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Kenneth Scheer Obituary

Kenneth Scheer, 63, of Berlin, husband of Betsy (Dyson) Scheer, tragically left his loved ones on Tuesday, March 22, 2022.  A lifelong Berlin resident, he was a graduate of Berlin High School class of 1976. Continuing his education, Ken graduated from the University of Connecticut in 1981 with a bachelor's degree in Accounting. Impressively passing four difficult testing competencies in one day, he quickly became a Certified Public Accountant, working for many years in the profession. Twenty years ago Ken joined Dyson Associates, the multi-generational family business, as a manufacturer's representative, allowing his father-in-law to retire. Ken was a "Go Getter" with an insatiable drive to succeed.  Beyond its apparency during work and through hobbies, it showed brightly as a member of the Berlin Lions Club.  Ken worked tirelessly to better his community through outreach programs with the club; most recently during COVID-19 showing appreciation for many first responders.  He was a contributor to the Visually Impaired Persons annual fishing tournaments, managed the beer booth at the Berlin Fair, and chaired the Membership Committee.  His hard work and dedication earned him many distinctions including Lion of the Year in 2014, Ambassador of Sight in 2015, and Knight of the Blind in 2021.  Posthumously, Ken is being honored with the distinctive Melvin Jones Award, given only to the most deserving Lions members.  Ken always looked forward to spring as he was a long-time member of a golf league at Southington Country Club where he played with a great group of work friends.  He loved the comradery and cocktails on the course, dinners after, while always hoping for another straight drive and the next putt to drop. Ken cherished spending his free time with his beloved family.  Time spent relaxing on numerous vacations, bantering during family dinners, and joking during holidays and parties is where most of the best memories were made. He held and shared many hobbies such as reading, gardening, and fixing anything that needed repair.  He enjoyed visiting New England breweries, continuously on the hunt for the next best juicy IPA. Ken had a heart of gold.  He was the most loyal friend, doing anything for all before even being asked.  He has left many, many shattered hearts that will never be repaired. Besides his childhood sweetheart and soulmate Betsy, he is survived by the mirrors of his soul, his children, Matthew Scheer and his wife Morgan of West Hartford, Zachary Scheer and his girlfriend Sabrinna Dubiel of Middlefield, and Kathryn Scheer of New Britain. He is further survived by three siblings, Kathy Corcoran and her husband Jerry of South Windsor, Karrie Phillips and her husband Bernie of East Hampton, and Kris Scheer of Berlin, along with numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, in-laws and countless friends. He is predeceased by his parents Kenneth and Rose Scheer and his brother, Kurt Scheer. Family and friends are welcome to join a Celebration of Life to be held on Friday, April 8, 2022 from 4pm to 8pm, at Kinsmen Brewing Company located at 409 Canal Street, Milldale, CT 06467. Donations in Ken's memory may be made online at http://berlinlions.org/charities/donate/

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Published by Hartford Courant on Apr. 3, 2022.

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Morgan Leonard

April 13, 2022

My condolences to the Scheer family. I knew Ken through business and always enjoyed the time we shared...mostly at trade shows. Ken was always a professional and a great guy. I know I am a better person for having the honor of knowing him.

Eric Pelto

April 5, 2022

Condolences from my mom and sons and myself ken will be missed from the work we did with utica to time spent on golf coures

Howie Odishoo

April 4, 2022

Betsy & family, I am so very sorry to hear of Ken's passing. My prayers are with you and your family

Dave Staszewski

April 4, 2022

Betsy, I am so sorry for your loss. Ken was a great guy and will be missed by all who know him. I have a ton of great memories growing up in the neighborhood and Scouts with Ken.

Sharon & Roy Dellinger

April 3, 2022

Dear Betsy, Matthew, Zach, Kathryn, Kathy, Kris & Karrie,
There are no words adequate to express our shock and utter sadness for your loss. We've deleted more sentences than we are leaving written because they all sounded too cliché to leave in print. Your brother, husband and dad meant the world to you, and it is clear that he did so much to leave a positive mark on this crazy world we all live in. We are holding you all close in our thoughts.
Sharon and Roy

Dr. Michael Tosatti

April 3, 2022

Betsy & family,
Ken was a wonderful person. My deepest sympathies to all of you.

Gail Sjoman (Russo)

March 30, 2022

Cousins are sometimes closer in mind than distance. Ken was someone we loved and respected and will always miss. Betsy, you were both made for each other, so sorry

Governale Industries

March 30, 2022

We are deeply sadended by your losss. We will miss you
very much. You are in our prayers

Jan (Gimpl) Symolon

March 30, 2022

I am so sorry for your unimaginable loss of Ken. Seeing his picture with the genuine loss one could always see in his smiling eyes brings me back to the many picnics shared with our families growing up. Ken was an example of the love that always showed through in the entire Scheer family. You are all in our prayers.

Mary (Yuniskis) Abbate

March 30, 2022

It´s so very sad when tragedy comes suddenly, without warning. My heart goes out to the entire family. I´m so very sorry for your loss

A.W. Carlson Funeral Home

March 30, 2022

Our sincere sympathies for your loss.

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