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Jeffrey Doolittle Obituary
DOOLITTLE, Jeffrey T. Jeffrey T. Doolittle, 23, of New Britain, passed away unexpectedly in his sleep early Wednesday, (October 18, 2006). Born in Huntington, NY, November 17, 1982, the son of Jonathan E. Doolittle and Carol P. Doolittle of Farmington. Jeff lived in Oyster Bay, NY and Stamford, but spent most of his life in Farmington. After attending the Greenwood School in Putney, VT and the Forman School in Litchfield, Jeff graduated from Farmington High School in June of 2002. He worked at Constructive Workshops doing packaging and light assembly. He is survived by his mother, Carol, 50, his father Jonathan, 51, and his sister Amy, 19. Jeff was afflicted with intractable epilepsy for most of his life, but will be remembered by all those who knew him for his inexhaustible enthusiasm and persistence in the face of adversity. Jeff loved music of all kinds, pets and being part of any party, had an infectious smile and sense of humor that will be missed by all who knew him. Friends may call at The Ahern Funeral Home, 111 Main St., Rt. 4, Unionville on Saturday, Oct. 21 between 3-7 p.m. Funeral services will be held Monday, Oct. 23 at 12 p.m. in the Meetinghouse at the First Church of Christ, Congregational, 75 Main St., Farmington. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Epilepsy Foundation, 8301 Professional Place, Landover, MD 20785.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jeffrey Doolittle
Brandon Scott Kavlak
October 17, 2007
To The Doolittle's,
My name is Brandon. Me and Jo have been friends with Jeff since 2003. We did a lot of stuff together. We also took some time to help him when he needed it and stuff like that. We have been very close to him for those 3 years. He was a pretty good bowler from our perspective. I will always keep him in my thoughs and prayers. Thanks Jeff for all the good times we had!!
Josephine Marie Johnson
December 6, 2006
Dear Doolittles,
I know I haven't written in a while, but I've been very bus lately. Brandon Kavlak and I are offically going out. That's beside the point He and I have know Jeff since 2003 and it's yet again getting close to another christmas party. We just can't believe that this gonna our first christmas without Jeff!! Brandon and I are extending our holiday wishes to you guys!!! We wish you y'all a merry christmas and god be with y'all in 2007!
Happy Holidays!
~Jo Marie and Brandon~
Erica Diesel
December 3, 2006
It's been a very long time but I grew up in Farmington and was in Jeff's kindergarten class at Noah Wallace. I just learned of his passing and I want to express my deepest condolences to his friends and family. I will always remember him as the sweet little boy in my class. My prayers are with you.
Josephine Marie Johnson
October 25, 2006
Jon,
After hearing your speech on Monday,well it made me think that there was another side of Jeff Doolittle. It's like I didn't know that Jeff was an adventureous person. I'm surprised that Jeff never told me about it. I only knew that he loved roller coasters. He mentioned one day in 2004 about one or two months before our first date on August 21st, that he has been on Superman Ride of Steel at 6-flags new england. I've riden it twice already. If I go to SFNE for best buddies, I'll ride it a third time in Jeff's honor. I'll probably hear Jeff's voice sayin' "Jo, scream and laugh as much as possible so I can hear you!" If he was alive however, He'd probably go on with me.
Anyway, great speech on Monday! I loved Carol's also. I liked Jake's also but, he needs to work more on his poetry, lol. I'm sure we'll cross pathes again in the near future. Until then we must go our seperate ways for now.
mi cordizon fededo enti, spanish for my heart is lost to you,
~Josephine~
Krista Brown
October 25, 2006
I am sorry to hear about Jeff, i only knew him online but he was really someone that i liked and wanted to meet and hang out with. its funny (not haha funny but anyway) last time i talked to him he told me that he cant wait to meet me, and i felt the same way, he was a good friend and i have Jo to thank for that she was the one that got us talking. he will always be in my heart and preyers
Gary Scharbo
October 25, 2006
To the Doolittle Family:
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Jeffrey. I read so many heartfelt and loving memories, that I hope you take some comfort in the place he will remain in those hearts!
