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Eric Auer Obituary
Eric Auer, 63, of Killingworth died at home with his family after a year-long battle with brain cancer. Born April 3, 1953 in Hartford, CT to Oscar Auer and the late Vivian Engstrom Auer, Eric was a lifelong resident of Killingworth whose contributions to the community were recognized long before his illness. He was inducted into the Haddam-Killingworth Hall of Fame in 2013 and honored as the 2014 Citizen of the Year by the Killingworth Lions Club. He was a founding member of the Killingworth Chamber of Commerce and served as a member of the Killingworth Foundation Board of Directors since its inception. He served the town of Killingworth across three decades on the Zoning Board of Appeals and the Inland Wetlands and Watercourse Commission. He is survived by his wife, Evelyn, his three children, Vivian Jane, Eric William and Sarah Mary all of Killingworth and his father Oscar Auer of Litchfield, CT; his five brothers and sisters as well as his ten much loved nieces and nephews. Services are scheduled for 11 am on Friday, March 17th at the Killingworth Congregational Church. Memorial donations may be made online to the Closer to Free Fund at Smilow Cancer Hospital or to the Connecticut Hospice.
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Carol Ferretti
March 28, 2017
Evelyn,
I am sorry to hear of the loss of your husband Eric. My sympathy to you and your children at this difficult time.
Jeannette Bessinger
March 24, 2017
Ellen, Sarah and family, we were shocked and deeply saddened to learn of Eric's death. We are so very sorry for your loss. Today I am remembering his unique combination of sweetness and solidity with fondness and sadness. I hope you are finding comfort in each other. Please accept our true condolences.
EIleen Boulay
March 18, 2017
Dear Evelyn, Vivian, Eric and Sarah (and Family).
We are so very sorry to hear of the significant loss of your Eric/Dad. He is what we considered "salt of the earth" and his presence in our little town of Killingworth will be truly missed by all..You are all in our thoughts and prayers and we will continue to pray for your strength through this very difficult time; and until you meet again, may God gold you in the palm of his loving hands...
With deepest sympathy, Eileen, Bob, Brad , Austin Boulay
Ginny Bacon
March 17, 2017
Evelyn, I am so sorry for your loss. Many prayers for strength during this difficult time.
March 16, 2017
Eric was truly the epitome of mensch. I don't know a better word for one so kind hearted, civic minded, family centered, and business savvy. He set an example for my brothers as young teens working for him. He trusted me with his sweet, sensitive son, a kindergartener already knew how to lead and work hard. He raised a wonderful daughter who was the perfect companion for Allie in her most formative years. He will be missed by our whole family. Not running into Eric around town will leave a hole in my heart. Amy Koepke and family (Killingworth)
Fran and Vicky Lee
March 16, 2017
Dear Evelyn and family,
We are very sorry to learn of Eric's passing. He was truly a gracious man with a sense of dignity and humor that was hard to beat. We know he was a wonderful husband, father and friend.and he will truly be missed by all who knew him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
JERRY LAMARCHE
March 16, 2017
I WILL MISS MY OLD FRIEND IT WAS VERY HARD TO COMPREHEND THE PASSING OF SOMEONE THAT ALWAYS HAD A GOOD WORD NO MATTER HOW THE GAME CAME OUT WE ALWAYS HAD LUNCH AND COCKTAIL AND MADE US FEEL A LITTLE BETTER GOD BLESS YOU MY OLD BUDDY WILL MISS YOU!!! TO YOUR FAMILY IT WAS GREAT PRIVILEGE TO KNOW ERIC. JERRY LAMARCHE
JERRY LAMARCHE
March 16, 2017
I WILL MISS MY OLD FRIEND IT WAS VERY HARD TO COMPREHEND THE PASSING OF SOMEONE THAT ALWAYS HAD A GOOD WORD NO MATTER HOW THE GAME CAME OUT WE ALWAYS HAD LUNCH AND COCKTAIL AND MADE US FEEL A LITTLE BETTER GOD BLESS YOU MY OLD BUDDY WILL MISS !!! TO YOUR FAMILY IT WAS GREAT PRIVILEGE TO KNOW ERIC. JERRY LAMARCHE
Carol Walter
March 16, 2017
Dear Evie-
I can't tell you had saddened I am to hear Eric's passing. My memories of the two of you go back a long way to some very bright and fun years.
Eric was a very good man. My heart goes out to you and your family. He was such a huge presence. Just know that he will never be forgotten or remembered with out a smile and a fond memory.
Much love, Ca
Pete Kennedy
March 16, 2017
So sorry to hear about Eric and your loss. I got to know him through golf at Quarry Ridge. He always had a smile on his face and was a pleasure to be around. He would joke that he was writing a book on How Not To Play Golf. We are better for having known Eric and he will be sorely missed.
John Lucas
March 16, 2017
So many great memories of Eric up at Quarry Ridge- He always had a kind word to say and you cannot find a better friend- I will miss you Eric- All of my thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Auer Family. God Bless
Barbara Bullock Masterson
March 15, 2017
Will be thinking of the Auer family and Eric tomorrow. In early high school I loved being at your home for picnics and being surrounded by your great family. I'm sorry I missed knowing all of you as adults but you all had a huge part in teaching me how to be a great mom and wife by the example you set. I remember your mom's service so well, at the same church where Eric will be remembered tomorrow. Linnea, you were so little and cute! Karl and Leslie, you were pretty young as well and so much fun, as I had no younger siblings. Fred, I admired you because you had the cool VW bug! Arthur, you were just SO much older! And Mr. Auer, you and Mrs. Auer were always so kind to me. It looks like Eric made an amazing difference in many lives. I live in Texas with my husband of 35 years and his close-knit family of 5 siblings and our two boys. God Bless all of you!
