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Barbara Jayne Custer Ermisch

1927 - 2013

Barbara Jayne Custer Ermisch obituary, 1927-2013, Jupiter, FL

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1927

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2013

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Barbara Ermisch Obituary



Barbara Jayne Custer Ermisch, 86, born July 22, 1927 in Hartford, CT died December 5, 2013 at the Pavilion in Jupiter. She attended East Hartford High School and graduated from Manchester High School and Morse Secretary School. She worked at various administrative secretarial roles. Barbara married Robert Ermisch and they lived in Northridge, CA and Yuba City, CA before moving to Florida in 1971. She began working at Pratt and Whitney W. Jupiter as an Administrative Assistant giving herself the title "best damn secretary they had". The engineers in her group agreed! She leaves behind her two sons Philip Ermisch of Jupiter, FL, David Ermisch and wife Nora from Kuwait; Daughter Robin Benton of Lake Worth, FL; Brother Herb Custer of Martha's Vineyard, MA, David Custer and wife Dorothy of Manchester, CT; Sister Melinda Oehmsen from Ellington, CT; Grandchildren Cindee, Wyatt, Lauren, Megan, Ryan, Robert, Claire, Ronald, Brittany, and Brianna; Great Grandchildren Londyn, Aaron, Morgan, and Gabriel; Nephews Timothy, Peter and wife Carley; Niece Jill and husband Jack; Great Nieces and Nephews Andrew, Matthew, Chris, and wife Kim, Nick and wife Becca, and Kasey Oehmsen. Barbara will be missed greatly by her many friends in Connecticut and Florida. Her hobbies included golfing and bowling; sitting with her crossword puzzles and a Johnny Red. She prided herself on having a clean house. She got a thrill with buying things on sale and getting any bargain. She loved all of her siblings, children and grandkids. She enjoyed her summers in Connecticut and traveling around New England eating lobster and shore dinners. She was always a kind generous and loving woman, mom, aunt, grandmother, and friend. She was loved by all. Private services will be held. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Barbara's memory to Hospice of Palm Beach County, FL or to Doctors Without Borders. Online condolences may be made at www.aycockfuneralhomejupiter.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Dec. 8, 2013.

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Marylyn Greenough

December 16, 2013

Sincere sympathy to Barbara's family. I enjoyed working with Barbara at P&W. She was a great office mate.

Angie Barlow

December 13, 2013

A wonderful lady - enjoyed working with her - she always had that beautiful smile and a great sense of humor.

Peggy Faucher

December 13, 2013

David, Philip, Robin, Melinda, and Families......I am so sorry to hear of Barbara's passing. We had a lot of laughs while working at Pratt & Whitney, she was one of a kind and I'll never forget her. She had called me the day before she passed and I was hoping to see her when I was in town next week. I'm so glad I got to talk to her that day. Rest in peace, Barbara - I love you!

Terri Bagley

December 11, 2013

To all of the members of the Ermisch, Custer, and Arnold families, I'm very sorry to learn of Barbara's passing. She was a wonderful Lady! Sincerely, Terri

December 9, 2013

Philip, David, Robin and Melinda and all the Ermisch Family,

I will always remember your Mom and Sister for all of the good times our families had together when we were very young. What I will remember most of your Mom (and Dad) was the laughter we always heard when they got together. It could have been Coventry, Glastonbury, California or Cape Cod but it was always laughter and it made me think that it was going to be a lot of fun to grow up and, with the exception of times like this, it has been.

With sincere sympathy and regards,
Bob Munroe

December 9, 2013

God Bless you Auntie Barbara.. Much Love & Peace to all! Stephen Arnold

Nora Ermisch

December 8, 2013

We Love you mom you are great mom !

Karen Smith

December 8, 2013

The angels in Heaven are having a lot more fun now that Barbara is with them...What a wonderful, kind, loving person she was, and a merciless Scategories player. She was a gift to all who knew her. God Bless you Barbara.

December 8, 2013

We Love you Mom! God Bless you! Love David, Nora, Robert and Claire. The best damn Mom and Grandma ever.....

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