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Liz Davis
January 1, 2020
Allan, I think of you often and I am so blessed to have known you. Nora you writings about your grief of losing Allan are so difficult to read, but at the same so enlightening and real of what we all will at some point have go through. My heat and l love are with always. Blessings
Martin Joseph Carroll
May 4, 2018
I knew Allan from our time together in swimming at Westminister School Pool in Simsbury. I enjoyed by brief time (about 3-4 years). I did not know Allan as a noted Sociologist. We were friends and generally talked about nonsence and enjoyed each other. Allan was a good person who enjoyed swimming as I did and I miss our conversations.
Liz Davis
February 26, 2018
I went to Allan's blog to see if he had posted an essay, regarding the most recent gun massacre so that we could post on the Agency's Facebook page to continue to bring awareness to those we serve. I was so taken aback when realized he gone over. He will be missed by me and so many others. However the work and his words he gave to us will continue his work to end violence against women, as well as a guide to learn how to swim in this thing we call patriarchy. Love you much, rest peacefully
Cassidy
February 23, 2018
After yet another incident of gun violence recently here in the US, I went to Allan's blog to see if he had posted another insightful essay, one that would help remind me that there are sane and thoughtful people in this world, and I was shocked to see the word "was" and soon realized he recently passed away. I gasped and shouted "no!," and I was even more saddened to learn that he died due to cancer, something I just experienced with a family member which taught me how heartbreaking and cruel life can be. I am just a random person who never knew Allan, but his books and writings, particularly the Gender Knot which I discovered in the past few years, changed my life. His gentle nature, empathy, and gift for explaining things in plain, everyday language finally got through to me and helped me find my humanity as a human being. His writings helped me understand concepts of systems of oppression, privilege, and how deeply I had internalized misogyny and self hatred over my 30 some years on this planet. It was revolutionary. I hardly have the words to explain how radically my world shifted and my mind expanded. And I know I am not the only one. I am so tenderly sad that he is gone. Just in the past few years, many of the concepts he has written about and been an advocate for have entered the greater public consciousness, and more people than ever before are starting to "get it." Perhaps we are on a precipice, perhaps a sea change is coming. Am I am heartbroken that he will miss it. May his words live forever and continue to touch countless lives.
Nancy Mezey
January 17, 2018
I was so sorry to learn of Allan Johnson's passing. I am a professor of sociology and an associate dean. I was introduced to his book, The Forest and the Trees, when I started teaching Intro to Sociology many years ago. Despite my PhD in sociology and my previous years of teaching, his book changed how I think about the discipline, how I teach my courses, and how I work as an administrator. I cannot thank Allan enough for the contributions he made to the field of sociology, me personally, and to so many students. Although I never met him, I will greatly miss his presence in this world.
Kenna J. Josephene
January 13, 2018
Perhaps it would be inspiring to tell you the extent of the impact Dr. Johnson's lectures and writing have had on my life, but it would be embarrassing to talk about myself that much in this forum. Although I never met Dr. Johnson in person, I've considered him an important teacher of mine since first reading The Gender Knot 18 years ago. I share his quotations and recommend his books. I was thrilled that he'd been putting out books so rapidly in recent years.
Dr. Johnson's memoir Not From Here was a significant contributing factor in my choice to move to Minnesota in 2017. I emailed him in November, when I realized that he'd supplied, yet again, an important influence on my path. It was the first time he didn't acknowledge one of my grateful emails, and I was sad. Now I understand that he must have been engaged in the dying process when I sent it. What a shock.
I hope one day to see that I am like Dr. Johnson, not only relentless in observing my own biases but also tirelessly devoted to work that calls me. Dr. Johnson is a hero of mine because of his unwavering devotion. He wanted people, including himself, to •understand•. In this very desire, he was a feminist, because he was choosing understanding over action. He used his male privilege to bring feminist values to our world.
I believe that Dr. Johnson's fame will grow over time, as the world becomes more and more ready to receive the understanding he brought to us.
