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Will Saleeby
William Edward Hodnette Saleeby, beloved son of Vesta Smith Saleeby and the late Roger N. Saleeby, Jr; brother of Amy, Molly, Roger (Margaret), Ben (Linda), and Dan (Cindy); and uncle of Eli, Jack, Caleb, Sam, Tyler (Katriina), Lucy, Henry, Lilly, and Maggie Saleeby passed away on Sunday, September 8, 2024.
Born on March 9, 1962, in Falls Church, VA and raised in Greenwich, Will attended North Mianus, Central, and Greenwich High School, class of 1980, before completing his undergraduate studies at Harvard University.
Growing up in Greenwich, Will was an inspiration to many. At 14, he was named the American Legion's "most outstanding young resident of the town." He was a multi-sport athlete, musician, and Eagle Scout, among many other accomplishments. At Greenwich High School, he earned 14 varsity letters in five sports, was captain of the track team, and, as a running back on the football team, was selected for the Fairfield County Interscholastic Athletic Conference All-Western Division offensive unit. He was Student Body president, first trumpet chair in orchestra, band, and jazz ensemble, and sang the lead roles of Curly and Billy Bigelow in the musical theatre productions of "Oklahoma" and "Carousel". Also, while in high school, Will was president of the Greenwich chapter of the National Honor Society, first trumpet chair Connecticut All-State Band, and received the Connell Award among 400 participants in American Legion Boys State.
At Harvard, Will played on the football team, was a member of the A.D. Club (elected Vice President) and Hasting Pudding Theatricals and was lead and solo trumpet with the Harvard Jazz Ensemble. During his sophomore summer, he interned in Washington, DC, for then-Connecticut Senator, Lowell P. Weicker, Jr. He wrote his senior magna cum laude thesis on U.S.-Soviet arms control negotiations.
Will had a long career in Manhattan commercial real estate investment and management before pursuing his lifelong passion for music, entertaining many with his gifts as a singer, horn player, and arranger for his band.
Above all else, Will valued family and was a loving, devoted son. Nothing delighted Uncle Willie more than watching his nieces and nephews excel on the field and on the stage. He was always there for a performance, game, or graduation, cheering louder than anyone.
Will was a spiritual man of deep faith, connected to nature and all God's creatures. Some of his happiest times were spent on the river, at the ocean, and in the woods with his brothers. He loved a homemade Southern meal and playing the piano at holidays with family and friends gathered around singing.
Will touched the lives of countless people. Our son, brother, and uncle was a great man full of heart, character, intellect, and talent. He will be missed forever. His family expresses our sincerest gratitude for the immense outpouring of love and compassion we have received.
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Published by Greenwich Time on Sep. 14, 2024.

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Jim Stewart

September 21, 2025

I am so sorry this a year late. I just found out about Will's passing. I only knew Will for 3 weeks. We toured Europe with The Ambassadors of Connecticut together in the summer of 79. Will was the featured trumpet with the concert band while I was the featured trumpet with the jazz band. We had a great time time together. I learned so much from him. He was a beautiful soul!

jim & Robin Foote

October 31, 2024

Will, Jim and Robin just found out. So, surprised and upset. What happened? No one inform us . We moved out of the area.
My heart is broken.
We loved you Will!
Fare the Well, Will

John Nicholas

October 30, 2024

My condolences to the Saleeby family. Will was a year ahead of me on Harvard’s football team. We practiced together as running backs/receivers. He was a gentleman, fierce competitor, terrific athlete and dedicated player who always gave 100%. He was an inspiration to me and everyone on the team. Rest in Peace, Will.

Kevin L. Carter

October 30, 2024

Rest in Peace Will. You were a wonderful football and musical teammate. I´ll never forget how great you were on that horn.

Lisa Esposito

October 7, 2024

My brother Joe Schiano met Will in Central Middle School, and on to GHS . I got to know Will especially when he came to go swimming in our pool on Cognewaugh Rd. He was a great person, very athletic and just a wonderful being.. I was so sad to hear of Wills passing and extend my deepest condolences to the family on mine and my brothers behalf. My brother passed away on Dec.28 last year, so I understand the loss..I know he would of been sad as well cause they became good friends..

