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1991
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2017
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Jake Bilodeau Obituary
Jake Robert Bilodeau, raised in Willington, entered into his eternal resting place on Friday, March 31, 2017. He was born on March 18, 1991. Jake is survived by his loving mother, Darlene M. Deprey and husband Mark E. D'Alessio; his father Mark R. Bilodeau and wife Karen Bilodeau; cherished sister, Chelsea "CC" Bilodeau; and stepbrothers Mark D'Alessio Jr., Cody and Mitch Gagne; step-sister Kali Gagne; paternal grandparents, Russell and Susan Bilodeau, Sr.; and maternal grandfather, Gerald Deprey. Jake was predeceased by his maternal grandmother, Maxine Deprey. Jake will be dearly missed by many aunts, uncles and cousins and his dearest friend, Allison Ganley. Although Jake's life was short lived, it was enhanced by his love of music and animals which brought him a sense of peace and acceptance. Jake will always be remembered for his ability to be non-judgmental and accepting of all the people he was fortunate enough to meet and know. For people who really knew Jake, he was a ray of sunshine! Jake loved hockey, the beach, milkshakes and was rarely seen without a coffee in his hand. He learned the landscaping business from his father and was loved by the customers he served. The Memorial Liturgy will be celebrated 11 AM Wednesday (April 5th) at St Andrew Church, 128 Norwich Ave., Colchester. The family will receive guests at the church starting at 10 AM prior to Mass. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in memory of Jake to the Southern Council on Alcoholism and Drug Dependence, Inc., (SCADD), 37 Camp Mooween Rd., Lebanon 06249 www.SCADD.org. Care of arrangements has been entrusted to the Aurora-McCarthy Funeral Home of Colchester. www.auroramccarthyfuneralhome.com
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Mario & June Laudano
March 27, 2020
Rest in piece Jake
Mario & June Laudano
March 27, 2019
Jake's Family and friends, Prayers can secure a peaceful rest. Please pray for Jake.
December 1, 2017
So sorry for your lost Ted Cyndi DeMers
SHARYN SEEGOBIN
April 8, 2017
To my dear cousin Darlene and Chelsea. May God comfort you both at this difficult time as well as those that support you; your husband, Mark. There are no words that could possibly comfort you at this time. Rest assured Jake is in a better place of no pain and suffering. As the days go by find comfort in the memories and laughter you shared. Carry him in your hearts forever. You were a great Mom, and Chelsea a loving sister. You are in our prayers and thoughts.
Love Sharyn, Frederick and family
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April 7, 2017
On behalf of The Compassionate Friends, (TCF), Rockville Chapter, we wish to extend our sincere condolences on the loss of your loved one. All TCF members have lost a child, grandchild, or sibling. We all continue to travel the long road in this life-changing journey. TCF offers support, compassion, and hope. We understand. We are here if you want to talk. You are welcome to attend our meetings or call us for phone support. Please feel free to contact us on our dedicated line, 860-375-0661 or contact us by e-mail, [email protected]. Our chapter meets the first Tuesday of the month at 7 PM at 3 Elm St. (Bev's Corner) Rockville.
With hope,
Rockville Chapter Leaders
Patty from pediatric dental associates
April 5, 2017
It is with a heavy heart that I send my deepest sympathies to Jake's entire family. It was always a joy and a pleasure to see Jake and Chelsea in our dental practice for many years. He always greeted us with his fantastic smile . I am deeply sorry for your loss.
Karen Bockus
April 5, 2017
Darlene, Mark, Chelsea, Russ, Sue, and entire Bilodeau family: My deepest condolences for the tragic loss of Jake. My thoughts and prayers are with each and every one of you. I will always remember his wonderful smile and sparkling personality!
April 5, 2017
Dear Mark and Family: I am so very sorry to hear of Jake's passing, so tragic. My heart goes out to all of you, sending prayers. Dot Wocl
Katrina Johnson
April 4, 2017
Very sorry for your loss, Chelsea and family.
Katie (Adams) Mahony
April 4, 2017
To Mr. & Mrs. Bilodeau, Mark, and the rest of Jake's family, I was so sad to learn of this news from my Mom, Barbara Adams. It seems both of our families are not strangers to the chronic disease of addiction. One thing I have learned is that it doesn't discriminate; anyone can develop it @ any point in time. Although I didn't know Jake, I hope he got to spend some of his life at Lake Hayward, Connecticut where I remember all of Russ and Sue's kids and their smiles hanging out, care-free with my own three older brothers. Jake was taken before his time; a life lost much too young. He will be sorely missed by you all but never forgotten. I pray for the entire family's comfort, peace and clarity as you all move through the grieving process at your own individual speed. Grief is unique to each person. Please try to support one another through your tragic loss. God Bless You All. ~ Katie Adams
April 3, 2017
We remember when Jake played sports in Willington with our boys. He always had a ready smile and was so well liked by everyone. Our sincere condolences to his family. A young life gone too soon. The Taiman family
Carly Baker
April 3, 2017
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your loved one. Hopefully reflecting on all the good times you've shared together will help ease the pain that you feel. May "the God of all comfort" strengthen you during this time of sadness, and may His promise for the future bring you peace. Hosea 13:14.
Kate and Wayne Mora
April 2, 2017
So very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Wayne and Kate Mora and family
Phylis and Ron Roy
April 2, 2017
Through your tears and heartache try and
remember the good times, remember his smile ,
his laugh and all the joy he brought to the family
And his friends. His life mattered. His memory
will be kept alive by all that loved him.
George &Judy Fuller
April 2, 2017
Our condolences to the Bilodeau family on your tragic loss ,especially our dear friends Russ and Sue. Our prayers are with you.
Mario & June Laudano
April 2, 2017
Our condolence's to the Bilodeau Family, Sue Russ and the Children and grand children. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Your friends here in Vero beach Fl. and Connecticut.
Mario & June
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