories of summer time pool parties, after school play time and meals together with the Molnar's. Paul always had a smile on his face. He was definitely trustworthy in all his encounters. He and I shared a bit of common interest after I graduated from college in the field of Geology and Mineralogy. I just want to say "love ya guys" to the Molnar's. You are great friends to my family :) and Paul will always be in our memories.
Jackie Krug
March 19, 2009
My love goes out to the Molnar Family. I knew Paul through his daughter Melinda. He was such a good man. Anyone who knew him knows the qualities he had that made him impossible not to like...and if you knew him better, loving him came easy. He helped me remodel my kitchen once and a cabinet fell from the wall which he caught with his face. With his bloody face he just kept on going without missing a beat. Forget getting him to stop to clean his cut or get a bandage. He reminded me of my own father...he was tough, reliable, honest, full of wisdom, generous with his time and support, funny as heck(especially when he would hear something you said completely wrong), and extremely loving. He took care of those around him in every way and would do anything for anyone without hesitation. And he loved hard candies...bags and bags of it. I will miss him very much.
Janice hernandez
March 18, 2009
Hello, I was one of his nurses at SJVR day shift on his brief stay with us. I enjoyed the oportunity being his nurse when I did and I always made it a point to come by to see him even when I wasnt his nurse for the day. I was proud to see the improvement he made day by day. It was sad to see him go, but look forward for his hopeful return in 4 weeks for more rehab, then received the horrible news on Wednesday when it was reported to some of us. I couldn't believe it. He had a great smile and personality I could see. Thanks for coming to be with him everyday Betty, it was nice knowing the both of you and spending the time with the both of you. You take care of yourself and may God be with you so blessedly. Going to miss him.
Andy Propes
March 18, 2009
Our hearts go out to the Molnar Family. "Mr. Molnar" as I knew him back in Boy Scouts was a great teacher, a great role model, and a great man. He will be missed.
Bob Warren Jr
March 18, 2009
My condolences to the family. He was a great guy and a great teacher of his Macgyver abilities which frequently came in handy in defense of our scout camp from Troop 95's persistent raids.
Trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean, reverent only scratch the surface in describing Paul. He will be missed.
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