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FINKLE, Michael Jay Michael J. Finkle, 29, of West Hartford, died peacefully on Monday, (July 28, 2008). He was born September 7, 1978, in Hartford. Michael grew up in West Hartford and graduated from Hall High School. Michael was predeceased by his twin sister Lindsey Ziplow Finkle Forman. He leaves his loving parents, Paul and Susan Ziplow Finkle and a brother Daniel Finkle. He is also survived by his grandparents and many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. Michael touched countless lives with his sense of humor, his intelligence and his caring heart. He will be missed by all of those who knew and loved him. A graveside service and interment will be on Wednesday, July 30, at 11:30 a.m. at Beth Israel Cemetery, Avon. (Directions to the cemetery Rt. 44 West, left onto Old Farms Road, right onto Arch Road, left onto Jackson Street. At end of street continue into woods). Following interment, the family will receive friends at the home of Susan and Paul Finkle, Farmington with an evening service at 7 p.m. and Thursday, 4-8 pm with a service at 7 p.m. The family will be very honored with your presence at Shabbot Eve services at the Temple on Friday at 7:30 p.m. Memorial contributions may be made to the Noah's Ark Scholarship Fund, at Congregation Beth Israel, 701 Farmington Avenue, West Hartford, CT 06119. Funeral arrangements provided by Hebrew Funeral Association, Inc. 906 Farmington Avenue, West Hartford.

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Published by Hartford Courant from Jul. 29 to Jul. 30, 2008.

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June 8, 2009

John Heinz

August 22, 2008

Michael was a true friend and comrade over the years. I'm shocked and saddened by the news of his passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

August 20, 2008

Susan and Paul

No words can express how deeply sad I feel for you and your family at this time . Our deepest sympathies are with you as you grieve.

Harvey Goldberg & Family

Simone Vrabel le Coutre

August 12, 2008

Dear Susan and Paul Finkle and family:

I was so sorry to learn about the death of Micahel. I will remember him as a lively, delightful personality. I wish there were something to say that could be of comfort to you and all your loved ones, but there is not much I can think of beyond how sorry I am for you during this time of grief.

Sincerely,

Simone and family

Shana Kates

August 6, 2008

Please accept our condolences for your terrible loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

The Kates Family

S. T. (Skip) Moskey

August 5, 2008

My deepest condolences to your family on your loss. I remember Michael from around the neighborhood, and he was always such a pleasant, polite boy.

Cousin Anita and Aunt Sarah Oppenheimer

August 4, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Eilean (Moskey) Worcester

August 4, 2008

It's been over 20 years since I met Michael in elementary school, and I still remember him vividly. He was a funny, sweet, interesting person. I'll never forget him.

Flora-Lou Sherman

August 3, 2008

Dear Susan and Paul,
I just read about Michael´s passing.
My heart goes out to you. I am so saddened that your hearts are once again broken. You are in our prayers and will always be. We are away right now, but will call as soon as we get back. I love you Susan........be strong for both Michael and Lindsey, they would want you to, and I know that you can.
Love,
Flora-Lou and Phil Sherman

Ruth Barth

August 1, 2008

Susan,

I am so sorry.

Please accept my prayers and condolences to you and your family.

Ruth D. Barth
(Owen's grandmother from Noah's Ark days)

Lori Korduner-Murray

July 31, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Vincent Roman

July 31, 2008

Dear Susan and Paul,
You have my deepest sympathies at this time of great loss. Michael was a little brother to me and a friend to all. He shared himself with courageous authenticity and in so doing helped many to more freedom and better lives. May you soar in that freedom, Little Brother, until we meet again.

Angela Laws (Toce)

July 31, 2008

I knew Michael in elementary school. I was very saddened to hear of his passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

Susan and Gary Cramer

July 31, 2008

We were so saddened to hear of this horrible loss. No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest sympathies are with you as you grieve.

Kathy and Terry Sofrin

July 31, 2008

Our heart goes out to all who were blessed to have known Michael. He was such a special person and made a positive difference in our lives. We feel blessed to have known him. Our prayers are with you and your family.