March 15, 2017
Linn, my heart felt prayer is that your family will find comfort in the knowledge that God will help you all to find peace and comfort in your memories of times with Eric. God will turn your tears of sorrow into joy at each memory and thought of your brother. This is my prayer for you, my friend. Sending much love to you......(Dahlia Jean Tumavicus)
The Gorman Family
March 15, 2017
Everyone who knew Eric was a better person for knowing him. He was a loving father, husband , son, brother , uncle and friend. He was a wonderful role model for so many of our kids. Peace, prayers,, love and comfort to his entire family. praying he rests in eternal peace.
Jim Woodworth
March 15, 2017
Sorry to hear of Eric's passing, We had a lot of fun playing softball for Cook's Pub. He was a gentleman who did so much for his community.
Mark and Sharon Erwin
March 15, 2017
We are so sorry to hear of Eric's passing. My husband, knew him through the golf course and always said what a great guy Eric was. When we heard of his passing we looked around our house and thought about how much we "owed thanks" to Eric...from all our shrubs to extra deep counters. You are all in our thoughts and prayers, as we know how much his family meant to him.
Dee and Matthew Block
March 15, 2017
A gentleman, a scholar and again a gentle man! Such heartbreak for Ev, Vivi, Lttle Eric and Sarah, not to mention the entire Barnum and Auer Clans. We Two Blocks have the best memories of growing up close, we will be with you in thought and spirit on Friday. Blessings. Dee and Matt
Bob Damrau
March 14, 2017
A guy who regularly picked my pocket at gym basketball.
Eric will be missed by his Killingworth family.
May solace and peace come with lifetime reflection.
Susan (Czaplicki) Pire
March 14, 2017
So sorry to hear about Eric's passing. I remember him fondly from school. Prayers to the Auer family, may your memories give you peace. Morgan School Class of '71
Sandy Spencer
March 14, 2017
Sending prayers to you all at this difficult time...he was a wonderful person RIP So sorry for your loss...
Dennis O'Shea
March 14, 2017
Evelyn, So sorry to hear about Eric. The Boy and I go back a long time and this is very devastating news. Don't know if words can express my sorrow.
March 14, 2017
May God's loving kindness and comfort help you and your family through this very sad time. Psalms 29:11
Carol Reimers
March 14, 2017
I served on the Inland Wetlands commission with Eric. He was a wonderful colleague and thoughtful protector of Killingworth's natural resources. He will be greatly missed. I will keep him and your entire family in my thoughts and prayers.
The Volpe's
March 14, 2017
This was a man that always had a smile on his face and such a pleasure to be around. We are very sorry for your loss and we are praying for your family. So many fond memories when the kids hung out thru school. What a great man!
Thomas Boudreau
March 14, 2017
Vivian, I am sorry to hear of your father's passing. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Vera Kasson
March 14, 2017
So sorry to hear of Eric's illness and passing. My prayers are with the family at this difficult time. - Vera Kasson
March 14, 2017
Deepest sympathies. So sorry to hear.
Frederick Zink
March 14, 2017
My prayers are with the family, rest in peace
March 14, 2017
My sincere condolences to the family for the loss of your loved one. May prayers strengthen you and memories comfort you, and may our Lord Jesus Christ and God our Father, who loves us, comfort your hearts and "make you firm". (2 Thessalonians 2:16, 17)
Doreen Fitch Martin
March 14, 2017
So Sorry for your family's loss.
Carol & Holden Waterman
March 14, 2017
Holden and I send our love from afar to all of you, especially Evelyn, Vivian, Eric and Sarah. We will be there in spirit on Friday, and hate to miss sharing that celebration of Eric's amazing life with all of you. oxoxoxoxox
March 14, 2017
Evelyn and Family-I am so sorry to hear about your husband and father. My sincere condolences. John Visconti
The Hedrick Family
March 14, 2017
We have known and loved the Auer family for so many years and will miss Eric with his huge presence and even huger smiles. He will always be remembered for his devotion to his family, friends and the Town of Killingworth. We will keep all the memories of him close to our hearts.
P. J. Pape
March 14, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
March 14, 2017
May the God of all comfort be with you in this difficult time. Marie Poelman Garofalo
Alice Lucas
March 14, 2017
A kind and thoughtful, generous person has left us too soon. He was always there to help out when Jerry had a request. I am sorry for his struggle with cancer. He is missed by many.
March 14, 2017
When words fail, Gods love carries us through our deepest sorrows. May the God who," binds up the broken-hearted and comforts all who mourn" sustain your family during this challenging time. Our heartfelt sympathy for your loss.-Isaiah 61:1,2-
Susan Carucci
March 14, 2017
Eric Probably saved our lives and certainly saved my home. We will miss you. My condolences to your family and brothers.
March 14, 2017
Eric was the epitome of a good man. Beloved by everyone. We share your sorrow.
Ed and Mercedes Ricciuti
Peg York Witham
March 14, 2017
My condolences to the Auer family. God has given us a wonderful gift...it's our ability to obtain memories...these will help you through this difficult time.
Steven Leninski
March 14, 2017
Very sorry to hear of Eric's passing .
Jennifer Stannard
March 13, 2017
My thoughts are with you all- he was indeed a special man.
Shelli Goodrow
March 13, 2017
Linnea I'm sorry to here of your brothers passing ..please know that you and your family are n my prayers
March 13, 2017
May God's loving kindness and comfort help you and your family through this very sad time Psalms 29:11
D. F.
March 13, 2017
My deepest condolence to the beloved family. May find peace and comfort from God who knows your grief and pain you are experiencing.(Jeremiah 29:11)
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