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Kim Allen Grassfield

1949 - 2023

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Kim Grassfield Obituary

Kim Allen Grassfield

Holyoke, MA - A memorial celebration will be held at 17 Canby St. in Holyoke starting at 1:00 PM on September 16 for Kim Allen Grassfield. Mr. Grassfield died peacefully at home on May 13th. The cause of death was pancreatic cancer. Kim was born in Denver Colorado on October 18, 1949, to Bruce and Mary Grassfield both students at Denver University at the time. His early peripatetic years resulted from his father electing to join the Air Force after serving in the Army Air Corps during the war. By nine years old he had climbed Mount Fuji and ridden dressage at Emperor Hiro Hito's Imperial palace. Two years later he starred on the 1960, undefeated (14 -0), Tigers Little League team at Otis Air Force Base on Cape Code. And in 1962 he moved to Niskayuna New York. He graduated from Niskayuna High School in 1967 and attended Vermont Academy for one additional year. He entered the University of Denver in the tumultuous fall of 1968 just as the college deferment for the Vietnam War draft was to end. A very low draft lottery number (4) guaranteed that he would be drafted by 1969. He dropped out to protest the war and did not return to academia for several years. But in 1982 he received a degree in Architectural Studies from Skidmore College. Shortly after he moved to Massachusetts where he remained the rest of his life. His was the life of the poet craftsman, the Buddhist maker, an intellectual carpenter. Kindness and community were his guide.

He is survived by his mother of Saratoga Springs NY, his brother Paul Grassfield of Brooklyn, NY, his Sister-In-Law Jennifer Stearns, nephew and niece Mason and Eve. His father and sister Amy preceded him in death. He will be lovingly remembered.

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Published by Daily Hampshire Gazette on Sep. 7, 2023.

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Jeff Felberbaum

June 19, 2024

I am heartbroken to learn of Kim's passing. We were friends during hard times in the 1990's, and did what we could within our circle of friends to help each other. He was an inspiration to me and I have been trying to reconnect with him for several years following a move out of the country. A difficult shock to find his name in the obituaries. But Kim's spirit and love are here now and always will be, all around us, reminding us of love, compassion, gentleness, creativity, integrity, and the quiet joy that is the inner nature we all share, and that Kim shone on all of us. Rest in peace my dear brother.


Jeff Felberbaum
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Dante Gervasio

September 22, 2023

I knew Kim for several years. To know Kim is to know that he is first and foremost a good and decent man. He was interesting, engaging and full of life. I was sad when he disclosed his diagnosis. Kim never flinched in the face of a very serious illness. He stared it down with bravery until the end. I miss Kim's presence and I extend my condolences to his family, especially his Mom as no parent should ever have to write the obituary for their child. I wish it were the other way around.

Paul Elam

September 21, 2023

Kim's passing was very sad for me. I had come to know him fairly well in the last few years. He was a gentle soul and a good man. He walked a spiritual path in life and I spent many hours listening to him share that experience. I saw it in him as he faced this terrible illness with courage that was so very admirable and inspirational. My sincere condolences to his loved ones. He will be missed.

Elizabeth Allison Craig

September 6, 2023

Heartbroken to find this obituary; I have been thinking of Kim for several days and just looked online to discover that this was published today. No words can adequately express my sense of loss but I wish this dearest old friend Godspeed as he wends his way home, and send sincere sympathy to all who loved him.

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