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Joshua Smith Obituary
He passed away at Gaston Memorial Hospital.
Josh was born Feb. 4, 1986, in Gaston County, son of Trish Myers and husband Doug Myers and father, Paul Smith.
Josh was a graduate of Hunter Huss High School and attended Bethlehem Church. He was a special friend to all and was dearly loved. He was the pride and joy of his mom and she will treasure him in her heart forever.
He was preceded in death by his grandparents Cecil and Evelyn Calhoun.
In addition to his parents, survivors include three brothers, Brad Smith, Jason Smith and Brad Myers and wife Na-talia; sister, Taylor Myers and by honorary grandparents, Mary "Pete" and Murray Morrisette and a special aunt, Linda Pike.
Services will be held noon Saturday at Bethlehem Church with Pastor Dickie Spargo officiating.
Visitation will be held at 11 a.m. at the church prior to the service.
Interment will follow at Hollywood City Cemetery.
Memorials may be made in Josh's memory to Bethlehem Church, 3100 Bethlehem St., Gastonia, NC 28056.
Arrangements by Benny R. Benson Funeral Director, Lic.
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Memories and Condolences
for Joshua Smith
JUSTIN SMITH
August 28, 2009
DEAR JOSH,
WELL MAN ITS BEEN A MONTH NOW SINCE U LEFT US FOR THA LORD AND IN A BETTER PLACE NOW.ITS BEEN A LONG FRIENDSHIP THAT WE HAD IN LIFE BUT SOMETIMES SOMEONE WILL LEAVE US IN LIFE BUT NOT FOREVER AND MY HEART AND PLAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND UR FAMILY.IT FIELDS SO CRAZY THAT I CANT EVEN CALL U NOW AND SEE WHAT'S GOING ON NOW AND HEAR U SAY LIKE ALWAYS WONT U RIDE OVER TOO THA HOUSE ANYMORE AND CHILL WITH EVERYONE.THA PAST SIXTEEN YEARS THAT I KNOW U WAS GREAT AND U WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN FROM MY HEART.WE WILL MEAT UP AGAIN WITH THA LORD WHEN I GET THERE SO MAN I MISS U LIKE A BROTHER OF FRIENDSHIP THAT WE HAD BUT LOVE AND STOP ONCE SOMEONE IS GOING.WE ALL LUV U AND MISS U JOSH.LUV BRO JUSTIN SMITH
Christy Laye
August 11, 2009
Paul You and your whole family are in our thoughts and prayers.If there is anything you and your family need,don't hesitate to ask.We didn't know josh,but we heard so many good things about him.Just know that he is in the arms of the Lord.With our deepest sympathy.Jeff and Christy Laye.
Marla Posey
August 11, 2009
Our prayers and sympathy go out to the family.Trish Paul Jason and Brad.I just found out last night.Words cannot express the loss of josh.I just know that him and jenny both are with jesus now.If there is anything that we can do,please don't hesitate to let us know.Our thougts and prayers are with you all.RIP Josh,WE Love And MISS YOU.Love Warren and Marla Posey.
Chad & Kandi Bradshaw
August 9, 2009
Will will miss you greatly Josh you were such a great friend to many and a loving brother to Brad and Jason. You had to great parents Paul and Trish. Now your in heaven shining down upon every one. Keep that star bright and shining. We love all of you!
Sara Morris
August 5, 2009
I was shocked when I heard that he had passed away. I haven't spoke to him in years. Always thought that one day we'd run into each other and be able to catch up on passed times. He's in a better place now and will always be in our hearts. Your family is in my prayers. RIP Josh
PHASE 2 HAIR DESIGNS
August 2, 2009
THRIS DOUG PAUL AND FAMILY Ii dont know really what to say but may god keep you thur this trying time i just cant image but im sure god can and he will take care of you and the family if you trust in him god is good he knows what hes done and doing this is from me fay at phase2 designs im fighting cancer but god has been so good to me and mike we l love and miss you and family as being neighbors GOD BLESS AND IF I CAN HELP YOU OR FAMILY LET ME KNOW ALWAYS KEEPING YALL IN OUR PRAYERS MAY YOU FIND PEACE AND CONFORT KWOWING JOSH IS IN THE ARMS OF A GREAT MAN HIS NAME IS JESUS SINCERLY LONG TIME FRIENDS FAY MIKE B
Garrett Pasour
August 2, 2009
Josh you were one of the best friends ive ever had you will be missed but ill always remember you in my heart you would give anyone the shirt off your back. Your friends and family were proud of you
Ashley
August 1, 2009
I didnt know josh well but had many friend who were close to him...and its a horrible loss but I know such a great person is in a better place now..
