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Christopher Brinkman Obituary



Christopher J. Brinkman, 26, of Granby, died December 8, 2015 at Hartford Hospital. Chris was born in Hartford to Kathleen C. Sofrin and the late James A. Brinkman. After high school, Chris enlisted in the Navy and proudly served his country. Chris was a passionate and hardworking man who lived life to its fullest. Chris was a gifted athlete who was a scratch golfer. He would light up every room he entered with an infectious smile and great sense of humor. He was a loyal friend to many and will be greatly missed. He was proud to be the apple of his Grandma Ginny Cormier's eye. In addition to his mom Kathy, he is survived by his step father Terry, his sister Katie, the love of his life Mallory Benkert, his step siblings Will, Katie, and Tasha. He is additionally survived by his uncle Chuck Cormier, his aunts, Barb Allen and her husband John, Mari Eisenman and her husband Tom, and Elise Sullivan and her husband Leehan, as well as cousins Melissa and Michelle Allen, special family friend Kay Diamond, and many other cousins who will miss him dearly. In addition to his dad, he was predeceased by his uncle John H. Brinkman, aunt Jane Lolk, and cousin Lyrll Eisenman. Funeral services will be Saturday at 10:00 a.m. in St. James's Episcopal Church, 1018 Farmington Ave. West Hartford. Friends may call Friday from 4-7 p.m. at the Molloy Funeral Home, 906 Farmington Ave. West Hartford. In lieu of flowers memorial donations in his memory may be made to the Wounded Warrior Project P.O. Box 758517 Topeka, KS 66675. Online expressions of sympathy may be made at www.molloyfuneralhome.com



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Published by Hartford Courant on Dec. 10, 2015.

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Ashley McCabe

December 4, 2020

It is this time of year when we miss those who mean so much the most. To Chris’s family and friends, may you feel him close to your hearts as we approach the 5th year of his passing. I know my Dad is keeping him company in heaven.
I wish you all a beautiful holiday.

beth stewart

December 21, 2015

RIP Chris

Suzanne O'Leary

December 15, 2015

Christopher

Thank You for your service to our country

Sandra Freeman

December 13, 2015

Dear Mallory, You call me any time day our night 3 am is fine.I'm a good listener should you need a shoulder to lean on.
Gods blessing during this period of mourning and grieving...You'll be okay...I promise...
You are in my thoughts and prayers everyday.
Love Sandra
You have my number...

Pam Stevens

December 11, 2015

Chris will be greatly missed by anyone who had the honor of spending time with him. Quick with a smile and a light heart. He was a beautiful soul. My prayers are with all of you in finding your way in these difficult times.

Vinnie Secord

December 11, 2015

I only new Chris a short time but passing by his home was like sunshine. A smile, a fun quip, and always working on some project. Fabulous energy. My heart goes out to you and the rest of your family. Hugs and love, Vinnie

Michael Moffitt

December 11, 2015

Chris was a truly genuine, and charismatic friend. Solely, Chris could turn the dullest of moments into exciting and memorable adventures. He would always light up the room (and the tee box) with his extremely optimistic attitude, his willingness to help others, and as Mr. Glenn and Miss Jen have pointed out, his infectious smile. He was an advanced model citizen, with accolades that very few individuals could achieve. Chris will forever be deeply missed, and he will never be forgotten. I give my sincerest condolences to the Brinkman family, and his many other friends alike. He has, and will continue to inspire me to achieve success, regardless of circumstance. I wish I had one "standout" story to share here; however, I find myself unable to choose just one, as they are All noteworthy. I am certain Chris is already rocking the heavens! He is, and will forever be in the hearts of myself, and the others who surrounded him <3

Deb Henderson

December 11, 2015

Kathy, my heartfelt condolences to you and your family at this time of sadness. Even though I never met Chris, you always spoke so highly of him. He has your smile! Children are our greatest joy and gift from God. My prayers go out to you and your family that God will give all of you the strength to get through this tragic loss.

May God Bless you.

Mr. Glenn Miss Jen

December 11, 2015

Chris' infectious smile, high energy spirit, and always optimistic outlook will live in all of us. These are the gifts Chris gave us, in life, which will last a lifetime.

Dennis Buden

December 10, 2015

My sincerest condolences to the Brinkman family. What a shock. Chris was one of the most loyal and enthusiastic supporters of DAV Chapter 8's Golden Kielbasa Veterans Open veterans charity golf event and I fondly recall his phone call to me earlier this year informing me he and his group would be playing again, in honor of a lost friend. What irony and what sadness. Tragedies such as this shake us all, and remind each of us to live life to its fullest every day. Chris lived an all-too-brief but honorable life and will be missed dearly. Thank you, Chris, for your friendship and your service to our country.

Ashley McCabe

December 10, 2015

My deepest condolences to the family of my dear friend Chris. To Kathy and Mallory, no words can heal the pain of what you're feeling but I pray for you both every day and may the support of all your friends and family hold you up when you need it. It has brought me some comfort to know my dad was waiting for him to tee off on the most beautiful golf course Heaven has to offer.

To Chris, you were like a brother to me and my father loved you like a son. You will be greatly missed by all those fortunate enough to have known you. Rest in peace.

Ed Gorcenski

December 10, 2015

Kathy, Mallory, Family and Friends, We're so lucky to have known Chris. He accomplished more in his short time with us than many do in a lifetime. One can only try to replace the huge void he's left behind by drawing inspiration from his kind hearted overwhelming spirit, hard work, and determination- and paying it forward.

Please accept our most sincere sympathy and condolences for your loss.

Ed G, Michael Byrne, John Rosenthal and golf friends from Tallwood.

Deb Allan-DeVonroe

December 10, 2015

Kathy, There are no words I can offer you and your family at this time but know you and yours are all in my prayers and may you find some comfort in the memory of the love and joy and the blessing he was while here. Please find comfort in knowing that he is no longer suffering or in any pain but whole, resting and at peace. In time I pray you find comfort and peace in knowing this. So it is for the family's peace I am praying.
Deb Allan-DeVonroe.

Joyce Reynolds

December 10, 2015

Chris,
You were very special to me. Eternal rest and peace.
Love ya!

Raymond H. Landry, Jr.

December 10, 2015

Chris, Rest in Peace. The world has loss a true gentleman, you were a great person with a sincere positive outlook on life. My deepest condolences and prayers to your loved ones.

Lauren Ransom

December 10, 2015

Thinking of all of you <3

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