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Patrick Ober Obituary
His memorial service is 11 a.m. Friday at Retz Funeral Home in Helena.
Survivors include his partner, Brandy Fulbright of Great Falls; daughters Morgan Ober of Laramie, Wyo., Megan Ober of Powell, Wyo., and Madison Rose Ober of Great Falls; his father, A. Clinton Ober of Palm Springs, Calif.; stepmother Lois Harder of Pueblo, Colo.; sisters Lori Wolf of Madison, Wis., Stephanie Adams of Murfreesboro, Tenn., Kelly Kostelecky of Bismarck, N.D., and Kristin Elam of Chicago; and his grandmother, Tootie Norton of Montana.
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Memories and Condolences
for Patrick Ober
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Michael Anderson
October 20, 2024
I was roommates with Oat at Rocky mountain treatment center and we used to try to hide a picture of a panda bear in places we would unexpectedly find it. Somehow Pat would know where I would be headed so when I got there the picture would be in an obscure place staring at me ( hilarious) We graduated around the same time and hung out for a year until I left Great falls. He was funny,smart, hardworking generous and I think about him often. He will be remembered and missed.....
Bill Madsen
December 12, 2008
I was shocked and saddened as was everyone. I had lost contact with Pat, hadn't seen him since 1981. He was a good man then and it looks like he didn't change. But he left us far too soon.
To Clint and Lois and the rest of his family and friends, my condolences. I share your loss today.
Reese Newman
December 11, 2008
It saddens me to find out that someone as loving and caring as Pat has left this world. He may have been soft spoken but his love he shared screamed from his heart. My condolences to his family and his daughters, he will be greatly missed by all.
Doug Hallett
December 10, 2008
Pat was not only a very nice person, he was an excellent craftsman who took great pride in his work. He had a great sense of humor and always tollerated my joshing. I will miss him very much. I wish we would have gotten to do the fishing we were talking about.
Pat, you were obviously concerned about what people thought of you and your work. I can tell you that you were respected and admired by myself and everybody at Central. You were a professional and a pleasure to work with.
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The congregation at Calvary Chapel of Great Falls
December 10, 2008
To Patrick's Family & Friends,
Our hearts go out to you in sympathy for the pain his passing brings, especially the loneliness you now face during the holidays. We will remember you in prayer before the Lord, Jesus Christ, that His gentle touch will dry your tears and heal your broken spirits as His loving presence strengthens you to face each new day.
John Curcio
December 10, 2008
Pat was a good friend and a good person. Brandie, Megan, Madison, Kelly, Lori, Pat’s father and step mother, Clinton and Lois to whom I’ve never met and to all of Pat’s family, I’m terribly sorry for your lose. I had just called Pat a few weeks ago to inform him about a friend from Dickinson who Pat had only met a few times. That friend had just passed in his sleep at the age of 46. Personally knowing Pat, I know he loved Brandie and all of his family but especially his daughters. Please let me know if there's anything I can do to help the family during this difficult time.
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