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Thomas P. Toski 1925-2023

1925 - 2023

Thomas P. Toski 1925-2023 obituary, 1925-2023, Easthampton, MA

BORN

1925

DIED

2023

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Thomas 1925-2023 Obituary

Thomas P. Toski

1925-2023

Easthampton, MA -

Western Mass Hall of Fame Golf Pro & Instructor Tom Toski dies at 97.

It is with great sadness that the family announces the passing of Thomas Peter Toski who died surrounded by family and friends on May 22, 2023, at the age of 97. For the past year he resided at Renaissance Manor Nursing Home in Holyoke MA but had a permanent residence in West Palm Beach FL for the past 36 years.

He was born on July 3, 1925, the son of Walenty Algustoski and Mary (Kocienski) Algustoski who emigrated from Poland, Walenty in 1905 and Mary, a year later. Walenty and Mary married and raised 9 children, 5 boys & 4 girls. It was perhaps meant to be that they purchased a modest home in Haydenville MA, adjacent to a golf course. Despite an extremely challenging childhood marked by the early death of their mother, the boys' innate raw talents and unrelenting drive produced 4 PGA golf professionals, Jack, Ben, Tom & Bob Toski. Golf became a calling for the brothers and forged a bond between them that was unbreakable and lifelong. Tom was especially proud of his younger brother Bob whose extraordinary talent and worldwide success made the Toski name famous and synonymous with the game of golf. On a recent visit, you could see the profound love Tom and Bob shared as they recalled so many precious memories and laughed while reminiscing about their boyhood antics. Now looking over a lifetime of photos, one would be hard pressed to find many photos of Tom that don't include him with his brothers, clubs in hand, or one of him grinning from ear to ear at a golf event. Golf was truly his life passion and his singular love.

In the middle of his senior year, Tom left Williamsburg High School and joined the Navy during the height of WWII, earning 4 battle stars, which were issued to US Navy crewmen for meritorious participation in battle. While serving he was promoted to the rank of 2nd class sonar technician (E-5) from 1943-1946. Despite all his achievements in the world of golf, he was most proud of his military service. In 2018, Tom and brother Bob were among 20 WWII veterans who were recognized in our nation's capital and participated in a "Parade of Heroes" for their service to their country during WW11 and the Korean War.

Tom's career began as an assistant to brother Jack, at the Northampton Country Club. He went on to become Head Pro at Wahconah Country Club in Dalton, MA from 1959-1969 and later head pro at Hickory Ridge Country Club in Amherst MA for 15 years. While at Hickory, he co-founded the Toski Intercollegiate Golf Invitational, which he hosted for 26 years. He later taught at Stratton Mountain Golf School for 6 years and at Waubeeka Golf Center in Williamston Ma for 3 seasons. He was honored to be inducted into the Western MA Golf Hall of Fame in 2009.

He ended his teaching career at the Western Mass Golf Center in Hadley MA where he was a teaching professional for 25 years until the age of 95. Our family extends heartfelt thanks to Pat & Rick Hollrock & their family for the many years of friendship and amazing support that they selflessly gave to Tom over the years. Better friends are hard to come by.

Tom was predeceased by his wife, Lucille in 2005, his only child, Tom Toski Jr in 2009, and his grandson, Nolan Toski in 2014 as well as 3 brothers and four sisters: Jack, Ben and Kenneth Toski, Stacia Mar, Lottie Sylvester, Vicky Fisher and Dottie Kneeland. He is survived by his partner of 15 years, Linda Mazeski, who was his dedicated caretaker and in the waning years of his life, his primary support and source of comfort. We are grateful to her for always standing by his side and for the many years she gave to him. He is also survived by his youngest brother, Bob of Boca Raton, FL, his granddaughter, Lauren Toski Johnson (husband Billy Johnson), great granddaughter, Ella Lee, and great grandson Emmett Thomas of Suquamish, WA, several nieces and nephews and numerous close friends who meant everything to him.

