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RONALD DWAYNE CASTLE - a 43 year old resident of Norwalk, CT, died on February 5 at Greenwich Hospital after a short illness. He was born in San Diego, California, on December 7, 1962. Ron was a graduate of San Diego High School and attended San Diego Mesa College where he was a star baseball player. Ron moved to Stamford, CT, in 2000, only 3 months after meeting his future wife, Marci Boxer of Greenwich, while she was on a business trip in San Diego. They married on April 27th, 2002 and became parents to their first and only child, Nicole Verna Castle on January 7th 2005.

Ron worked in retail management for many years and most recently as a merchandiser for Imperial Distributors. He was an avid sports fan who enjoyed entertaining and cooking for friends and family. But most important to Ron was spending time with his wife and one year old daughter who he treasured more than anything in the world. He will be remembered not only for his life as a dedicated family man, but as a generous and kind person who had a unique ability to touch the hearts of anybody who met him.

Ron is survived by his wife and daughter, Marci and Nicole Castle of Norwalk, CT. He is also survived by his father and step-mother, Orvil and Kay Castle of Paragould, Arkansas, his sister, Alice Prather and brothers, William Marsee, Robin Castle and Tom Castle all of San Diego, CA, his mother-in-law, Sharon Milbank of Greenwich, CT, and brother-in-law, Aron Boxer of Greenwich, CT. He is pre-deceased by his mother Verna Castle and a brother, Orvil.

An interfaith service will be held on Thursday, February 9, 2006 at 10:00 AM at Temple Sholom,300 East Putnam Ave., Greenwich, CT. Interment will follow at Putnam Cemetery in Greenwich, CT. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to the Ron Castle Memorial Trust Fund to aid in the education of his daughter, Nicole. Checks can be sent to The Ron Castle Memorial Trust Fund, P.O. Box 514, Greenwich, CT 06836. Arrangements handled by Leo P. Gallagher & Son Funeral Home, Greenwich, CT.

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Published by GreenwichTime on Feb. 8, 2006.

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Susan Naetzket

February 5, 2025

In my heart your are in my heart forever you will be

Valena Coulter

February 11, 2021

I didn’t know that Nicole’s middle name was Verna. Rest In Peace Cousin Ron & Aunt Verna. Valena Coulter

Susan Naetzker

February 11, 2021

I miss you. I hope God willing I will get to see you again.

Susan Naetzker

February 12, 2009

Another year has come and gone and still I want to pick up the phone.

The memory of a smile and an unmisstable pout linger in my heart.

I miss Ron. AKA Hoss

Tommy Castle

June 18, 2008

I recently had my first operitrunity to read the entries posted to this book. I want to thank Marci and all the people who make this posible.

As I read the pages they tuged at my heart strings. I had allways known Ron to be loving and caring as a brother, friend and son. I new he would be a loving and caring father. I had no idea that Ron had touched so many people. Ron was taken form us far to soon. It is a confort to know that he will live on in the hearts of so many people.

To my brother I would like to say I love and miss you. I am sorry that we could not have spent more time togher. I cherish the menories of the time we did have.

Marcie and Nichole look to the heavens and smile. Know that Ron will be smiling back.
Thank you for filling my brother's life with so much love.

Hamna Gilani

February 6, 2008

I worked with Ron for a couple of years, and found him as someone who was always there to help and was so down to earth. During my ten years of living in this country, I have attended only one American wedding so far and that was of Ron and Marcy's. I still remember how excited and happy Ron was to be with Marcy and how teary his eyes were, when he was holding Marcy's hands at the altar on the wedding day.
A couple of months before him passing on, I remember him telling me of how content he was with his life because he had Marcy as his life partner and Nicole as his daughter. He felt complete and at peace with his beautiful family around him. He had a beautiful heart which was full of love for his family and friends.
Ron, you will always be in my prayers.

Genevieve Land

February 6, 2008

My fondest memory of Ron was in the hospital when Nicole was born. His smile was so big when he was holding Nicole – He was the proudest father & husband I have ever seen!