Beth Andrews
October 24, 2006
Jon and family,
John and I are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Barbara Whitehead
October 24, 2006
I was so saddened to hear of Jeff's death. I am sure that his life has blessed all who knew him. My sincere condolences to all the family from their Gansett beach friend and neighbor.
Barbara Whitehead
Sandy Gagnon
October 24, 2006
I was very surprised to hear about Jeff and cannot imagine what you are going through during this difficult time. I am glad to have known Jeff and enjoyed sailing and dinners with y'all. He always had a big smile on his face and it will be missed by all. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Anne (Bebko) & Richard Doucet
October 23, 2006
We wish to extend our sincere sympathy to the Doolittle family. While at Greenwood Jeff always took physical set-backs with grace and a desire to get on with life. The Jeff we knew and taught was a gentle soul, kind to others and always wanting to do the right thing.
Thank you, Doolittles, for sharing Jeff with us.
Anne & Richard
Annie Quest
October 23, 2006
Dear Carole and Jon and Amy,
I have such fond memories of Jeff at Greenwood. He was such a wonderful and sweet kid and looking at the photograph of him as an adult I can see all of that sweetness in his face. We will pass the news along to Jeff's Greenwood friends. All of my love to you at this sad time. I am holding all you in my thoughts and prayers.
Annie Quest
Patty Lavendier-Fugge
October 23, 2006
Carol and Family,
I am so sorry to hear tonight of Jeff's sudden death. My thoughts are with you. You have such strength both inner and outer that is amazing and will help you move through this time of loss, remembrance and Jeff's passing to enternal life.
My prayers are with you
Ann Storms Kloter
October 23, 2006
To the Doolittle/Plough families;
Almost 40 years ago, our cousin Carol Plough arrived with her family for a visit to Florida. I have never forgotten that she gave me a small ceramic dog as part of a sharing of grief at a very difficult time, back when we were just kids.
Carol, I hope that you and your family take some comfort in knowing that we are thinking of you all.
Love,
Ann (Storms) Kloter
Tammy Ferguson
October 23, 2006
Jon:
I am so sorry to hear of your son's passing. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Take care of yourself.
Tammy Ferguson
John Alexander
October 23, 2006
Jon and Carole,
I remember with a smile the time that Jeff and I shared at Greenwood. He was one of my favorites, and I have often thought about him over the years. I will remember Jeff as gentle and kind, one who faced his challenges with a smile. He will be missed by many.
You and Jeff are in my thoughts.
John Alexander
Melissa St.James
October 23, 2006
Dear Jon, Carol, and Amy, My family offers our condolences at Jeffreys sudden passing. I have fond memories of babysitting he and amy when they were small,and had the pleasure of seeing them again when they were in elementary school, as well as hearing about your family through the years, from my Dad. May the Lord comfort your heart as you grieve. Melissa(D'Agostino) St. James
Jean Plough
October 23, 2006
Dear Carol, Amy, and Jon,
Although I have not had a chance to see Jeffrey since our summers at Woods Hole, I will always remember him as a wonderful boy with a nice smile. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Phil & Steve Integrity Air Services, Inc.
October 23, 2006
Dear Jon and Carole,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your son, Jeff. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this season of adjustment due to this untimely loss.
May Jesus be your strenght and comfort during this time.
Rhonda Neal
October 23, 2006
Mr. and Mrs. Doolittle: I knew Jeffery only through his friend Josephine, but from her I learned of his joy for life and how he liked to share that joy. What a delight that is. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Gary Michener
October 22, 2006
Dear Jon, Carol and Amy,
I was shocked and profoundly saddened at the news of Jeffrey. Please know that my deepest condolences and fondest thoughts go to you.
Josephine, Doris, and Bob Johnson
October 22, 2006
Dear Doolittle Family,
My Parents and I have know Jeff for a couple years. We thought he was a great man. He was he really was. I said 2 brief prayers in church today. 1) was for Jeff and the 2nd was for you. I didn't get the word of Jeff's death until last Wednesday afternoon. The words that my mom had said were sad yes and quite devistating. He was always in my prayers even he was alive. Now you are all in my prayers for months and years to come. We will miss Jeff dearly.
Fondly,
~The Johnson Family~
p.s. I, Josephine M. Johnson, will see y'all tomorrow.
