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Herbert Fienman Obituary



Herbert Seymour Fienman, 89, of West Hartford passed away on Tuesday, August 18th, 2015 surrounded by his family. He was the beloved husband of Norma Fienman for 65 years. Born in Hartford, he was the son of the late Maurice and Sarah Fienman. A graduate of Weaver High School, 1943, he then enlisted in the U.S. Navy during World War II and was proud to serve his country. He graduated from the Porter School of Engineering and Design in 1952. He was employed by the State of Connecticut as a civil engineer for the Department of Transportation for 30 years. He also worked at Fuss & O'Neill in Manchester, and Kasper Engineering Consulting in Bridgeport. He was a member of the Masonic Level Lodge 137, past president of The Odd Fellows, member of the Hartford Mutual Society, and the Legions of West Hartford. He and Norma have been longtime members of B'nai Tikvoh-Sholom in Bloomfield. He was a loving and devoted husband, father, grandfather, and brother. Besides his wife, Norma Kosto Fienman he will be dearly missed by his children: Michael Fienman and his wife Myrna of West Hartford, Jay Fienman and his wife Karen of South Windsor, Andrea Oppenheimer and her husband Bryan of South Windsor. Nancie Havinoviski and her husband Glenn of Reston, VA, 5 cherished grandchildren: Brooke Levin and her husband Randy, Erica Fienman, Corey and Matthew Oppenheimer, and Josh Fienman, his brother, Norman Fienman and his wife Marla, his sister Eleanor Zirin and her husband Joseph, and many nieces and nephews. Services will be held on Friday, August 21st at 11:00AM at B'nai-Tikvoh Sholom, 180 Still Road, Bloomfield with Rabbi Debra Cantor officiating. Interment will follow with full military honors at Hartford Mutual Society Cemetery, Wolcott Road in Granby. Following interment the family will receive friends at the home of his daughter Andrea, and again on Sunday starting at 6:00PM, with an evening service at 7:00PM. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to Jewish War Veterans c-o Sgt. John L. Levitow Post #45, 28 Laurel Drive, Stafford Springs, CT 06076, or The American Cancer Society. Funeral arrangements provided by The Hebrew Funeral Association, West Hartford.



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Published by Hartford Courant on Aug. 20, 2015.

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August 24, 2015

Andy, Bryan and Family, we are so sorry for the loss of your father. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find peace in the good memories that I know you have. Love, Cathy and Dave Redman

Frederick ZIRIN

August 21, 2015

MY CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILY. I AM REMEMBERING ONLY THE GOOD.

August 21, 2015

I'm so sorry to hear about Herbie's passing. I remember our days on Briarwood Drive and all the fun times that our families shared. Those were the days! You're all in my thoughts.

Ron Aston

Ron Herzig

August 20, 2015

Norma, very sorry to read Herbs passing. He was a good friend. We had a lot of good times at DOT and the CSEA dinners. Condolences to your family.

Sherri s

August 20, 2015

I'm so sorry about the loss of your love one.I would like to encourage you to read Revalations 21:3,4 I hope this will bring you some comfort in your time of sadness.

Elliott Donn, Post Historian

August 20, 2015

Dear Friends,

On behalf of all of Herb's comrades in Sgt. John L. Levitow Post 45 of the Jewish War Veterans, may I express our condolences to
you all at this sad occasion.

We want you all to know how much we all recognize and appreciate his service to our country, and his support of JWV over the years.

May many happy memories of him help you through this difficult time, and may he rest in peace.

sharon zirin

August 20, 2015

dear family,
we are so sorry to hear of herb's passing. I know it has been a difficult time and hope that he is comfortable now. it is always hard when you lose someone who has been the thread of your life. hope you have lots of memories to comfort you in the coming days.
best,
sharon and chuck

Beth Kraimer

August 20, 2015

My mother and I are so sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories growing up with your Dad. Thanks Mr. Fienman, Rest in Peace...and please don't put any Tabasco Sauce on anyone's tongue.

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21

Service

11:00 a.m.

B'nai-Tikvoh Sholom

180 Still Road, Bloomfield, CT 06115-2510

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Interment

Hartford Mutual Society Cemetery

Wolcott Road, Granby, CT 06115-2510

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