Patricia Bozek

February 5, 2008

Hi Marci...As you know Ron and I were roommates for 7 years... (actually, that was 2 years longer than I managed to live with my x-husband). It seems like yesterday when you stayed with us for the first time and I knew all the phone calls to CT. afterwards just meant one thing. Ron was in love and I was going to need a new roommate!
Ron was just a nice guy, easy to get along with and I considered him family. If he knew I was sick, he would call before he came home and asked what he could bring me. Once when I had the flu, he just showed up with a variety of soup and a red rose. As sick as I was, I remember how that made me smile. I think he always thought about others before himself and that's what made him so "special." I am fortunate to have had him in my life for so long. I really, really miss being able to talk to him...he was a good friend and I will remember him always.
I'm also glad he found you, Marci. You and Nicole fullfilled his dreams; and I believe he lived a lifetime of happiness in the short time he was with you.

Susan Nash

February 5, 2008

We remember Ron with a smile. He was such a kind and loving man. Always willing to do whatever he could for his friends. We are happy that we had the opportunity to know him. He is missed.

Love - Sue, Andrew, Madeline and Caroline

Marci Castle

February 5, 2008

In memory of Ron on the 2 yr anniversary of his passing....

We can shed tears that he has gone; or
We can smile because he has lived.

We can close our eyes and pray that he'll come back; or
We can open our eyes and see all he has done.

Our heart can be empty because we can't see him; or
We can be full of the love we shared.

We can turn our back on tommorrow and live for yesterday; or
We can be happy for tommorrow because of yesterday.

We can remember him and think only that he has gone; or
We can cherish his memory and let it live on.

We can cry and close our mind, be empty and turn our back; or
We can do what he'd want us to do, open our eyes, love, and go on.

VALENA COULTER

March 26, 2007

Ron Rest in Peace.. I first met Ron when he was 10 yrs. old. He was the shineing star of the Castle Family. I married is cousin John (whom the kids called Uncle John). Ron was so bright an all American boy. Although I never got to meet Marci & Nicole I did hear all about them from the other cousins Susan & Terri. Ron you are with your Mother now take care of each other until we all meet again. I am so pleased you found such happiness in your life with your wife a daughter.
---DEATH LEAVES A HEARTACHE NO ONE CAN HEAL, LOVE LEAVES A MEMORY NO ONE CAN STEAL---

Barbara Nash

March 8, 2007

Hello Marci,

Bill and I will always remember Ron and how kind he was to both of us whenever our paths crossed. I'm sure that you and Nicole made the last year of his life, the happiest. We'll keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Fondly,
Barbara

Sherry Dey

March 7, 2007

Dear Marci,
It is obvious from reading all of these messages that you and Ron had a very special relationship and that Ron was a special person, full of love and a unique spirit for life. All of us who know you and Nicole know that his love lives on in both of you.
With Love, Sherry and George Dey

Danielle Nash

March 7, 2007

Ron was such a kind person and such a good friend. Marci, although your life together was cut way too short I am so glad that you shared your life with a man who loved you so fully and with his whole heart. He was exactly what anyone girl could want for their best friend. Nicole, your Dad was also such a proud and loving father. While I know we all wish your Daddy could be with you, may his love continue to be with you and may you your life by blessed by an angel who now watches over you from above.

May your lives continue to be a tribute to the love you all shared! Marci you have been such a strong person and such a wonderful mother despite the difficult year, you are a true inspiration.

We were blessed to call Ron our friend! Danielle, Tim, Ben & Grace

SUE NAETZKER

March 1, 2007

MARCI,
YOU AND NICOLE MADE RONS GREATEST DREAMS COME TRUE. HE BELIEVED HE WAS THE LUCKIEST MAN ON EARTH.
THANK YOU FOR MAKING HIS TIME HERE SO HAPPY AND FILLED WITH LOVE.

Lauren Winter

February 15, 2007

Marci,
While I never had the chance to meet Ron, you were so kind to give me advice when my neighbor's husband passed away at a time when I know the grieving process was so still so difficult for you. I am so grateful for that. Although I wish you had never had that experience to share, I want you to know how much you touched my neighbor's life. That would make any husband proud.

Mark & Ana Dean

February 12, 2007

Marci & Nicole,

Ron was a very special person who was proud and happy of his family and friends. Best memories include his glow of energy the day Nicole was born. Ron will live in our hearts and minds forever.