Denis & Claire Chasteauneuf
October 22, 2006
Parents and Seder's Family,
As an old friend of your "french" family, as parents, as parents of a child who has been separated from us; please receive our deepest thoughts.
Jeff who I did have the chance to meet is now looking after you.
Scott Ashton
October 21, 2006
Dear Jon and Family, Please know that my family's thoughts and prayers are with you. You have our deepest sympathies for the loss of your son.
Alicia Venereo
October 21, 2006
Jon, Carol and Amy--
I am so sorry about your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Scott Scammell
October 21, 2006
Carol and Jon, we at Wings are all saddened to hear of the sudden and tragic loss of your son, Jeffrey. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Josephine Marie Johnson
October 20, 2006
To The family of Jeffie D especially Carol, Jonn and Amy,
Thanks for letting me hang out with your son for the past 2 or 3 years. It was very nice gettin' to know y'all and Jeff of course.
He had showed me how to impress a guy for dances/proms/special functions from Jeff's own experience. Kinda like giving ideas from one person to another person.
In my own eyes, he proved to me that he was a good bowler, and he indeed was just that. I loved him as a friend, girlfriend, and co-worker.
I most definately enjoyed our dates and outings together. I would say the ones were both our favorites were the November 11, 2004's The All Night(1 on 1 pool playing and Visit to my Living Room watching our fave driver) Hang Out in Higganum. The other one was December 11, 2004 was A Full Day of Fun(with Jake and Amy at the movies and his last home before moving to New Britain, and our private time walkin' though Connecticut Commons)in Plainville/Farmington.
It was greatly awesome being around y'all and tryin' to keep in touch as muc h as possible. Thanks for the kindness y'all showed me and the great kindness I showed y'all.
Anyhow, Gotta go 4 now until we meet again at the funeral on Monday. I'll see ya 3 sweethearts (lol.)at noon on Monday maybe if I get there before 12pm and y'all are all ready there we can like talk for a while and take pic of each other or something like. If it's cool with ya 3, it's also cool with me. I have 2 surprises. 1 to say and the other to give to ya 3. I don't wanna spoil the surprises before Monday.
Well see ya gals and guy there!
Fondly,
~Jo Marie Johnson~
P.S. If we lose each other all of the sudden at one point please do call my cell @ 860-538-7569. If for some reason my phone is turned off, please follow the instructions after it switches to my voicemall. Thanks again for letting me be a friend to Jeffie D., and we all know that we'll miss him.
Suzan Weller
October 20, 2006
Carol, Jon, Amy, and Family,
We were saddened to learn of Jeffrey's sudden passing, and hope that the knowledge that you are in the thoughts and prayers of so many people will help you through this most difficult time.
Don and Suzan(Storms)Weller
Jean Storms
October 20, 2006
Carol, Jon, Amy, and family,
With deepest sympathy for your loss. Our thoughts are with you.
Aunt Jean Storms and family
Jennifer Farr
October 20, 2006
Dear Doolittle Family,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss.I had the great pleasure of meeting your son at a few of my brother Billys birthday parties.He brought life to the party and will be missed.Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.
David Woods
October 20, 2006
Jon, Carol, Jono, Bushy - We were so sorry to hear of Jeff's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time.
Dave and Mary Woods
Aimee and Karl Boehm
October 20, 2006
Jon, Carol, Amy, and Family,
I am truly sorry to hear of your loss. Jeff was a gentle soul that will be remembered well in our hearts.
With love,
Carol Presutti
October 20, 2006
Dear Carol, Jon, Amy and family,
I am so sorry to hear about Jeff's passing. I remember him always ruiting for Farmington at the river shores during the regattas. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. God Bless you. Carol and Sal Presutti and family
Sandy Niles
October 20, 2006
Dear Jon,
Shara was kind enough to realize how much I would want to add my prayers and hugs - as she shared this news. All who know and care for you and your family, from near and far, whether we know each other or not, are united in one big embrace, to try to surround and support you with love while you navigate this heartbreaking time. Peace...
Ivette Venereo-Perez
October 20, 2006
Dear Carol,Jon,Amy and Family--
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this time of loss. Our deepest condolenses.
