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Alexander J. Scott

1972 - 2020

Alexander J. Scott obituary, 1972-2020, Avon, CT

BORN

1972

DIED

2020

FUNERAL HOME

Duksa Family Funeral Homes at Newington Memorial

20 Bonair Avenue

Newington, Connecticut

Alexander Scott Obituary

Alexander Jan Scott, 48, of Avon passed away on Monday, June 29, 2020 at the UConn Health Center after suffering a hemorrhage. He was born on May 30, 1972 in Springfield, MA and was the beloved son of Roy A. Scott of Wilbraham, MA and Frigga Breitenoder of Badenweiler, Germany. He was the brother of Christopher Scott and his wife Sarah of Westfield, MA, step-son of Mary Ellen Scott of Wilbraham, MA, step-brother of Patricia Canavan and James Gosselin of South Hadley, MA, Andrea Canavan and Thomas Eacobacci of Fort Lauderdale, FL, loving nephew to his two aunts Helen Eldred of East Montpelier, VT and Maudie Ansaldi of West Springfield, MA and a wonderful uncle to William, Andrew, Nora, Jack, Robert, Patrick, Joey, Jay, and Thomas. He also leaves his loving partner, Patrick Hamilton, and their Yorkshire Terrier, Lucy. Alex grew up in Holyoke, MA and attended the Williston Northampton School, Rectory School, and Tilton Academy, where he was president of his senior class. He was a cum laude graduate of Western New England College, and Simmons Institute of Funeral Service. Avon was his home where he and Patrick enjoyed spending time with friends and attending auctions in New England. From a young age, Alex's calling was to be a funeral director. He fulfilled his dream by providing comfort to thousands of people during his 25 years of service in the funeral profession, most recently as Senior Licensed Funeral Director and Director of Public Relations with the Duksa Family Funeral Homes (Newington Memorial and Burritt Hill). Alex had a strong belief in continuing education and was a Certified Funeral Service Practitioner, a Certified Pre-planning Consultant and a Certified Cremation Services Provider. Alex was the current President of the Connecticut Funeral Directors Association, elected in 2019. He was an active member and past board member of the Newington Chamber of Commerce and the Rotary International Club of Newington and more recently of New Britain-Berlin, of which he was the President Elect, slated to serve 2021-22. He was a proud recipient of the Paul Harris Fellow in 2017 for his contributions to his community. He was also a longtime committee member and volunteer with the New Britain Triad. Alex was a friend to all who knew him and always made us laugh with his witty jokes, funny stories, and hilarious impressions. He was the life of the party, but also a kind listener and confidant. He took the time to have a conversation with you and strove to see the good in people. Alex appreciated the finer things in life: his Mercedes Benz, a gourmet meal, a well-tailored suit, but what mattered most to him were his family and friends. The world is a little dimmer without Alex's ebullient personality. He will be deeply missed by all of us who knew and loved him. Relatives and friends are invited to call on Wednesday, July 8th, from 1:00 to 4:00 p.m. at St. Mary's Church, 626 Willard Ave., Newington, face coverings will be required. A private Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Mary's Church. He will be laid to rest privately. If you are unable to attend, please contact us at [email protected] for broadcast details. His friends and family at Duksa Family Funeral Homes at Newington Memorial, 20 Bonair Ave., Newington are serving his family. To share a memory or condolence, please visit us at www.duksa.net.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jul. 5, 2020.

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Connie Costa

June 29, 2025

Forever in my heart! Beautiful memories of watching you grow and your amazing personality! My Nicolas was called to Heaven last year. Praying your spirits have reconnected and you are laughing about the crazy things you did in your childhoods! You are missed!
Connie & Ceasar

Connie & Ceasar

June 29, 2024

We hold dear the memories of you as a happy, energetic and very curious little boy who grew up to be an amazing man. We cherish a black & white photo of you, Chris and our son Nicolas when you were about 6 years old....3 little boys with such beautiful smiles. You were called to Heaven at such young age and our beloved son,Nicolas, also, called to Heaven at age 45 this past January. We never imagined that your parents and us would go thru the most painful experience of our lives...burying our beautiful children. Rest in the arms of the Angels Alex!
Forever in our hearts!
Connie & Ceasar

Connie, Ceasar & Nicolas

June 29, 2023

Forever in our hearts! You brought so much joy to our lives. We cherish all the beautiful memories! Rest in the arms of the Angels Alex!

Carol Hutter

April 13, 2021

Hi Roy and Frigga and all the family. I am so sorry for such a sad loss. I remember Alex and in recent years met him again at the Springfield Symphony Concert he attended and was thrilled to see him. Please know I am thinking of you with love.

Richard Bugryn

August 14, 2020

So sorry to hear of the lose of Alex, he was a neighbor of ours at Farmington Woods

Laura Danz and Roy Ryzak

July 13, 2020

The first time we met him it was like he was a friend always. He was the epitome of life! Loved laughing with him. Such a wonderful person. So missed.

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Ellie

July 6, 2020

There will be a huge void in all of our lives. We will hang on to our precious memories. I was with Alex when he first met Lucy. It was love at first sight and I think this photo tells all.

Patricia Johns

July 5, 2020

Alex is a dear, dear man who will never be forgotten. I've had the pleasure of knowing him for many years and he will always be in my heart.

'67 High School of Commerce Alum

July 5, 2020

Condolences to family and fondest remembrances!

David Ansaldi

July 4, 2020

Alex was my cousin & simply a hilarious person that had me laughing uncontrollably within minutes every time I was lucky enough to be around him. I'm so very saddened by his passing, & wish nothing but love & prayers for his immediate family. I'll miss you very much. Rest in peace Alex.

Krista Czelusniak

July 3, 2020

I grew up down the street from Alex and we used to go sledding together on his familys big front lawn/hill. We used to have lots of fun. Alex was always so sweet and kind and positive. Im sorry to hear of his untimely passing. I know this is a great loss to those who were close to him. Please know Im thinking of you at this difficult time.

Connie & Ceasar

July 3, 2020

We were so fortunate to have you as part of our lives during your adolecense years. You brough so much joy. And, we still remember you telling us at the tender age of 7 that you were going to be a Funeral Director when you grew up.....you said you loved the beautiful black limos. We laughed, but it was the dream that you made into a reality. I regret that I was not able to cook you the Portuguese dinner , as we had discussed in
May. Rest in Peace dear Alex!
Forever in our hearts !
Our Deepest Sympathy to his family and loved ones.

Fisette-Batzner Funeral Home Duksa Family Funeral Homes

July 3, 2020

With deepest sympathy during this time of difficulty.

Newington Memorial Funeral Home Duksa Family Funeral Homes

July 5, 2020

With deepest sympathy during your time of mourning.

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