Danielle Ewing

February 8, 2007

I remember when I visited San Diego and Ron looked me in the face, with a serious look, with a gleam in his eye, and said "I'm in love with Marci and if all goes well in the next few months, I'm going to ask her to marry me". He seemed so happy and hopeful. How wonderful his dream came true. I'm so happy to have been a part of that because of someone I knew, thru me, he was able to connect with Marci. We all play a part in this life whether it's to meet someone thru someone, or touch someone's life, or just leave a lasting impression. There is purpose to every life. Ron left an everlasting impression to many. To me, I remember him being a kind and generous person of his: time, love, and support to others. Out of the kindness of his heart, he took a whole day out of his time to help my mother move because he cared about me. When I locked myself out of my house, he was there in a flash with a spare set of keys, didn't ask any questions and I think he was in his p.j.'s. He always said he would be there if I needed anything and he was. I remember asking him last Christmas if he was happy being a father and the grin on his face was from ear to ear and he said "I wouldn't give it up for anything in the world, it's the BEST!!!"...(and now that I have one of my own, I have to agree). Ron was definitely a GREAT Dad, Husband, brother, and friend (and the list goes on). My fondest memories with Ron are in San Diego, drinking margarita's, eating Mexican food, and enjoying the beaches of S.D. and Mexico. The memory that really sticks out in my mind is driving along the coastline of Baja, Mexico in a white Seabring Convertible with the song "Fly Away" blasting so loud. Ron's arms spread across the back seat, smiling and singing, nodding his head to the music, and he was just basking in the sun with not a worry in the world. That's the way I will remember him.

Natacha Beauboeuf-Robeson

February 7, 2007

Marci,

I did not know Ron for a long time but he made a lasting impression on me. I got used to seeing him in the Kraft hallways on a regular basis(he loved taking care of his dear wife) and I'll always remember his enthusiasm when we met up during our exploration trips in Chicago. It's impossible to forget someone like Ron - his memory definitely lives on.

Joyce Fechter

February 6, 2007

Marci, you are amazing. You and Nicole make Ron proud and I'm sure he is smiling all of the time. We all miss him but his presence is all around us. Love, Aunt Joyce

Karen, Jeff & Alex Dunn

February 6, 2007

Marci,
My thoughts are with you and Nicole at this difficult anniversary. You are such a strong woman and Nicole is a beautiful child. I never had the chance to meet Ron, but I'm sure he would be so proud of all that you are doing to keep his memory alive.

Joanie Avann

February 6, 2007

Ron was such a kind,genuine person who is greatly missed. Marci, i cannot imagine how hard the past year has been for you, may fond memories ease the pain. Everytime i see Nicole i see so much of Ron in her.

Terry Boxer

February 6, 2007

Marci
Just remember that every time you look at Nicole you will see Ron.

Terry & Seth Boxer

Adrienne Mazzone

February 6, 2007

Marci, May all the wonderful memories stay in your heart forever. With sincere regards, Adrienne

Ron enjoying tubing down the Farmington River

February 5, 2007

Keith Bentley

February 5, 2007

Marci & Nicole:

Please know in your hearts that Ron will always be with you and will embrace each new moment you both take.

I think of Ron often and miss his kind and gentle ways - A true friend, may have past, but his sprint will live on each and every day.

Lori, Liam and Ciara O'Driscoll

February 5, 2007

Marci,
We never had the chance to meet Ron, but I know he must be so proud of you - you are a wonderful mother to Nicole. She is such a happy little girl and that is a true reflection of your devotion and strength over the past year. Our thoughts are with you and your family today.

Missy Journick

February 5, 2007

Marci,
I remember visiting you and Ron in the hospital when Nicole was born. It was time for a diaper change and Ron did it like a pro. He talked to her softly the whole time. He was such a wonderful man and will be missed.
Love, Missy and John Journick

Sharon Milbank

February 5, 2007

I just returned from the cemetery, and so many memories of Ron just filled my heart. Ron was such a generous person, and such a loving and caring son-in-law! I remember the hours and hours we spent together while Marci was giving birth, and his loud excited voice when he announced, "Mema, it's Nicole Verna!" I remember him surprising me at the airport with Niocle in the carriage holding a "Mema" sign. There are so many reasons I miss Ron, and I am sure that he knows that his girls are in good hands. Love, Mema

Lisa and Andrew List

February 5, 2007

Ron will surely be in Marci and Nicole's hearts for eternity.
Your family and friends miss you dearly and will always be reminded of wonderful memories.

