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Marian De Both Obituary

De Both, Marian

Marian Lucile Kiley De Both, 98, of De Pere, WI passed away peacefully at Rennes Health Center of natural causes on Friday, May 15, 2015.

Marian, the daughter of Frank and Grace (Brennan) Kiley , was born on June 11, 1916 in the town of Glenmore. Marian graduated from the Kiley Grade School and De Pere High School. She married Elmer De Both on Thanksgiving Day, November 30, 1939. They enjoyed almost 60 years of marriage together. He preceded her in death on February 24, 1999.

Marian was a member of St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church in De Pere. She was an active member of the Altar Rosary Society, Catholic Women's Club, St. Francis and De Pere Women's Club bridge marathons, as well as the Ledgeview Ladies Golf League. She was a longtime volunteer at Rennes Health Center, Mobile Meals, Curative Workshop, American Red Cross Blood Banks and the WI Coalition on Aging.

First and foremost she was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother . Survivors include her 4 daughters, Sarah/Sallie (Ed) Johnston, Franklin TN; Mary Kay Basten (Doug Staidl) Howard,WI; Jan (Gary) DeByl , Judy (Glenn) Lehnert, De Pere, WI; She is further survived by 11 grandchildren: Amy Johnston, Nashville, TN; David (Carla) Johnston, Chattanooga, TN: Jim (Heather) Basten, Woodbury, MN; Perry (Wendi) Basten, Columbus, OH; Carrie (Steve) Smith, Colorado Springs, CO; Kelly (Matt) Baenen, Green Bay, WI; Chad DeByl, Howard, WI; Sara DeByl (Mike Lattary) Rogers, MN; Katie (Jay) Justman, Shawano, WI; Jennifer (Rod) VanRite, De Pere, WI; Stephanie Lehnert (Drew Neerdaels), Green Bay, WI and 26 great-grandchildren. She is also survived by several nieces and nephews.

Marian was preceded in death by her parents, her husband, two brothers, Francis Kiley; Clarence (Ann) Kiley; three sisters, Ceil Kiley, Margaret (Urb) McVey, Loretta (John) Collins; a sister-in-law Florence (Sid) Jansen; a brother-in-law, Al (Millie) DeBoth, and one son-in-law, James N. Basten.

Family and friends may call at St. Francis Xavier Church, 220 S. Michigan St. De Pere, WI on Saturday, May 23, 2015 from 9:00 am until 10:45 am. Mass of Resurrection will be celebrated for Marian at 11:00 am with Rev. Judah Pigon, MF officiating. Inurnment in Allouez Mausoleum. A memorial fund has been established in Marian's name. Cotter Funeral Home is assisting the family. Online condolences may be expressed to the family at Cotterfuneralhome.com.

Special thanks to the staff at Rennes Health Center for their attentive care, St. Francis Parish for their ongoing support of Marian and to Cotter Funeral Home for their thoughtful assistance.

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Published by Green Bay Press-Gazette from May 17 to May 22, 2015.

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May 26, 2015

Dear Judy and Jan,
Sincere condolences for the loss of your Mom. Moms are so very special. You will love her and miss her forever. Jane (Anderson) Neumann

carol matzke Wallschlaeger

May 24, 2015

Mary kay I remember your mother as a woman who treated me so nicely when I would come over from my grandparents to play with you when we were so young.

Bob Hart

May 21, 2015

Jan and Judy,sorry to here or your mothers passing. Marion was the most grateful,kind and giving person. Many fond memories of her and Elmer. R.I.P.

JoAnn Leick

May 19, 2015

Mary Kay and family, having your beautiful mother for so many years is truly a blessing, may she find peace in her new home. Roger & JoAnn(Kerkhoff) Leick

May 18, 2015

Jan, Judy and family, so sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. She was a wonderful warm person. Julie & Bob Kidney

Liz Wilson

May 18, 2015

She was so adorable! She was my mother-in-laws table mate at Rennes for a long time and she was always dressed so nice. She will be missed by her Rennes dining friends! My sympathy to the family on the loss of your mother.

Shaun O'Keefe

May 18, 2015

Sending love at this time.

Shaun O'Keefe

May 18, 2015

Remember your mom well. What a lovely woman to talk with and hear stories about her kids. She had so much love for her family. Thinking of all of you Shaun O'Keefe

Mary Jo Gerrits

May 18, 2015

Your mom was such a sweet lady. I will miss her at the home and I will pray for you all at this difficult time.

Mary Jo Gerrits

Lynn DeBaker

May 17, 2015

Jan, Judy and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Memories of her will be in your hearts forever. My prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Lynn DeBaker

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