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Dolores CHESKY Obituary





CHESKY, Dolores

Dolores "Del" May (Martino) Gauthier Chesky, 81, of Manchester, beloved wife of the late Walter Chesky, died Saturday (June 25, 2011) at Vernon Manor. She was born in Hartford on May 12, 1930. She was daughter of the late Anthony and Euretta (Lovely) Martino. She grew up in the South End of Hartford and had lived in South Windsor before moving to Manchester 20 years ago. Del and her husband, Walter, opened three restaurants. The 4C's Restaurant, formerly of South Windsor; Restaurant 94, formerly of Manchester and Church Corners Restaurant, former of East Hartford. She was a volunteer for the State of Connecticut as a Long Term Care Advocate for nursing home patients. Del was a longtime member of the Cameo Club of Enfield; a former member of the South Windsor Fire Department Ladies Auxiliary . She was a longtime member of the Democratic Committee of South Windsor. Del leaves a sister, Joan Styles and spouse, Scott of Sarasota, Florida. She is survived by two devoted daughters; Denise Chesky Schaeffer and spouse, Thomas of Manchester, and Robin Chesky and spouse, Christina Dahl of Broad Brook. She leaves a son, Michael Chesky and spouse, Maria of Sandwich, MA. She leaves five grandchildren, Thomas Schaeffer and partner, Nancy Dow of Manchester, James Schaeffer of Manchester, Ashley Pearson of Quincy, MA, Stephanie, Kristina and Zachary Chesky of Sandwich, MA and a great granddaughter, Leiah. She leaves a granddog, Frodo of Broad Brook. She leaves many nieces and nephews as well many friends. Among them are Hilda, Fran, Tony, Virginia and Raffi. She was predeceased by two sisters, a brother and aunts, Lorraine (Martino) Fraher, Gloria Martino Gallo, Lawrence Martino and Phyllis Trayha and Irene Barrows. The family would like to thank the staff at Vernon Manor for their compassionate care.
The funeral will be held Thursday at 11 a.m., at the Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home, 419 Buckland Road, South Windsor. Burial will follow at East Cemetery, Manchester. Her family will receive friends, Wednesday from 4 to 7 p.m., at the Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home. Donations may be made to Visiting Nurses Association, 8 Keynote Dr., Vernon, CT 06066 or to Connecticut Community Care Inc., CCCI, 43 Enterprise Dr., Bristol, CT 06010. For online expressions of sympathy, please visit us at www.carmonfuneralhome.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jun. 27, 2011.

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Kathy Leathers-Nohmy

July 7, 2011

Denise, Michael and Robin - I am sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. She may be gone but will never be forgotten. I remember all the pool privileges and the home made skating rink in your back yard. We all had a lot of fun because of your mom. She will be missed and we love you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kare Leathers

July 5, 2011

To Robin and Family, with deepest sympathy of the passing of your mom. Many memories growing up with your family...your mom was a lovely person and she will be greatly missed. Our deepest sympathy...The Leathers Family

July 3, 2011

Denise, Tom and family:
I just heard about Del's passing today. Denise, I am so very sorry for your loss.
Your mom Del was a wonderful woman, an inspiring role model in my life (in the kitchen), and alway full of wisdom and wit! I'm sure that she will be missed by so many!
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this very sad time. Hold close to your heart every memory, for those memories will last forever, keeping our loved ones close to our heart always. They never really do leave us, I know. Denise, I am always here for you if you ever need a friend. I know it's been a long time, but I think of you often and I will always cherish the friendship that we had.
With my sincerest sympathy.
Love, Roberta Ferrigno
Tolland, CT

June 30, 2011

To Denise and the entire Chesky family my thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. My memories of growing up wouldn't be complete without the 4C's and your Mom being a regular supporter at the dance studio. She was kind and generous of heart and will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved her. Mary Duprey (Tolland,CT)

Barb Tersavich

June 29, 2011

Robin, Chris and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Wishing you strength and comfort in your time of sadness and loss.

Vivian, Melissa, James, Abygail and Kyle Chesky

June 29, 2011

To the LOVING CHESKY FAMILY. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We will miss Del so very much. We had so much fun with Del,Walter and all of you. Weekends and holidays are not the same.
Del is now with Walt and Keith and up to thier old tricks and having a ball. Our LOVE goes out to all of you.

Bob Waldron

June 29, 2011

To the Chesky family. I'm sorry for your loss. I will always remember the 4 C's. One year my parents were away for an extended period of time and I ate all my meals there. What great memories I have of Del and Walt.

Virginia Farinella

June 28, 2011

My prayers and thought are with you at this time of sorrow. I met your Mom and Dad in 1963, when we moved to So.Windsor. She will be missed.

Debbie Giucastro

June 28, 2011

My heart broke when I heard of Aunt Del's passing. She was SUCH a special lady with an unmatched zest for life! She really did make the most of every moment and I will miss her dearly. My family and I were lucky enough to spend many Christmas Eve's with her....listening to her stories and her wonderful laugh. I will cherish those memories forever. My condolences to her family and friends. She will be deeply missed.

Margaret Zitko

June 28, 2011

Micheal,Denise,Robin.......
There are no words I can offer that would help with the pain. My heart & prayers go out to You. Del has joined the other Angels in Heaven.
Del, Walter, and all of You were a big part of my life. God bless You and keep those memories vivid, they will help you thru the sorrow.....
All My love,
Margaret

Rick, April, Augie & Lady Bird Parrott

June 27, 2011

Robin, Chris, Frodo and Chesky Family,

We are so very sorry for your loss and are thinking of all of you…

Carol Grasso

June 27, 2011

I just heard of Aunt Del's passing and want to extend my condolences to all of you. I think of her as always being so positive and such a kind lady. Please know that your Mom was always thought of with love and respect.
love,
Cousin Carol Chesky Grasso

scott McCartney

June 27, 2011

She was a very special person and will be missed I'm very sorry for your loss

Lori McCartney

June 27, 2011

Michael, Denise and Robin,

The passing of your mom is tremendous loss. There was a point in my life when I look at your parents as my second parents, I loved them both dearly and they both will (as well as all of you) will always have a special place in my heart. I'm so very sorry to hear about the passing of your mom. She was a very special woman with a very big heart and it saddens me deep to read about her loss.

Joe Giucastro

June 27, 2011

Words cannot express the terrible loss I feel with the passing of one of my favorite people on earth , that said I am so happy she was such an important part of my life , from the day I was able to crawl to her very last day. Not one day will pass that I wont think about her, her smile, her cheerful and positive spirit.

Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home

June 27, 2011

Our sincere sympathies for your loss.

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