Sara Zeller

February 5, 2007

Marci and Nicole (a.k.a the Castle Family)
Although I did not know Ron, and haven't known you for very long I wanted to write and let you know that I was thinking of you on this difficult day. Having read some of the entries, I can tell that Ron was a man who received and gave great love. I pray for you and Nicole. Know that there are those of us out there who truely know what you are going through. One day at a time!!!

Jill Jason Davis

February 5, 2007

Ron was one of the nicest men I have met! He was a terrific father and had a way about him.....

Annie Brown

February 5, 2007

Dear
Marci and Nicole,
Although I didn't know Ron personally, I could see him
through you; how happy you were, how beautifully you mother Nicole and what a wonderful
person you are. A loving and supportive life partner is often the impetus
behind a person's joie de vivre. I'm sure his memory and spirit will continue
to carry you and Nicole through the rest of your lives. God Bless,

Aron Boxer

February 5, 2007

Even though you're not here in body, I can feel that your spirit is alive in all of us. I miss you very much.

Lise Chase

February 5, 2007

I remember watching Ron as a proud, new father holding tiny Nicole against his shoulder. Witnessing such adoration warmed my heart. Marci, I continue to be saddened at your huge loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers on this first anniversary of his death... Love, Lise

Alison Patnick

February 5, 2007

Ron - Marci's devotions and dedication to you over the past year is a clear reflection of your devotion and dedication to her during your far too short time together. Although Marci's friends do not make up for you not being here, we are all trying to do our little bit to be there for her when we can, but we wish you were here instead. Smile down on Marci and Nicole because they often smile up at you.
Alison

Miranda, Shinji and Ava Muto

February 5, 2007

Marci, Ron left the world too early. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Nicole and the rest of your family.

DIANE GORDON

February 5, 2007

DEAR MARCIE AND NICOLE,

I CAN'T BELIEVE IT'S A YEAR!!
I KNOW TO YOU IT FEEL'S LIKE A LIFETIME!! MARCIE
STAY AS STRONG AS YOU CAN!! WE
ALL MISS RON HE WAS A TRUE FAMILY
MAN!! NICOLE I KNOW YOU DON'T REMEMBER BUT I WANTED TO LET YOU
KNOW THAT YOUR DADDY LOVED YOU VERY MUCH!!!

Carl, Julie, Marilyn, & Carl Groppe

February 5, 2007

If Heaven didn't have batting cages before, it does now. Ron, you are truly missed. Peace.

Karen Murray

February 5, 2007

Marci and Nicole- I can't believe its been a year since Ron died. Ron was such a special person and will always be remembered.

It always amazed me how he knew everyone! Every place he went, he made friends. For someone who lived in CT for such a short while, he made a lasting impression due to his friendliness and generous spirit.

We miss you!

Tracy & Tony Vitti

February 5, 2007

Ron,
Even though it has been a year since your passing, we still think of you often. We miss your warm heart and great sense of humor.

Nicole is Ron's legacy. He will be loved always.

February 5, 2007

Steve Schultz

February 16, 2006

Marci,



I still can't believe that Ron is gone. He was truly a good person who blessed all that he touched. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Nicole with the hope that you are being comforted by your memories.

All my best,

Steve

Tami Huntley (Musser)

February 12, 2006

As I sit here in shock, I recall all the church softball games and youth group events at St. Luke's in San Diego. I know in my heart that Ron is in heaven organizing some sports event. He will be missed greatly.

Lisa List

February 10, 2006

Ron was a kind and generous man. We are fortunate to have known him and enjoyed having him part of our family.

Lisa and Andrew List

Janet Lee

February 10, 2006

Marci and Nicole:

You are in my prayers. Please write whenever you need our support.

Janet Lee (Duodenal Board)

Carre Chiappetta

February 10, 2006

Marci and Nicole,

Just a quick note to say that I had the pleasure of meeting/talking to Ron a few times when I came with Ali to parties and such. He was always very personable and made anyone who talked to him feel very comfortable.

I am thinking of you both at this time and my prayers are with you.

Carrie

(Ali's sister)

Emily Frangipane

February 9, 2006

Ron, your spirit and love for life are a true inspiration. Thank you for loving my friend Marci so much. You were such a kind and gentle soul and you will be dearly missed.

Debbie Fechter

February 9, 2006

Dear Marci, We were so sorry to hear the horrible news. Please know that our thoughts are with you and the entire family.