Matthew Ezzell
January 11, 2018
I am heartbroken over the news of Allan's passing. I stumbled across the first edition of _The Gender Knot_ while browsing the shelves at a Barnes and Noble years and years ago. I was already working in the rape crisis movement as an educator and crisis advocate, and I was intrigued by the book description and thought it might be useful for my work. I could not put the book down, and I underlined more of the book than I left un-underlined. It crystalized and gave words to so much of what I had been confronting in my work in the movement. I went on to pursue a PhD in sociology, and I am now an Associate Professor. I have cited Allan in everything that I have ever published, and I have assigned at least one chapter or essay from Allan in every class I have ever taught. I was lucky to have the chance to meet Allan at conferences and at public events on a few occasions, once even getting the chance to pick him up from the train station in Durham, NC, and get some time with him one-to-one. He was gracious, thoughtful, and deeply in touch with his humanity in my interactions with him. The impact he has had -- and will continue to have -- on me, my work, my students, and the broader movements for justice of which he was a part simply cannot be overstated. I offer my sincere condolences to his family and loved ones, and I offer my utmost gratitude for his example, his clarity of insight, and his commitment to resisting inequality wherever it is instituted.
Hiroko Tsuboi-Friedman
January 9, 2018
Please accept my sincere condolences. Prof. Johnson's sociology class was an opening experience which helped setting my path. From him I learnt to see the world in different lights. My deepest gratitude for his generosity and wisdom. May his beautiful soul rest in peace.
Sherryl Kleinman
January 8, 2018
I met Allan at a conference on teaching about inequality, many years ago, at NC State University. Each of us attended the other's session. I was already familiar with Allan's work and it was wonderful to talk with him at that event. I also invited him to speak about sexism at UNC Chapel Hill, several years ago, and spent time talking with him and my partner (we're both sociologists) about the world and what we could do to work for the good. At that event Allan spoke to about 300 people, mostly undergraduates. I remember thinking: Anyone who came to this event with skepticism has left here as a feminist! I could feel the transformation taking place in the room.
I have used Allan's books in courses on sociology of gender (and other inequalities) for years, all to great effect. In December, undergraduates read his chapter on "Where do we go from here?", and I read their reflection papers on the reading. All 36 of them wrote that the chapter gave them hope, that it solidified their commitment to making small and large changes in themselves and their surroundings, and that it was a perfect way to end the semester.
Allan Johnson was a true ally and he will be missed. I am so grateful that I had the opportunity to spend some time with him--and his readings will be shared with so many in the future.
Serina Beauparlant
January 8, 2018
So sorry to hear about Allan's passing. He was a good man (and a gifted thinker and writer) who cared about making a difference in the world. I feel proud to have been his editor on Privilege, Power and Difference but, honestly, all I did was sign him and he basically did the rest. He was that strong as an author. He will be much missed.
Terence McGinn
January 8, 2018
Hundreds and hundreds of my past students interacted with Allan via video conference after reading his book "The Forest and the Trees." I will miss Allan very much personally, but I am even sadder that my future students won't have the joy, challenge, and stimulation of talking with him. In our Fall '17 video visit, he mentioned his love for Nora, a more personal reflection than was typical in these conversations. Thank you for everything, Allan!
Terence McGinn, University of Michigan Sociology Department
Sarah Margles
January 8, 2018
Allan's death is a huge loss for our world, especially at a time when we need voices like his most acutely. He taught me not only how to understand systems of privilege, but also how to explain them and bring others to join in building a something different. He was s community builder and I feel grateful to have been part of it.
Bill Eichhorn
January 7, 2018
I am saddened to learn of Allan's passing. He stayed in our home during his work with the Marin Abused Women's Services to end men's violence against women. His presentations and workshops were well received. I enjoyed our conversation over breakfast about his writing and he encouraged me to keep writing. I will miss the passion and clear thinking about social justice and peace that came through his blog. He was an important ally in the struggle. Bill Eichhorn
Rebecca Whisnant
January 7, 2018
I'm very saddened to hear of Dr. Johnson's passing. I have used *The Gender Knot* in my feminist classes for many years, and it has had a huge influence on my students. I never had the privilege of meeting him in person, but in our few email communications he was generous and gracious. My condolences to his family and friends as they mourn this kind and gifted man.
