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BARNUM, Jini (Hopkins)

Jini (Hopkins) Barnum, 30, passed away July 28, 2012 in East Hampton. After missing for over 6 weeks her body was recovered September 9, 2012 in Glastonbury. Jini is survived by her son Keith Barnum, 7 years old and a daughter Taylor Elizabeth, 15 weeks old. She has also left behind two sisters, Holli Hopkins of Seattle, WA; and Chey Cowan of Watertown, NY; her mother, Becci Hopkins of Bullhead City, AZ; and grandparents Ron and Sue Devey of San Diego, CA.
Services will be held in the spring of 2013 in Mattapoisett, MA, where she will be place in the family plot with her father and many loved ones. Jini was an intelligent, young, vibrant woman taken from this world much too soon. She was a bright star that will now lead this family into a new future.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Sep. 30, 2012.

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Raven Gallaway

September 24, 2020

September 30, 2013

Jini,
I hope you know what a huge part of this family you are. You have brought us together in ways we never knew possible and we cherish one another more and more each day. You will always be in our hearts, our minds and our souls. We will not forget you and the wonderful light you brought into this family. As we move forward we know you are looking down upon us, leading us on our paths. A lot has changed since we last spoke and I wish I could call you and tell you all about it. Your little girl is as beautiful as ever and looks more and more like you every day. Your son is growing up to be such a handsome young man and has unbelievable manners and kindness. Chey and Mike are as happy as always, like they are still newlyweds. Latesha is in high school now! Crazy! Shaniece is in 7th grade, but you'd think she was older. She reminds me a lot of you ? Sasha and MJ are growing up so quick too, before we know it they will all be having families of their own. Grandma and Grandpa are doing well and are just as spry as ever. We try to keep them out of trouble but as you know there is only so much we can do. Mom and Rod got married! Finally! And guess what, you were the only one at the wedding! As for me, well, I met a fantastic guy who makes me laugh every day. We are going to be married next April. I still can't imagine going through that day without you and Dad. I always pictured you by my side, but I have Mom and Chey to help me through it and I know you will both be looking down and smiling on our family. Say hello to Dad and tell him I love him and miss him every day. As for you, Jini, please know that I always looked up to you, learned from you and was inspired by you. It's because of who you were that I am who I am. I love you so much and you will always be my sister. There is a part of my heart that is set aside for only you. I pray that you are able to rest in peace. I love you.
Love, Holli

September 25, 2013

Jini appeared briefly to us now and then as Holli's sister, always a bright spirit. We remember her big smile and flaming curls. Heartfelt condolences for a life cut short to all of her family and friends.
The Radkas

stacy cortez

July 18, 2013

I know you will be smiling down and shining your bright rays of light on us all who knew you. I know your in a better place and are at peace. I wish you were here though you had so much love to give everyone whose lives you touched....Jini you will forever be remembered by us all you taught us all many important lessons by being the greatest sister,daughter,mother,and friend anyone could ask for. Please rest in peace angel.. may your light touch us all

jennifer cutrer

November 24, 2012

You are greatly missed. I know u are looking down on those beautiful babies of urs. May u have your wings and one day lead us to the gates of heaven.

Amber Hosken

November 16, 2012

I will never forget singing Madonna with you.

Latesha Cowa

November 9, 2012

You were a great aunt. We miss you lots. LOVE YOU LOTS & ALWAYAS<3

Krystal Gadbaw

October 25, 2012

Jini, you will be deeply missed by all who knew you. You were a great person & friend. When I learned you were missing I never thought it would end this way. I was hoping you were taking a short breather from your life. My sincere condolences to your family. Love you & miss you, rest in peace Jini.

Bonnie Tomlin/Cotterill

October 15, 2012

My thought and prayer go out to your family! You were a great girl and taken from this world way to soon!!!

Raven Carstensen

October 7, 2012

RIP....we all miss u

tammy messer

October 2, 2012

it doesn't matter how long it's been since i've talked to you or seen you, in this very moment i'd give anything to have you by my side. i miss you so much , rip and know i loved u then , i'll love you tomorrow and forever.

East Hampton Resident

October 2, 2012

I didn't know Jini but my deepest condolences go out to her family. No life should ever end so tragic a death and no parent should ever have to bury their child. May this family now have peace and watch over Jini's children.

Holli Hopkins

October 1, 2012

Jini, my sister and best friend,
I'll never forget all the things you told me; all the advice, the criticism, and the sarcasm. It all means so much more to me now than it ever did before. You have helped me become the person I am today, and I will never forget that. It upsets me to know that you will not be by my side in the future special moments of my life, but you'll be there in spirit and I hope I make you proud. I will forever love you and miss you. (B's & B's) and may you find peace with Dad.

Marcia Seever

October 1, 2012

Now He's laid you down to sleep, I pray the Lord your soul to keep.

bruce hall

September 30, 2012

will always miss u jini rip

Briana

September 30, 2012

Though in my heart I knew this was where we were headed because I felt you speak to me, this is not where I wanted or had hoped we'd be for sure. Thanks for being a friendly face...thanks for welcoming me without judgement...and thanks for being you. Be at peace Jini Barnum, and watch over those babies and guide them for all eternity!!

Sandy Morrell

September 30, 2012

Jini is perfect again and knows no pain. You will be forever remembered, bless you. Watch over us sweet angel.

Kelly Jones

September 30, 2012

Jini you be missed by many .you touched so many lives in you're short time here .but I know your shining down from above you will always be angel from above til we meet again luv u for ever your friend kelly

Rod Otis

September 30, 2012

I'll miss your smile and laughter. Love you, Jini. RIP

September 30, 2012

jini R.I.P.your singing with the angels in heaven. love debbie

Chey Cowan

September 30, 2012

Jini you are greatly missed. We love you very much.

Carolyn Reckner

September 30, 2012

You were dearly loved and will be forever missed. Rest in Peace in God's loving and protective arms.Gone but never forgotten.

Linda & Ron Wallace

September 30, 2012

Dear Family and Friends of Jini, Please take comfort that Jini is now at peace and will be that guardian angel to help you guide her children through this tragedy and live happy healthy lives without her presence on earth. Praying for Jini and thinknig of all who knew her.

Sabrina

September 30, 2012

RIP JINI you will be dearly missed!!

September 30, 2012

Fly with the Angels my child

September 30, 2012

I am truley sorry for your loss, I personally know the loss of a daughter and still have no peace with it. I met Jini while she was pregnant and loved her as one of my own. She was a very happy and beautiful person inside and out and will be missed by all who have known her. Rest In Peace Jini..I love you

Becci Hopkins

September 30, 2012

May you RIP my sweet baby.

Grandma and Grandpa Devey

September 30, 2012

You are loved and missed -

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