Much love, Debbie, Andy, Stacey and Rachel Fechter

Sue Lannan

February 9, 2006

Marci and Nicole,



Sorry for your loss. I am new to the yahoogroup. Peace be with you and Ron's family at this time.

Sue L

Robin Nance

February 9, 2006

Marci:

Know that I send all my love and prayers for your strength to weather the days ahead. I am here if you need anything.

Peter DiSalvo

February 8, 2006

Thank you Ron, I wish I knew you better; your positive outlook and friendliness were exemplary. May the grass be green, the sun shining, and the field ready for play. Rest in Peace.

Nicole VanZwoll

February 8, 2006

To my dear friend Marci and Nicole, May you both find comfort in each other and those around you. Thanks for helping Ron be such a strong individual. You have a wonderful family. Love and many hugs. Nicole V. (from the duodenal board)

Sharon Sorok

February 8, 2006

My thoughts prayers and deepest

sympathy are extended to you and your family.

dale ioannides

February 8, 2006

Marci,

I am so sad you have to go through this. I wish I could be there to give you a big hug. I remember the 1st time I met Ron-we all met for a beer and fries. Memories from prebaby times:)Sorry I missed ya'll when you came to GA.

Kristen Sonntag

February 8, 2006

Marci,



My heart broke for you this week... and for Nicole. I know you'll be strong. Lean on friends and family these next months and beyond. I'm so very sorry.

Love, Kristen Sonntag

(Tender wishes from Mike, Christopher and Kevin, too!)

Doris Sundman

February 8, 2006

I'll miss Ron's endless cell phone chats about everything from Nicole to reality shows.

Ron,give my sister Lola (your cousin)big hugs from me.

Carol Bosso

February 8, 2006

Dear Marci and Nicole,

Words cannot express how badly we feel. Please know that you are in our hearts and prayers.

Love, Carol and Lenny, Danny, Matt and Kerri.

Paul Bortnick

February 8, 2006

You're in our prayers here at Ameriprise Financial.

Erika Moeller

February 8, 2006

Our favorite memory of Ron is him toting little Nicole around in his very own baby bjorn. He was a wonderful father who lived and breathed for his little girl. May Nicole be filled with memories of how much her dad loved her and how he is her own very special guardian angel. God bless you Ron, you will be sadly missed.



Love to Marci, Nicole and Family,



Erika, Mike and Michael Jr. Moeller

Lisa Howe

February 8, 2006

Marci, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Aunt Joyce, Uncle Alan & Cousin Josh

February 8, 2006

Our hearts are aching. We will miss you, Ron.

Joyce, Alan & Josh Fechter

February 8, 2006

Ron will be sorely missed. Our hearts ache!

Keith Bentley

February 8, 2006

I will miss Ron and wish he eternal peace.

Albert Unger

February 8, 2006

I will always remember Ron for his big smile and his positive personality. He was a very special person.

Alison Chiappetta

February 8, 2006

Ron was a wonderful person , kind and friendly and one who shared a liking of the WWE with me and also a love of Baseball , I will miss him

Ronda Cohen

February 8, 2006

My heartfelt sympathies

Tracy & Tony Vitti

February 8, 2006

Ron's obituary described him perfectly, as "a generous and kind person..." He will be greatly missed.

Pat Walsh

February 8, 2006

Ron was very gracious about Marci scrap booking with me and Lenore until the wee hours at my house!! Thank you Ron! Marci, I'm very sorry that Ron had to leave you and Nicole, but I know that you will continue to be positive and strong. Ron will be with both of you in spirit forever.

joanie avann

February 8, 2006

Ron was such a caring and compassionate person with a big heart. Truley and genuinly the nicest peson i have ever met. He went out of his way for others and was always so positive and upbeat. He met the love of his life 3000 miles away & had a beautiful daughter with her.What a lucky man to have that. I will miss you Ron

John Stoltenhoff

February 8, 2006

Marci,

My heart goes out to you. Ron was a wonderful person and I feel lucky to have met him. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. He will be dearly remembered

Annie Brown

February 8, 2006

Nicole, may you always remember your Daddy as a wonderful, caring human being. I know your Mommy will make sure of that...she is the best!

Aron Boxer

February 8, 2006

I miss you bro.

Karen Murray

February 8, 2006

Hi, we all loved Ron and will miss him dearly.

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