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SHAWN MCCARTHY Obituary

Loving son, brother, uncle and friend. Shawn McCarthy was surrounded by loved ones when he left this earth to be with God on Sunday June 30, 2013. Shawn was born on December 10, 1962 in Albany, New York. He graduated from San Joaquin Memorial High School in 1981. After three years in the Army, he found his dream job at Hedrick's-Hallowell Chevrolet where he worked for over 25 years. Shawn will be remembered by all who knew him for his wit, humor, kindness and his passion for playing drums. He will be missed by anyone who had the opportunity to know and love him. He was preceded in death by his father, John McCarthy. He leaves behind his loving and devoted mother, Marge McCarthy Bilsten; brother, Steve and his wife Janette; sister, Sharon Fisher and her husband Jim; brother David, and his wife Suzanne; sister, Kathleen Scrivner and her husband Doug; as well as numerous nieces, nephews and cousins. Visitation will be held at Sterling & Smith Funeral Home, on Sunday July 7, 2013, from 4-7 p.m. A Funeral Service will be held at Northwest Church, on Monday, July 8, 2013, at 3:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to Veterans Hospital, 2615 E. Clinton Ave., Fresno Ca 93703.

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Published by Fresno Bee on Jul. 5, 2013.

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Corbet Jones

August 3, 2013

Big Mac, I will never forget "The Kneeagle" at Brighton Crest. Your golf knee shot was legendary. I would never be where I'm at in life if it wasn't for your friendship and kindness. Your the big brother I never had. Your heart will always be solid gold! Marge, Steve, Sharon, David and Kathleen, your son,and brother was and will always be my friend. My heart felt condolences.

Rose Ortega

July 8, 2013

My heartfelt thoughts & prayers go out to you all. May God comfort you with His presence & warm memories of Shawn.

David Stewart

July 8, 2013

To the McCarthy Family,

Many fond memories of Shawn, one of my oldest friends. I am sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you.

Ron Nijmeddin

July 7, 2013

My deepest condolences to the family of my friend. He was probably a better friend to me than I think I was to him. I will miss him, his exceptionly sharp whit, and his sense of humor.

Steve & Tammy Kornegay

July 7, 2013

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Randy Avenell

July 7, 2013

I am sorry for the loss of your brother David. I know he meant the world to you. My condolences to you and your family. May he rest in peace.

July 6, 2013

Dear Mccarthy Family, My condolence to you and your Family in Shawn's passing. He was always kind to me. Our Family sends Prayers and Love. May you find peace and cherish the good memories that you shared. Rosemary & John, Lakovich Family

Annette Reinhart

July 6, 2013

So many wonderful memories!! I was blessed to have had such a special friendship with you Shawn! What am I going to do without my best friend....I already miss you so much :( It is comforting to know you are at peace in the presence of The Lord. Love you Shawn!!

David Francesconi

July 5, 2013

Shawn, I hope you are playing the skins in heaven for everyone

Laurie Mitchell

July 5, 2013

I went to high school with Shawn. I remember him as a very nice person. My condolences to all his family and friends.

July 5, 2013

Just know your brother is at peace and I'm so very sorry.

Erin Castello and Family

Chrysta Griggs & Family

July 5, 2013

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

July 5, 2013

You were the big brother I never had. We will keep you in our thoughts and never forget the great memories you shared with Lucinda and I. We miss you more than words can say.

mike Anderson

July 5, 2013

You wil be missed my friend and our condolences to your family. You are in heaven now with jeffrey.

July 5, 2013

The Loosigian family sends our love and prayers to the McCarthy family. Our thoughts are with you.

HE SHALL BE MISSED!

Alan Maloney

July 5, 2013

My brother in arms! I am heartbroken. We shall jam again one day.

Roberta Scott

July 5, 2013

Mike and I send you our love and prayers!

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1103 E Street, Fresno, CA 93706

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