Tommy lived a long & amazing life & despite several tragic losses, his faith was unwavering & he remained deeply religious to the end. Always with a huge smile and ready with a song, he was the life of every gathering. Life won't be the same without him and he will be painfully and forever missed.

Calling hours will be Monday June 19, 2023, from 4-6pm at Ahearn Funeral Home in Northampton, MA followed by a funeral mass on Tuesday June 20 at 11am at Our Lady of the Hills Parish in Haydenville, MA. Burial will immediately follow at St. Mary's of the Assumption Cemetery in Leeds MA.

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Published by Daily Hampshire Gazette from Jun. 14 to Jun. 16, 2023.

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Marty Wilkes

June 30, 2023

I am a distant friend of Tom going back to the days when he was an asst. pro at Northampton Country Club. I was perhaps 13-15 years old. I knew Tom and Jack and when the four brothers gave a clinic I was Bob´s caddie for the day. My scrapbook has their photos and the story of their visit. To this day, I still relay stories of the famous Toski brothers and their accomplishments to the members of m6 golf club in Melbourne, Australia where I have lived for 53 years after serving in Vietnam in the US Army. Brother Jack was also a terrific instructor at Northampton where my family were members. RIP to a wonderful friend and golf coach....Marty Wilkes (originally from Hatfield, Mass.)

Ray Normandeau

June 26, 2023

I have known Tom and several of the Toski men for quite a few years. I especially liked to meet up with Tom and Lynn once in a while at Joe's Cafe. Tom was always a gentleman and fun to be around. Of course everyone knows he was a great golf instructor. He will be sorely missed. R I P Tom Toski.

Wayne Duval

June 25, 2023

To The Toski family especially Bob. We had some great times playing with Tom and then going to Rachel´s for dinner. Wayne from Boca Raton Fl

Thomas A. DeGray

June 18, 2023

Tom was also a Former Pro at Waubeeka Golf Links in Williamstown Mass where I am a Member. He would always give free Clinics for the Members and always check on their progress throughout the Season. He would also invite my 4 some down to the Presidents Club in West Palm Beach year after year in which we took him up on it. Getting Free golf in Florida in March is Priceless. He also hooked my group up at the Orchards once , another classy move on his part. I would always make a trip to Family Golf in Northampton every Summer to hit some balls and a quick look over by Tom. I missed doing that in the past couple of years. RIP my Friend.
Tom DeGray

John Quirk

June 16, 2023

He taught me the game beginning in 1959 when I was 8. He hired me to work for him washing clubs and eventually working his Pro Shop with he and Lucille. I played a lot of golf with Tommy Jr and was often on his bag when his brothers came for their annual exhibition match. Other than my father and mother no one was more important to my young life than Tommy. He was the central character in any room he entered, a great trash talker long before it was invented, his personality was infectious and he was as good a golf instructor as walked the earth. I loved the man and wish him an early tee time at heaven´s version of Augusta National.

Robin Powell Higgins

June 16, 2023

I also received my first golf lesson from Tom in the early sixties. My dad, Dave Powell, was an avid golfer and became good friends with Tom. I will always remember his great smile and immense patience with this young girl who was much more interested in the caddies than the clubs! Say Hi to my dad when you see him Tom!

Barry McCormick

June 16, 2023

My condolences go to the entire Toski family. I got my first golf lesson from Tom back in 1964 at Wahconah, and have never forgotten his grace, passion, and ready smile.

Paul Barnard

June 14, 2023

Tom was a great golfer, story teller, dancer and had time for everyone he came in contact with. He will truly be missed but live in my memories forever. He was a great friend!

Jeff Parsons (Leeds)

June 14, 2023

My Dad (Jack Parsons) was an avid golfer and grew up with Tommy and his brothers. When my twin boys were going out for the 7th grade golf team at Frontier HS he told them to take golf lessons from Tommy Toski. "He´s the best golf instructor I know." Tommy was instrumental in instilling the fundamentals of golf in my boys. They remain avid golfers carrying on the tradition taught to them by Tommy and my Dad.

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Leeds, MA

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