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Jack R. Schafer

1963 - 2022

Jack R. Schafer obituary, 1963-2022, Wethersfield, CT

BORN

1963

DIED

2022

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Farley-Sullivan Funeral Home - Wethersfield

34 Beaver Road

Wethersfield, Connecticut

Jack Schafer Obituary

Jack R. Schafer, 58, passed away unexpectedly January 23, 2022. He was born on July 29, 1963 in Westphalia, Michigan, the son of John and the late Wilma (Droste) Schafer. He leaves behind his wife, soulmate, and best friend Liza (Carbone) Schafer; his two children, Jennifer (Michael) Ramsey and Tory (Rachel) Carbone; grandchildren Madyson, Isabella, Ava, Madison, Blakely, and Emilia. Also leaves behind his loving father John Schafer of Westphalia Michigan and sister Cris Schafer of Lansing, Michigan, and a large extended family and friends. Jack was an amazing man who leaves behind an incredible legacy of love, kindness and generosity. Always quick with a smile and helping hand, his sense of humor and quick wit will be sorely missed. Jack had a long and successful career as Senior Vice President, and Chief Client Officer at Crawford & Company, where his coworkers saw him as a mentor and friend. His favorite pastime was spending time with family and friends at their beach house. He loved hosting parties where he shared his homemade cider, manned the grill and enjoyed the company of his loved ones. Words cannot express the sorrow felt with his loss as we try to honor this wonderful man. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Wednesday, January 26, 2022 at 10 am at St John's Church, 5 St Johns Ct, Cromwell, Ct 06416. A Christian burial will be held in Westphalia, Michigan with friends and family to celebrate his life at a later date. The Farley-Sullivan Funeral Home has care of the arrangements. To extend condolences, please visit Farleysullivan.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jan. 25, 2022.

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Nick Ciabattoni

February 11, 2023

Jack was a trusted friend and business partner. I can not believe he is gone. He always, and I mean always had a big smile on his face even if we had significant challenges to overcome. I miss him along with hundreds of others in our industry for sure. He is missed.

Al and Angela camarda

February 12, 2022

Dear Liza.
Oh Liza, we just heard the sad news
and we are shocked in disbelief.
There are no words for your loss.
Please accept our sincere condolences
and let us know if we can do anything for you and your family.
With love,
Àngelà & Al Camarda

Sean Welch

February 7, 2022

Liza and family, I shared so many laughs and happy talks with Jack. While we had a business relationship, I know it was much more than that for both of us. He was more a friend to me. We shared stories about our lives and our families. He always lit up when he spoke of you Liza. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. I am sorry for your loss... and for all of us who lost Jack. Our memories will endure.

Nick Ciabattoni

January 31, 2022

I am saddened to hear of Jack's passing. He will be remembered for his smiles, he was always happy! I'll miss him, he was a great guy. May God bless him.

Margaret Sullivan

January 27, 2022

Sending love, hugs and our sincerest condolences to you and your family Liza. You are all in our prayers. Meg, Sebastian and Rubí - Indian Cove

Verna Jackson

January 27, 2022

Liza and family, my heart and prayers are with you at this difficult time. I reconnected with Jack last year after not talking with him for several years and I was so happy to see his smiling face and hear him laugh. That is how he will be remembered: bright, laughing and always so willing to help. Your Crawford Family remembers. With love, Verna

Terry Turon

January 26, 2022

Jack was a valued colleague and dear friend, seldom without a smile, word of encouragement and genuine concern for those he knew. Memories of him will be cherished and his mentorship will continue to shape the lives of so many of his colleagues. I am grateful to have shared a part of his life, he will be remembered by so many. Sincere condolences and prayers for Liza and family.

CandY and Don Kohn

January 26, 2022

We're heartbroken at the news of the passing of a kind and wonderful neighbor. Michigan has lost its greatest fan. May Jack's memory be a blessing to all who knew him.

Larry Thomas

January 26, 2022

Jack was a very special person that I had the pleasure or working alongside for 25 years. He was a close friend that I loved like a brother. He made a tremendous impact in his work life and through his charm, warm caring smile and personality, he brightened the lives of all he touched. From his deeply competitive spirit, to his keen sense of humor, to his loyalty and dedication, to his love for family, he was always fully committed to his priorities in life. I will miss Jack, but will carry forward the everlasting memories of him forever. My condolences and deepest sympathies to Liza and family.

Matt & Renee Zender

January 26, 2022

We heard of Jack's passing and were just gutted. He was one of the finest people we had the privilege to know and call friend. He was just one of those people who inspired others to be better. We will all miss his infectious laugh which would fill any room he was in. The world got a little smaller with his passing, but was enriched by his time here. We'll hold him in our memories.

Robert Faulkner

January 26, 2022

We have been truly blessed to have known Jack; he touched the hearts and souls of everyone he met. Jack was a very special man; he and Liza have enriched our lives in so many ways. We have many fond memories of Jack, he was always helping others, entertaining friends, family and neighbors in the Cove. It is with much sadness and sorrow that get say goodbye to this wonderful man; our hearts go out to Liza and the family.
Love - Peggy, Pattie, John, Russell and Robert

Greg Fleming

January 26, 2022

I had the honor of working with Jack. He was an amazing leader that brought high energy and passion to everything he did. I will truly miss my weekly calls with Jack and the excitement we shared of where we were going and the bright future ahead. He had such a positive impact to all and will never be forgotten. Thoughts and prayers to the entire family.

