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Dorothy Joan Sterpka

1936 - 2018

Dorothy Joan Sterpka obituary, 1936-2018, West Hartford, CT

BORN

1936

DIED

2018

FUNERAL HOME

Sheehan-Hilborn-Breen Funeral Home

1084 New Britain Avenue

West Hartford, Connecticut

Dorothy Sterpka Obituary

Dorothy Joan (Camarra) Sterpka passed away peacefully on December 6, 2018 after a courageous battle with cancer. Born in Hartford on June 14, 1936, to the late Ralph and Mary Camarra, she was predeceased by her sisters, Anna Gagliardo and Esther Murray. She leaves behind her beloved husband Frank R. Sterpka Jr., her children, John Sterpka and partner Sara Muzzey, Mary and Manuel King, Frank R. Sterpka III and Dorothy and Michael Burnett. She also leaves her cherished grandchildren, Christopher and Ashley Sterpka, Samuel and Nathaniel King and Michael, Joseph and Matthew Burnett. In addition, she leaves her loving sisters in law, many dear nieces and nephews, cousins and friends.Dorothy grew up in the close-knit Italian-American neighborhood of Garden Street for which she recently published her memoirs, Garden Street: Memories of a Hartford Girlhood and Death in a Family. She attended St. Joseph Catholic School and in 1954, graduated from Hartford Public High School, She received a BA in English at St. Joseph College, 1958, an MS in English at CCSU and an MSW at UConn in 1999. She met and fell in love with Frank and married on June 27, 1959 at St. Lawrence O' Toole Church. They resided in Burlington for four years before moving permanently to West Hartford. Dorothy taught English for over forty years, beginning as a high school teacher in Stockbridge, Ma and then at Tunxis Community College, UConn, Hartford Branch and CCSU until May 2018. She was one of an inaugural group of lay ministers at St. Peter Claver, a volunteer social worker at The COVE, Center for Grieving Children in West Hartford, a volunteer creative writing teacher at Seabury Adult Learning Center and UConn Adult Learning Center (OLLI). She was a regular contributor to Today's American Catholic. She studied psychodrama and poetry therapy in New Haven and at the Creative Righting Center in N.Y.C. Dorothy was a devoted wife, mother and friend. She was a compassionate, creative listener and to many, a trusted confidant. She was a faithful Catholic, committed to social justice, who appreciated all forms of spirituality. She was an avid reader, a poet and a writer, who in her last days, compiled a book of her poems, Punctuation of Light Verse. She was an enthusiastic traveler and a lifelong student and teacher. Dorothy will be greatly missed.Funeral procession will be Monday, (Dec. 10), 9:15 am from the Sheehan Hilborn Breen Funeral Home, 1084 New Britain Ave., West Hartford, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial, 10:00 am at St. Peter Claver Church, 47 Pleasant St., West Hartford. Burial will be in Fairview Cemetery, West Hartford. Calling hours are Sunday, (Dec. 9), from 3 to 6 pm at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Cove, Center for Grieving Children, West Hartford, CT or WMNR Radio Station in Monroe, CT. Online condolences may be made at www.SheehanHilbornBreen.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on Dec. 8, 2018.

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December 14, 2018

Sterpka Family,

We are deeply saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

December 10, 2018

I will miss her. I had hoped to take another
Memoir Class with her. She was an inspiration.
May she rest in peace.
Elizabeth Kincaid-Ehlers

Howard Orenstein

December 8, 2018

Frank and family,
Very sorry for your loss. The photo of Dottie from our yearbook is how her classmates think of her, bright eyed, talented and special. We will remember her.

Barbara Spingola

December 8, 2018

My deepest condolences to the Sterpka family and to all others who were in Dottie's life. Dottie was one of many first cousins I was lucky to have and share youth with. Right now she is joining all the Camarra's who passed before her. I can feel the joy Anne and Ester felt when their beloved sister joined them in heaven. Uncle Ralph and Aunt Mary you are together again. RIP dear cousin.❤❤

Mary Andersen

December 8, 2018

To Dot's family we send heartfelt condolences from all of her many friends at The Cove Center for Grieving Children. Dot always had a twinkle in her eye, and brought happiness and caring to children and families in the West Hartford Cove. She is and always will be in our hearts for her caring, compassion and good spirit.

Susan Roberts

December 8, 2018

Sincere condolences to the Sterpka family. Dot was always an active person--never content to sit still but rather get into the thick of things. She leaves behind a family she loved, a legacy of teaching, and a life devoted to helping others. God bless you, Dot!

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3:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

Sheehan-Hilborn-Breen Funeral Home

1084 New Britain Avenue, West Hartford, CT 06110

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10

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Sheehan-Hilborn-Breen Funeral Home

1084 New Britain Avenue, West Hartford, CT 06110

Dec

10

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St. Peter Claver Church

47 Pleasant St, West Hartford, CT

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