Linda Kleinschmit
January 7, 2018
I was the coordinator for the North Central Region Sustainable Agriculture Research and Education Professional Development Program (federal grant program) about 8 years ago. We were struggling with how to deliver diversity train the trainer's training for basically an all white educators group, to take back to their state extension educators. My daughter is a director of the Iowa University MSW program and she said she used Allan's Privilege, Power, and Difference when teaching about racism. We decided to give it a shot and call him to see if he'd work with us and he said "Yes!" I still get thanks for the class, many saying it was the most life changing class they've ever experienced. MY daughter was blown away that she was able to work with Allan and able to help create the face-to-face and the on-line-classes for the region. We are so grateful he shared his gifts and many of us are trying to learn and share what he taught us. -Linda Kleinschmit, Hartington, NE
judith jordan
January 7, 2018
Allan was a gentle, kind and brilliant truth teller. I had the privilege of working with him on a project at Andover called "Gender Matters" and again when he was the invited speaker at the Jean Baker Miller Institute. His devotion to expanding social justice and his unwavering attention to naming and challenging unearned privilege (male, white, heterosexual, middle class) infused his work . He was an inspirational speaker and teacher. He will continue to inspire and uplift those who find their way to his magnificent, accessible writings.
My love to his family and friends ......and hoping you are finding comfort with each other and in the knowledge that Allan's life was a gift to so many. He made a difference.
Rev. Eido Frances Carney
January 7, 2018
I am deeply saddened to think the world has lost our important educator and statesman who spoke for the ideals of equality and justice. Allan stayed with us at Olympia Zen Center when he came to do a program at community college and he sat at our breakfast table in composure and elegance with the conviction that he was giving his life to the best work possible. His seminal book, PRIVILEGE, POWER, and DIFFERENCE is required reading at Olympia Zen Center, which we reread every few years in order not to become complacent in the need to remain vigilant. THE GENDER KNOT remains a work that reminds me not to waste my life. While the world is diminished by the loss of Allan's presence, we are fortified by the body of his work that lives on and must stay fresh for us all to be conscious and awake to the insidious nature of our "small contracted prejudices," and to know that with Allan's clear, honest, and truthful words we might stand on higher ground and make a better world for us all. He was and is a great spirit, a great bodhisattva of truth. His name will be placed on our altar and we will offer memorial chanting here in gratitude for his life and his teaching.
Thomas Clute
January 7, 2018
A very great Master Teacher to humanity.
A beloved Citizen.
Please review his critical contributions to increasing literacy for nurturing peace by "Unraveling the Gender Knot" and Allan's additional publications.
I spoke with Dr. Johnson in 2013 by phone and ordered his books autographed by himself. I will go more deeply in sharing his humbly brilliant empowerment and education legacies he leaves the world with.
Thomas M. Clute, MSW
President & CEO, Resource Connections International
Vancouver, Washington
Robert Foose
January 7, 2018
Allan was an invaluable member of the Endowment for Health extended family. He was a wise and insightful counselor.
Randy Foose
Board Chair
V Spike Peterson
January 7, 2018
Not only those closest to him, but also educational and social justice communities have suffered a deep loss. More than any other single author, Allan's work has informed and improved my three decades of teaching critical thinking as a university professor. A key contribution: Allan's account of how privilege operates systemically to reproduce social inequalities shifts attention from blaming individuals to recognizing how we all participate by simply following paths of least resistance' hence, we have a personal and collective responsibility to understand and transform structural inequalities. I am forever grateful for what Allan created and the illumination of hard questions it afforded; may his work carry on, be celebrated, and continue to inspire.
January 7, 2018
I AM TRULY SADDENED BY LIFE'S LOSS OF ALLAN. HE WAS TRULY A GOOD MAN. I DEVELOPED A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM AND ASKED HIM TO SPEAK TO US ON HIS WORK AT THE AMERICAN ACADEMY OF ORTHOPAEDIC SURGEONS LEADERSHIP MEETING. HE WAS A HUMBLE MAN BUT ALWAYS NOT HESITANT TO PROFESS HIS VIEWS.
THE WORLD WILL MISS HIM AND HIS WRITINGS.
TRUE CONDOLENCES TO HIS GRIEVING FAMILY
I CONSIDERED ALLAN A FRIEND--IN SYMPATHY, RAMON L JIMENEZ, MD
nancy ivey
January 7, 2018
I had quoted him from a book for my thesis and I wanted to look the quote up but couldn't find the book it was in so I wrote him directly and he wrote me back helping me. His willingness to expose patriarchy through the male gaze was revolutionary and opened my eyes. THank You dear Dr. Johnson for defending justice for all.
Lovett
January 6, 2018
It is never easy to lose a loved one, I pray you find comfort in Gods promise found at John 6:40 which says that soon we will see all our loved ones again. My deepest condolences to the family.
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