Paul Lofkin

January 26, 2022

Liza and Family, I worked closely with Jack only a few times for work but we stayed in touch and I shall miss our occasional catch ups, his good nature and humour. My condolences to you all. Paul

Mary Zischke

January 25, 2022

My sincere condolences to Cris, John and the entire Schafer and Carbone families. Praying for courage and strength for all of you during this difficult time. May your many cherished memories of Jack bring you peace and comfort.

Beth Dronsfield

January 25, 2022

Liza, I am so very sorry for your loss. I never met Jack but I remember when you met and he sounds like a wonderful man. May you find some peace during this difficult time.

Lauren and Bill Murphy

January 25, 2022

Dear Liza, We are shocked and terribly saddened to hear this news. Jack was such a beloved member of Indian Cove. We are praying for your comfort as you cope with this tragedy. Lauren and Bill

Chris & Linda Thelen

January 25, 2022

Our sympathy to your family. We are grateful for our memories of Jack and will always cherish them.

Rosemary and Tim Hokanson

January 25, 2022

Liza and family- we are so sorry to hear this tragic news. We hold you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Steve and Laurna Worden

January 25, 2022

Liza- Our thoughts and prayers will be with during this difficult time. He was a special member of our Indian Cove community and will be missed.

Elise and Mark Bohner

January 25, 2022

Dearest Liza:

We are so sorry to hear this tragic news. We hold you close to our hearts.

Love- Mark and Elise

Seamus Flynn

January 25, 2022

I am so sorry to hear this. I worked with Jack for a few years I can honestly say he was the nicest man I ever met. Always went out of his way to make you feel welcome, he would Bring donuts for your birthday and was always smiling and if you had an issue he would go above and beyond to help. I will never Jack. My condolence to Lisa and the family

Lee and Beth Palmer

January 25, 2022

Lisa and family, Lee and I are so very sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved husband, Jack. Janet has told me what a wonderful guy he was - may you, Jen, Tory and their children take comfort in all the memories you shared. In our thoughts-/ Beth

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The O´Such family

January 25, 2022

An unexpected loss of a first class friend saddens all who knew Jack
He will be remembered
Sally and Bob, Tracy and Bruce

Sam Smith

January 25, 2022

I´ve known Jack and his family for over 50 years. What nice people. I´m so very sad

Drew Wendland

January 25, 2022

I had the great opportunity to work with Jack this past year. His optimism and contagious energy were highlights of our sometimes dull online meetings. He will be missed by his colleagues, and leave a void in our industry. Our sincere condolences go out to Jack's family in this heartbreaking time. Please know that he made a difference in our lives and we are thankful you shared him with us.

Pam Corbett

January 25, 2022

I am so sad to hear this news, I hold you and your family in my heart.

Barbara Hersant and Nick Frost

January 25, 2022

Liza and family,
Our hearts go out to you and the family. We will all miss Jack´s wonderful smile. He was the happiest person and always eager to help. He will be missed by all.
We will plant something in "our " right of way
in his memory.
Barbara and Nick

Efrain Hernandez Jr.

January 25, 2022

Dear Liza and family,
Condolences for your loss. I´m thinking of you. Sincerely, Frank.

Linda Calli

January 25, 2022

Liza and family. So sad to hear of Jack's passing. My heart goes out to you and your whole family. He was such a wonderful man with a great sense of humor - especially all his quirky expressions. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Linda & Zak

Julie Bills

January 25, 2022

May you feel surrounded by God's love in this time of sorrow.

Linda Calli

January 25, 2022

Liza and family, I was so shocked to see Jack's obit. He was such a wonderful man. I so enjoyed his sense of humor and his warm loving demeanor. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you love and hugs.

Mayra Diaz-Crespo

January 25, 2022

Liza my dear friend. There are no words to express the profound sadness we felt as we learned of Jack's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and Jack's family.

Bob and Alice Hafner

January 25, 2022

We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Jack. I graduated with his sister Cris. A few years back we were up to Petoskey, staying at the same hotel we ran into Jack and Lisa with his mom and dad (John and Wilma) at breakfast the next morning. The quick wit and sense of humor definitely was handed down from his parents, as we laughed that morning.
John, Cris, and the entire Schafer & Carbone families our thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time.

Kathy & Danielle Crystal

January 25, 2022

So sorry Liza, your neighbors at Indian Cove

Ken Krayeske

January 25, 2022

Liza and family, it won't be the same without seeing Jack at the Cove this summer. We will all miss his beaming smile. From our family to yours, we are so sorry for your loss. With love, the Krayeskes

Lance Malcolm

January 25, 2022

Jack was an amazing colleague and friend, his energy "lit up" the room (be it in person or virtual!). I treasure the time that I worked with Jack and having the opportunity to exchange stories about our families and our hobbies. I will truly miss him and the light he brought to the world around him. Our thoughts and prayers are with Liza and all those Jack touched in life.

Susan Marcotte

January 25, 2022

Dear Liza and family. I am sorry to hear about Jacks passing. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Barbara Daly

January 25, 2022

My heart goes out to you at this time of great loss of Jack to all who knew and loved him. My prayers and love to you all.

Cindy Klebusch

January 25, 2022

Liza, Cris and John, my deepest condolences are sent your way. My prayers are for God to offer each of you comfort as you grieve Jack. May He provide guidance as you continue your journey without your husband, brother and son. May He shower you with peace as you celebrate his life and may He always hold you close in those moments that you will need His strength.

Patti (nurenberg) schafer

January 24, 2022

What a beautiful write up, every things from kind and gentle soul to great sense of humor and giving are the same person I remember going to school with - from grade school through high school. You all are in my prayers.

Jennifer wise

January 24, 2022

So sorry for your family. Thought and prayers

Janet Swanson

January 24, 2022

My sympathy to all his loving family. Sending prayers for courage and comfort for all of you during this difficult time.

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