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Gary Dean Bent, 82, of West Hartford, formerly Mansfield Center, CT, passed away on Friday, March 3, 2023, surrounded by his family. He was the beloved husband of Gloria (Tidwell) Bent.

He was born on October 9,1940, in Battle Creek, Michigan and was the son of the late Dean and Lillian (Snyder) Bent.

Gary lived a rich life. His family describes him as gentle, witty, supportive, creative, loving, gifted, and resilient. Growing up in Florida he went on to study at Georgia Institute of Technology where he earned Bachelor's and Master's degrees in Electrical Engineering and Physics. He received his PhD in physics from the University of Connecticut. He was an Ordnance Corps officer in the United States Army for 12 years, serving in several military research centers and at the Military Academy at West Point. He served as assistant head of the physics department at the University of Connecticut for 23 years. While at UCONN he published numerous articles in scientific journals, he worked closely with graduate students, taught courses in Physics and environmental science, and was an enthusiastic researcher. Over the years he developed a sense of how physics could be taught at the high school level to ensure student success at the college level. He pursued Connecticut teaching certification in physics and chemistry and after retiring from UCONN he went on to teach physics for UCONN credit at E.O. Smith High School in Storrs. A dedicated teacher, he made the classroom a space for fun and creative learning, using exciting experiments to demonstrate the theories of physics while dressed as a wizard!

After retirement from E.O. Smith, he spent time traveling with his wife Gloria (they especially loved their time at Kapiolani Park in Honolulu, Hawaii) and volunteering his time to combat climate change. He was a founding member of Eastern Connecticut Green Action. He loved playing the drums, listening to the music of Pete Seeger, Johnny Cash and Joan Baez, following the Los Angeles Dodgers and the UCONN Women's basketball team.

Gary was a dedicated peace and social justice activist. His children have fond memories of participating in marches, peaceful protests, and volunteering with their dad, and the sense of justice this instilled in them.

In addition to his wife of 56 years, he is survived by his children, Geoff Bent of Santa Monica, CA, Rebecca Bent and Megan Bent of Hartford CT, John Bent and wife Alison Green of Providence, RI; brother, James Bent and wife Sue (O'Steen) of Kernersville, NC and sister, Kay Bent McPhail (Paul) of Madisonville, LA. He is also survived by several nieces and nephews.

The family expresses deep thanks to Dr. Upendra Hegde, Dr. David Ozimek and Dr. Ketan Bulsara for their outstanding care over the years and to Accent Hospice for their compassionate presence in his final days.

Gary touched many lives and will be greatly missed. A Celebration of Life will be held at the Unitarian Society of Hartford at a later date. In lieu of flowers, a donation in Gary's memory can be made to the Covenant Soup Kitchen in Willimantic Connecticut at covenantsoupkitchen.org, Eastern Connecticut Green Action at easternconnecticutgreenaction.com or Food and Water Watch at foodandwaterwatch.org.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Mar. 12, 2023.

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August 2, 2023

I want to say about my long time customer of many years (35+ yrs) cutting his hair that he was one of the sweetest most deep down kindest person I know. I will miss him coming to see me at Head Husky Barber Shop. RIP Gary

Kay McPhail

March 29, 2023

You were unique and one of a kind. You were the wizard. You were full of love and compassion especially for your family. You will be missed not only by me but by everyone. I hope you are dancing in the sky with the Angels. Your little sister, Kay McPhail

Paul Murray

March 29, 2023

Gary Bent amazed me. I taught with him at EO and knew him enough to be impressed. Anyone who would start teaching in a public high school after having retired from a university has my respect. He was a committed man and truly an inspiration. I´m sorry to hear he gone. My condolences to those he left.

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March 17, 2023

I love you all. You are all in my thoughts.

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March 14, 2023

Dear Gloria & Family My Condolence I always loved talking with Gary while he would wait for his car service he was brilliant he will be sadly missed Phil Locicero

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March 12, 2023

Dear Gloria, I am so sorry to hear this sad news. Gary was such a kind person. My condolences to you and your family.

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