Jackie bertino

October 5, 2024

Saleeby family
Great memories of will growing up in north mianus I remember all the good times at the baseball field
Sending my condolences to all of you sorry for your loss .
Jackie fabricatore (bertino )

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Marcia Roney

September 23, 2024

My deepest sympathy to the Saleeby family. I remember watching Will play baseball many years ago in Greenwich. My sons Joey and Roy Gabay always had so much respect for him. RIP dear Will!

John Santoro

September 22, 2024

My deepest condolences to Will's family and friends. He was an exceptionally gifted and giving person.

Dan Ornato

September 22, 2024

Hearing of this really tragic news makes me feel angry and upset. I have a lot of happy recollections of Will. He is a truly unique, once-in-a-lifetime person. To name a few, they are inspirational, kind, and compassionate.
The Ornato family would like to send Amy and the entire Saleeby family our deepest sympathies as well as our thoughts and prayers.

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Barbi Temple

September 20, 2024

He sounds like a truly wonderful and gifted man. Our deepest condolences for his family and friends . Thank you for sharing a part of his inspirational life. Chris and Barbi Dykeman.

Karen Ponger

September 19, 2024

To Amy and the entire Saleeby family. Will was an incredible person and will be sorely missed. My deepest heart felt condolences and prayers to you all.

Melissa Steere

September 18, 2024

To the whole Saleeby family we all spent such wonderful times at Diamond Hill. I have so many memories of Will. He was my first crush.I believe we performed an oboe and trumpet duet at church. I was just a girl but I loved him so. I am so terribly bereft and I haven't seen him in years. Please accept my deep heart felt condolences. He will live on in many,many hearts.

wendy rieger

September 18, 2024

So painful to hear about the tragic death of Will. I knew him in junior high school and he was so kind, talented and gifted. What a huge loss. I can still hear him singing at Central Junior High in the musical, Oklahoma! He was effusive with a love for life.

Carolyn (Crimmins) Capshaw and Helen (Crimmins) Getz

September 18, 2024

Vesta, Amy and the rest of the Saleeby's, My mom and I were so terribly sad to hear of Will's passing. I practically grew up in your warm and loving household -- of which I hold so many fond memories! It's no surprise that Will became so amazingly accomplished in life. Our hearts hurt for you.

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Nancy Rieger

September 18, 2024

Though I was a year older than Will, I have such clear memories of him at Central Junior High. He shined so brightly, he brought anyone in his orbit laughter and love.

Sal Costantino

September 17, 2024

Dear Saleeby Family:

My deepest condolences to all of you on Will´s passing from this life.

I am deeply saddened, but am thankful for his friendship and many wonderful memories:

wrestling with him in gym class (it was like wrestling a boulder... he won, of course),

an overnight trip to Long Island with his Dad,

sleepover at the Saleeby home,

jazz ensemble and concert band performances, and more.

I loved him like a brother and will miss him. Please be assured of my prayers for him and for all of you.

"For I am sure that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord."

St. Paul to the Romans 8:38-39

Monica Muller

September 17, 2024

My condolences to the Saleeby family.

Robert Bedford

September 17, 2024

The memories I have of Will and his Saleeby siblings will endure forever. So sorry for your loss of a fabulous young man. My prayers for Will and the Saleeby Family in your time of need.
RIP Will.
Bob & Debbie Bedford

Jay Capoccia

September 17, 2024

My Deepest condolences to all of the Saleeby's. So many great memories of Will are cherished. The old neighborhood is saddened, but we are so grateful to have had Will in our lives. RIP Will.

Gerry Leone

September 17, 2024

Will was an inspiration to me and all our teammates at Harvard. We are saddened to hear of his untimely and tragic death. Gerry Leone ADJ#15 Class of 1985

Cathy (Salerno) Thorson, GHS Class of 1980

September 17, 2024

What a terrible tragedy! Will was an inspiration to all. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. May God bring comfort and peace to his grieving family.

Kimberly Sandreuter

September 17, 2024

Although it's been so many years, I can see Will's smiling face as if it were yesterday. He was so kind and such a good guy. I am so sad to hear of Will's passing. My heart and deepest sympathy to the Saleeby family. Sending prayers to you all.

