TALLMADGE, Eleanor
Eleanor Barbara Carpenter Tallmadge passed away on June 29, 2011 in Port Royal, South Carolina. She was the daughter of the late Thomas and Lillian Carpenter. She was born in Glendale, California on March 15, 1917. On March 14, 1941 she married Edward Tallmadge of Unionville, CT. She was predeceased by her parents, her husband, and three brothers, John, David and Roy. She is survived by her brother, Ed Carpenter and his wife Connie; children, David of New Mexico, Tom and his wife, Joyce, of South Carolina, and daughter, Barbara Winslow and husband Skip, of Norridgewock, Maine. She leaves behind grandchildren: Michael, Tom, Hope, Sam, Steve, Ashley and Ben, four great-grandchildren; and many special nieces and nephews. Eleanor graduated from New Britain Teacher's College in 1939. She taught schools in Burlington, Canton and Granby Ct. for a total of 27 years. She was a lifelong member of the Grange. She was a communicant of Trinity Episcopal Church of Collinsville CT., St. Helena's Church in Beaufort, S.C. and Skowhegan Episcopal Church in Maine. She played the piano and organ for Canton Baptist Church and several nursing homes in Conn. Eleanor began an ecumenical tutoring program for children from Hartford in the 1960s. She loved to travel in Europe and the UK where she had relatives. She was passionate about her flower gardens at her home in Canton, CT., her Beaufort home and around her lovely cottage in Maine.
In lieu of flowers, please send donations to Sanctuary Hospice, P.O. Box 161, Ridgeland, South Carolina, 29936. They were extraordinarily kind.
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July 27, 2011
Mrs. Tallmadge was quite a lady. It was a treat to have known her and I shall treasure memories of her. Wendy Travers Cyr
Ann Johnson/Jackson
July 21, 2011
I have always had fond memories of your mother as my first grade teacher and how she understood the needs of all her students
July 20, 2011
I didn't know her but she sounds like a wonderful person. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
Kathy Delaney Nicksa
July 14, 2011
Dear Barbara, Tom, and Dave,
I was so sorry to read of your mom's passing in the paper. My condolences to all of you and your extended family. Barb, I remember going to your home to play. Your mom was always so gracious. Dave, I remember you and my brother, Billy, (deceased '09) and Ollie and your band, "The Border Riders" always jamming at our home on Lovely Street. I hope you find comfort with the great memories of your wonderful, creative mom.
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Marie Malentacchi/Phelps
July 13, 2011
Dear Barbara,
Thinking of you at this sad time for you and your family.
Hope to maybe see you at our class reunion.
Cookie Morris Lingenheld
July 13, 2011
Dear Barbara,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. It is such a sad and hard thing to go through, but the memories of her will always be with you and give you comfort, at least that is what I have found. I remember her the most when you and I were together in elementary school and I would come to your house for a visit. She was always so inviting and very nice to me. And David and Tom would be in your mom's kitchen making sandwiches for us, the famous fried baloney and cheese sandwiches (which David said he invented)... they were really good. That was a long time ago, but very vivid in my memory.
With sincere condolences to you and your family.
Emily Benson
July 9, 2011
My Thoughts and Prayers are with the family. She was one of my teachers at the Canton Elementary School many many years ago. She will always be remembered!
July 9, 2011
Tom and Joyce and family, While living in Canton, Eleanor was very active in the museum and Canton Theater productions. When she was leaving Canton, Eleanor donated a box of hat decorations to me, to make Tin-type photo costumes. Loved knowing this very talented woman and her family. Eleanor filled her life with goodness.
Naomi Moulton
Mike Tallmadge
July 9, 2011
Gram was always a strong force for us, using every experience as a teachable moment. She fiercely loved her family and friends and taught spiritual principles by example. Life would not have been complete without her. Mike
J.R. Kane
July 9, 2011
Tom,
So sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts.
July 9, 2011
Tom
So sorry to read about your mother's passing. A mother's love is timeless and knows no boundaries. I'm sure she always had fond memories of you just as you will of her.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Joyce.
Roger & Judy Wilson
David Keefe
July 8, 2011
Dear Tom and Michael, Sorry to hear of your loss, Dad passed away just before Christmass, There is never a good time, only GOD's time, We will be praying for you and your family
Hope Mukai
July 8, 2011
Gram enriched my life in so many ways... sharing with me a love of music, the outdoors, travel and poetry. These things I pass on to her great-grandchildren in her honor. I will miss you Gram. - Hope
July 8, 2011
Mom never thought she gave enough, and yet she gave everything. Her devotion to family and friends and her church families was an example for all of us. She is missed in body, but her spirit lives on.
Barb
Vikki Langsdale
July 8, 2011
My condolences xxx
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