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JOHN ANTONY DOUMLELE, JR. John Antony (Tony) Doumlele, Jr., 62, died on Friday, November 28, 2008 in Greenwich from complications following surgery. Tony was born in Newport News, Virginia on July 26, 1946 and grew up in Richmond. A champion swimmer for the Amateur Athletic Union, he held nineteen freestyle and butterfly state records in Virginia. Recruited by Phillips Exeter Academy, he was named New England Prep School Butterfly Champion, captain of the swimming team and one of his records was not broken for twenty years. A National Merit finalist, Tony was awarded the Charles M. O'Hearn scholarship to Yale University. His education was interrupted by service in the U.S. Army as a first lieutenant, including Vietnam (1968-1969). He married Sabra Bissette in 1970 and graduated from Yale in 1972. After studying graduate economics at NYU while he worked at the Federal Reserve, he received an MBA from the Darden School at University of Virginia in 1976. His first marriage ended in divorce. In August of 1982, Tony married Leigh Grant of Greenwich. Currently employed at Bearing Point Management & Technology Consultants in Manhattan, Tony had served as Corporate Economist and Director of Corporate Relations at Moore McCormack Resources, Director of Investor Relations at Reader's Digest and at Rayonier Inc., and Senior Director of Investor Relations at Loral Space & Communications Ltd. He was co-founder and past president of the Fairfield/Westchester chapter of the National Investor Relations Institute, former president of the board of the Child Care Center of Stamford, and a former director of the New York Investor Relations Institute. Tony had served on the boards of the Norwalk Association of Silvermine Homeowners and the Coalition of Norwalk Neighborhood Associations. The family resides in Norwalk, Connecticut in Silvermine. Tony is survived by his wife, Leigh Grant, and their two children, Nicholas and Kyra Doumlele, his mother, Ruth Doumlele of Midlothian, Virginia, and his sister, Suzanne Owen of Richmond, Virginia. He is pre-deceased by his father, John Antony Doumlele. He is also survived by two nephews, John Grant of Stamford, Connecticut and Randall Owen of Williamsburg, Virginia and two nieces, Courtney Mattes of Richmond, Virginia and Ann Grant of Stamford, Connecticut. A memorial service will be held at Christ Church, 254 East Putnam Ave., Greenwich, Connecticut on Saturday, December 13, 2008 at 2 pm. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the archaeological North Karga Oasis Project, payable to Dr. Salima Ikram, 8703 Victory Lane, Potomac, Maryland 20854.

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Published by GreenwichTime on Dec. 5, 2008.

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Laurie Hilderbrand

December 16, 2008

Sorry to hear of Tony's passing. I was fortunate to work with him during his Rayonier days. He was very professional, very patient and a joy to work with on the few occasions I had the opportunity. My condolences to your family

Bill Crossman

December 9, 2008

Dear Leigh, Nicholas and Kyra,
Linda and I were very saddened to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
I was thinking of a memory of Tony that I'd like to share with you. Tony and I were competing in a whitewater canoe race on the Housatonic River in Cromwell,CT. Tony was in the bow paddling like crazy. We were in the lead! ...and then Tony fell out of the boat. The stories and laughs that we had from that were far better than if we had won the race.

Jeff Tauscher

December 7, 2008

Dear Leigh,
Nancy and I are so sorry to hear of Tony's passing. Please let us know if there is anything we can do for you or your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Rev. Dawn Cherri Snell

December 6, 2008

To Leigh and Children,
I just wanted to let you know that I was humbled and honored to have been with you during you immediate moments of sadness and loss. I bless God for the opportunity and I thank Him for your strength in the time of your trouble.
May the Lord keep you, may He continue to shine His countenance and peace upon you as you seek comfort that you can only receive from Him...
Reverend Dawn Cherri Snell
Chaplain-Intern, Spiritual Care Department
Greenwich Hospital, CT

Sue Farmer

December 5, 2008

Deepest sympathy is expressed by the whole Farmer Family to Ton'ys family...Such a fine, outstanding young man and we all have such good memories of the "Southhampton years" and our swimming experiences. He has surely left a legacy of everything good!! May God bless
one and all!! Sincerely, Sue Farmer

Jane Russo

December 5, 2008

Leigh, Saddened to hear of your loss. We will keep you in our prayers at this difficult time. In friendship, Jane, Jerry and Daniela Russo

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