Michael Koenig

September 16, 2024

My deepest sympathy to the Saleeby family. I was a member of the Darien High School football team back and most notably in 1979. The Greenwich Cardinals were fierce. I will always remember Will as one of the toughest players we faced on the field and the gentleman that he was off the field. He inspired all of us for all of these years since then.

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John Bedford

September 16, 2024

RIP Will. I haven't seen you since I left for college, but after reading all of your accomplishments and accolades you will be sadly missed. To your family, I hope you can rest that he is at peace. God bless

Billy Campbell

September 16, 2024

I remember meeting him for the first time in college at the AD. His smile was electric. His personality always burned brightly. I'm sorry to hear he's gone.

Kaye Haggerty

September 16, 2024

Dear Vesta,
It has been many years since we were together at DHUMC. I have so many fond memories of the Saleeby family. My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you all with the tragic passing of Will. His many accomplishments will not be forgotten.

Kaye Haggerty

Brian Moylan

September 16, 2024

I did not know Will Saleeby, although I knew of his legacy as a fellow Cardinal football player. He was Coach Ornato's favorite player of all the players he coached. "Probably pound for pound as tough a guy that's played here." He broke his good arm in the '79 FCIAC championship game and continued to play anyway! Will lived a very accomplished life that was tragically cut short. I wish I had known him. My condolences to all his loved ones.

Brian Moylan
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Sherry and Grit Young

September 16, 2024

The Young family all send our love to Wills family. Will was always a man of courage Watching him play football with our boys at Greenwich High was an amazing sight to see. He rarely seemed hampered by his physical difficulty and played with skill and courage. What a loss to the world.

Bill & Kim Bedford

September 16, 2024

Our heartfelt sadness to hear of Will's passing. So many great memories growing up with the Saleeby family. All our thoughts and prayers to the entire family.

Elizabeth (Mindy) Menegon

September 16, 2024

Will was adored by all! Despite being a few years my senior, he was known for his kindness, sense of humor, and the love he shared with others.

Rosemarie Egan

September 15, 2024

Dear Saleeby Family, Although I didn´t know Will my heart and prayers are with you now Deepest condolences to all your FamilyGod bless his soul

Lianne Sasson

September 15, 2024

It was with much sadness that I read of Will´s passing. Danielle´s and my sincere condolences to all the family. I have so many memories of our years together at DHUMC. I can still picture in my mind Will playing the trumpet for us. Beautiful as always. Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers always, with much love

Tony Malkin

September 15, 2024

Will Saleeby was a great man. He was there as a friend, he was there for his family, and he ultimately chose his own path.

At only 62, he had so much more to give.

Carol Weigold

September 15, 2024

So sorry to learn of his very tragic death. Will was such a fine young man. He will be remembered always. Please know my heart and prayers go out to his loving family.

Wendy Thorenz

September 15, 2024

My deepest sympathy to you all. I remember Will from DHUMC and Christ Church - along with Vesta, Molly, Amy and Dan & Cindy and family. I'm so very sorry.
May God watch over and keep you,
Wendy Thorenz

Mary Bolger

September 15, 2024

Amy and family, So very sorry for your tremendous loss.

Sincere condolences
Mary Bolger

Susan Fales-Hill

September 14, 2024

Dear Mrs. Saleeby and family, I had the honor of knowing Will a bit at Harvard College. He was an inspirational figure then, and will live on the memories of many. My only regret is not getting to know him better. Please accept my deepest condolences. Yours Sincerely, Susan Fales-Hill

Janice Liptak

September 14, 2024

"CONDOLENCES To ENTIRE fAMILY For--"TRAGIC LOSS of WIL"!--"SO VERY SORRY".

Sarah Gibbs

September 14, 2024

So very heartbroken to hear about Will. Always so delightful to be around. Such a kind person. He made a point to come visit me not long after Mom passed away. And we had such a good visit. I always loved being around him. Hugs to you all...

Ham Poynor

September 14, 2024

Roger and Ben,
Our prayers are with you and your family. We miss seeing you guys, please know we are thinking of y´all.
Sincerely-Ham Poynor

Dan West

September 14, 2024

Will was an inspiration on and off the field he overcame a devastating injury and excelled at any sport he played in. You will be missed Will RIP D West

Mike Capalbo

September 14, 2024

I am very sorry Saleeby family.

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