Crystal Maney
August 1, 2009
I am so sad to hear about Josh passing. He was so young and Life was just beginning for him. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of grief. He will always be in the hearts of all he touched. May God be with you.
Renee Spacher
July 31, 2009
Josh was a good guy. I don't know what to say, he didn't deserve to die. I can think of so many other ugly hearted people who should have gone before Josh, it's not fair and I don't get it. He loved playin with my son Loki even though he really didn't have to, and Loki loved him. I remember super bowel parties at my mom's house, cook-outs, birthdays, new years. And now we don't get anymore with him. I miss you man... It's not fair that you're gone, but I know you're in a happier place.
VICTORIA WHITE
July 31, 2009
JOSH WAS MY SCHOOL MATE AND HE WILL BE MISSED DEARLY. WE HAD GOOD TIMES AT HUSS.
Kristen Jaynes
July 31, 2009
I was so blessed to be a part of Josh's last 8 months here on Earth. He was not only my boyfriend but my best friend. There is not one day that will pass that I won't think of him and remember all of the incredible memories we made together. My thoughts and prayers are with the family that I became so close with. He is in a better place watching over us all..With much love.
ashley dougherty
July 31, 2009
josh the day u left u broke alot of hearts. we will love an miss u very much man. God got him a beautiful angel the day u left us. u will always be in my thoughts an heart along with ur family. i love u josh an miss u. R.I.P
chrissy fletcher
July 31, 2009
josh was a really good friend and he will be missed very much . you family will be in my prayers
Crystal Carter
July 31, 2009
Josh you will be missed. You were such a good young man. I always thought you would grow up and make good! Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family!
The Carter's
JUSTIN SMITH
July 31, 2009
JOSH U WANT BE FORGOTTEN AND THE FAMILY IS IN MY HEART TRISH,BRAD,JASON,PAUL,DOUG AND THE REST.WE WHERE FRIENDS FOR 20 YRS NOW AND WORDS CAN'T DESCRIBLE HOW I WILL FEEL.SO I WILL NEVER FORGET U JOSH AND U WILL BE CARRIED WITH ME AT ALL TIMES IN MY HEART.
REST IN PEACE JOSH
2-4-86 - 7-28-09
Gary, Jan, Casey and Alex Owenby
July 31, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
M Bridges
July 31, 2009
Josh was a former student of mine and became a neighbor and friend later in life. He will be missed and remembered as a young man with a kind heart, gentle smile and great compassion and love for animals and people in need. He helped me many times when in need as a neighbor. He will be missed and left us all too soon. His spirit will live on in all who knew him or shared experiences with him. Comfort comes from knowing he is at peace with the Lord. He was loved by many and is missed by even more. I pray for peace and comfort to all whose life he touched. M.Bridges
tosha hernandez
July 31, 2009
We are so sorry for your loss.. Josh was a wonderful person and will be in our hearts forever.. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family!
Heather Millhone
July 31, 2009
Trish,
I cant believe that this happened so soon to Josh. He was like my big brother. We shared so many things together. You know that I am always going to be here for you anytime that you need anything.
You and Josh are always in my heart..
Love you,
Heather
Michael Hembree
July 31, 2009
Josh was a good friend he will be truely missed by all. So sorry for your loss your family will be in my prayers.
Linda & Perry Smith
July 31, 2009
We are sorry to hear of your loss.I did not know Josh but I knew of him through my son Justin. He thought the world of him as a great friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Family of Alexis Goudelock
July 31, 2009
Nothing is more heartbreaking than the loss of a child...We know your pain. Sending lots of love and prayers to you and family. May God bless and keep you thru this trying time....
July 31, 2009
Trish
You are in our prayers at Stanley Total Living. We love you and will be there when you need us. Barbara
Angie Medlin
July 30, 2009
Trish, I'm so sorry for the loss of your son. Just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with you and your family. God Bless. Ange Medlin
Andy & Sierra Davidson
July 30, 2009
Josh was loved dearly & will never be forgotten! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!!
Love Always,
Andy & Sierra Davidson
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