SANGSTER, Elizabeth May Cole Elizabeth May Cole Sangster of Essex, died December 3, 2006 after a brief illness. She was the wife of the late Douglas William Sangster and daughter of the late Theodore Scott and Ruth Douglas Cole of Winthrop. Mrs. Sangster was born in New Haven on June 2, 1921, graduated from the Hartford Hospital School of Nursing, served as a Navy nurse in World War II, and as a Red Cross nurse. She also worked as the Essex Public Health Nurse, a hospital nurse, and office pediatric nurse. She has been a resident of Essex since 1949 . She was a life member and past regent of Nathan Hale Memorial Chapter, National Society Daughters of the American Revolution, Member of Daughters of Founders and Patriots of America Survivors. Mother of Rebecca M. (Harold) Thompson of Essex, Sara Sangster Blas of O'Fallon, IL., William Douglas (Susan) Sangster of Old Saybrook, Lauretta (Timothy) Sangster Dillon of Stafford Springs. Grandmother of Elizabeth, Vincent, Christopher, Douglas B., Douglas S., Sara, Timothy, Julie. Great grandmother of Leah and Hunter. Sister of Theodore Scott Cole of Newport, NH and Richard Douglas (Beryl) Cole of Canton; also survived by sisters-in-law, Elizabeth Wright Cole of New Hampshire and Harriet G. Sangster of Essex, step mother-in-law Hilda Sangster of Essex, cousin George Douglas in California and numerous nieces, nephews and friends. Predeceased by her sister Lorraine Cole Trojan. A memorial service will be held Thursday December 7 at 11 a.m. at the Deep River Congregational Church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Red Cross, 97 Broad St, Middletown, CT 06453 or to Visiting Nurses of the Lower Valley Inc, 61 Main St. Centerbrook, CT. 06409.
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Jean Kelsey
December 6, 2006
Dear Family of Betty Sangster,
On behalf of the Conn. Daughters of the American Revolution, pleae accept our sincere condolences on the death of Betty. She was a very special lady and will be missed by everyone. She handled her DAR work with grace and charm. We all will look at our CTDAR Centennial Pin and remember the wonderful woman who inspired it's creation. May she rest in peace.
Sincerely,
Jean Kelsey
CTDAR State Regent 1995-98
Lisa Bradway
December 6, 2006
Laurie,
We were all saddened by the loss of your mom. Your devotion to your mom throughout her illness and especially during her weeks in hospice was exemplary. Your commitment to your family touched all of us. You taught your students an important lesson they won’t learn in the classroom. It seems only fitting that the 20th Madrigal Feaste was dedicated to Elizabeth Sangster. For years to come, the Feaste will serve as a lovely tribute to her memory. You and your family will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
Eileen Marsh
December 5, 2006
I'm so sorry for your loss. I only knew Elizabeth in my heart and mind..my deepest sympathy goes out to My dearest friend, Sara and her boys,Christopher and Doug. I'm thinking of you all at this time. I'm sure she was a wonderful lady..because she had a wonderful daughter. I thank her for giving me a Loving, and kind friend in Sara...My deepest sympathy also goes out to Lovey and her family..
Madonna Vance
December 5, 2006
I only met Betty through emails but I too know she was a wonderful person because she gave me a wonderful friend who is so giving of herself and always puts someone else ahead of her own needs no matter what is going on in her life...Sara,Doug and Chris,my love and prayers are with you always...God bless!
Kelly Drotar
December 5, 2006
Dear Doug, My prayers are with you and your family. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at your time of need.
Dan & Barb Behrman
December 5, 2006
Sara and Doug,
We are sorry for your loss. Unfortuntely we did not have the chance to meet or know your mother/grandmother, but we know she must of been a wonderful person. She will sadly be missed. Our prayers go out to you and your family.
PENNY O'NEILL
December 5, 2006
I DIDN'T KNOW MRS. SANGSTER AT ALL, BUT I KNEW HER DAUGHTER SARA. SARA HAD A GREAT MOM WHO TAUGHT HER MORALS, PATIENCE,AND HOW TO LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY. SARA STAYED BY HER MOMS SIDE TILL SHE LEFT WITH HER ANGELS BY HER SIDE. MRS. SANGSTER LEFT BEHIND AN AMAZING DAUGHTER THAT IS A GOOD FREIND, WITH SUCH COMPASSION AND LOVE FOR OTHERS. HER MOM TAUGHT HER HOW TO LOVE AND FORGIVE OTHERS UNCONDITIONALLY. .FOR A WONDERFUL MOM TO HAVE TAUGHT HER DAUGHTER ALL THESE GREAT TRAITS, SHE HAD TO HAVE BEEN A WONDERFUL LOVING AND CARING MOM. PROBABLY ONE OF THE BEST MOMS ANYONE COULD HAVE, AND SHE PROVED THAT WITH THE BEAUTIFUL TEACHINGS AND POSITIVES TRAITS SHE GAVE TO HER DAUGHTER. SHE LEFT SARAS SIDE, WHOM BY THE WAY NEVER LEFT HER SIDE,TO GO WITH HER ANGEL UP TO HEAVEN, BUT SHE LEFT BEHIND A FEW ANGELS OF HER OWN. SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS AND I LOVE YA SARA
Heather Behrman
December 5, 2006
I only got to meet Betty a few times.. But I know a lot about her and all the wonderful things she has done over the years. I wish that I could of gotten to spend more time with her. She will always remain in my heart!
Kathleen Ely
December 5, 2006
I first knew "Mrs. Sangster" as the mother of Becky. In more recent years I knew "Betty" through the DAR. It was always a pleasure to be aroung her. I am so sorry to learn of her death and extend my thoughts and prayers to her family. Kathleen Saunders Ely
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