Ivette Venereo-Perez
October 20, 2006
Jon,Carol and Amy--
Please know that the news was very shocking to us. Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with you all in this most difficult time.
Richard & Ivette Perez
Dora Quintana
October 20, 2006
Jon, Carol, AMY, and Family
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Mary Beth Schwaegel
October 20, 2006
Jon, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time.
Roger Ridings
October 20, 2006
Jon and Family,
I was saddened to hear about Jeff. I just read his obituary and although I didn't have the good fortune to know him, I am sure he made you proud. As a Father, I can't fathom what you must be feeling. Just know that your friends are thinking of you and our prayers go out to you and your family.
Nancy Parker
October 20, 2006
Jon and family
I'm so sorry to hear about Jeff.
May your memories provide you with
comfort during this difficult time.
Jeffrey Bruno
October 20, 2006
Jon, Carol, Amy, and Family,
News of this came as a terrible shock. Mine and my wife's thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.
Ron Buccilli
October 20, 2006
Parents and Family of Jeff,
Jeff was always a pleasure to be with and with whom to talk. He had a great attitude and, besides being a dependable worker, he loved to participate in all our fun events.
God Bless Him.
Katherine Duffy
October 20, 2006
Carol,
I am so sorry to hear of your sudden loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
With deepest sympathy,
Katherine and Charlie
Jane & Frank Amodio
October 20, 2006
Jon, Carol & Amy:
Very sorry to hear about Jeff. He was a great guy with a great family. Our prayers are with you.
Coy (Jacob Aviation/Mooney Mart) Jacob
October 20, 2006
We are all so very sorry to hear the sad news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Frank Turtola
October 20, 2006
Dear Carol, Jon and Amy,
We would like you to know that you are in our thoughts today.
We are truly saddened to hear the news of your loss and would like to express our deepest sympathies and hopes that you will find the strength to embrace and cherish the memories of all the good days you had with Jeffrey.
With our deepest condolences,
The Turtola Family
Lyle & Kathy (Keeney) Hendricks
October 20, 2006
Jon, Carol, Amy & Family,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of Jeff. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With Deepest Sympathy,
Wayne Gregory Family
October 20, 2006
Jon,
Our hearts go out to You and Your Familiy in this most difficult time.
Victor D'Avanzo
October 20, 2006
Jon, Carol, Amy and family,
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this most difficult time.
Matt & Dee Bakelman
October 20, 2006
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Mary O'Keefe
October 20, 2006
Dear Carol and family;
I wish I had known Jeff better. I only met him when he was a really cute and smiley baby.
I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you all. I will be thinking of you. All the best.
Mary
Gordon and Ramona Ramsay
October 20, 2006
Jon, Carol, Amy, Jono and Bushy:
We are so sorry to hear the news about Jeff. We will always remember Jeffrey's huge smile!
Big Hugs to you all, we are praying for you.
Love,
Elizabeth Ortiz
October 20, 2006
You are in my thoughts & prayers.
Nancy Martinez
October 20, 2006
Parents and Family of Jeffery,
I took care of Jeffery for a short period of time but the time I did spend with him was very enjoyable. He had a great sense of humor and I enjoyed being around him.
He will be well missed. My condolences to you and your family.
Mary Pabon
October 20, 2006
Jeff you will be missed dearly here at CW.
Wendy Jensen
October 20, 2006
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Juan and Jody Quintana
October 20, 2006
Carol, Jon, and Family--
From far away in time and space, our thoughts are with you. We are so sorry. We'll be making a memorial contribution in Jeff's name to the Epilepsy Foundation.
October 19, 2006
Dear Doolittle family, Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this very difficult time with the loss of your son, Jeffrey.
-Pietrasz Family, Farmington
Alan Plough
October 19, 2006
Carol/Jon/Amy -
Jeff's passing is a shock to us all; his gregarious nature despite his life-long struggle with epilepsy will be a memory forever; know that you did all you could for him and more; he will be sorely missed and though his loss will never diminish, hopefully time and his close proximity to you now will help you adjust in the months ahead. Jeff - we'll miss you forever - Uncle Alan
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