RICHARD SOLOMON

July 31, 2008

SUSAN AND PAUL:

IT IS EXTREMELY DIFFICULT TO FIND WORDS THAT PROVIDE COMFORT AT THIS TIME. PLEASE KNOW, HOWEVER, THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE. CONSIDER YOURSELVES HELD AND HUGGED AND MISSED.

Bill Euliano

July 31, 2008

Paul and Susan, my deepest sympathies and prayers to you over the loss of your son.

Melissa Melo Burns

July 30, 2008

I received this sad news this morning. I thought about Michael all day today, what I remember most about Michael is how he would make me laugh...he made me laugh so hard that it would hurt! I am so sad and confused about his death. I miss the times that we spent together, and I will always remember him! May he be at peace. My sincere condolences to your family. Michael was a special man here on Earth...and he is now without a doubt an angel in Heaven.

Laura Maltz Rozza

July 30, 2008

I was heartbroken to hear about Michael's passing. i can't imagine how hard this must be for you Susan, Paul and Dan. Please let me know if there is anything I can do. Love, Laura

LaShawn Gibbs

July 30, 2008

I am deeply sadden by this news. I am sitting here remembering the times I shared in Middle school & high school with Lindsey and Michael.

I am very sorry for your loss. And believe that Lindsey and Michael are together again.

Brian Quiros

July 30, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Michael from high school as a very funny and bright young man. May Michael and his sister be reunited in Heaven.

janet

July 30, 2008

Dear Michael's Family,
I only met Michael a few times but in those moments I was touched by his speaking of his deep love for his parents and family. It was very tender to listen to him and experience his kind gentle heart. Janet

Megan Bernstein

July 30, 2008

Susan and Paul, Please accept my deepest condolences. My thoughts are with you and your family. I have many fond memories of Michael through the years. Megan Bernstein

Jon Zimmerman

July 30, 2008

Dear Mr. & Mrs. Finkle, and Daniel,

I am very saddened to hear about Michael's passing. I have fond memories of Michael from summer camp and the neighborhood around Morley in which we grew up. He will be missed.

Joanna (Pitocco)Shelton

July 30, 2008

I am so saddened to hear of Michael's passing. He was an amazing spirit. His smile, and his personality always lite up a room. I send my support and love during this difficult time.

Reka Kurta-Cebulski

July 30, 2008

I am very saddened by this terrible loss. I have many great memories with Michael from high school. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kim Charles

July 30, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathy over the loss of Michael. I loved his intelligence, his humor, his authenticity. He will be missed so much more than words can describe. Please know your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Mindy Tatham (Critton)

July 30, 2008

Susan and Paul,
I am so sorry for your loss. Michael was such a kind soul and a great friend to me over the years. I have fond memories of our "twin club", proms, dinners and coffees out. He will be missed and thought of often. I am a better person for having had him in my life. Love, Mindy

Sklar

July 30, 2008

So sorry to hear about the passing of Michael. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Susan

Michael Melo

July 30, 2008

I am shocked and saddened by this inexplicable loss. Michael was one of the kindest, most patient, and precious friends I've ever known. May he rest in eternal peace with all of my love. I will never forget him.

Erin Striff and Alex Cave

July 30, 2008

Dear Susan, Paul and family,
We are so very sorry for your terrible loss. We remember Michael coming in to help you out at Noah’s Ark. We can’t imagine what you are going through right now but you are constantly in our thoughts. Our deepest sympathies go out to you.
With love,
The Striff-Caves

Emily Green

July 30, 2008

I am so sad to hear this terrible news. Michael was always so fun and special. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Wendy Belfer-Tyler

July 30, 2008

Lindsey and Michael were blessed on earth to have the most amazing love and care bestowed upon them by the most loving and wonderful parents. They were both "mench" before they reached adulthood, thanks to all you gave to them. You taught them to be givers, lovers and humorous- not takers or users, and you were always so proud of them! Now we have to think that they are looking down, proudly, upon you to carry on for them. Lindsey must have needed her Michael, even more than those of us left here to wonder why.
All our love and indescribable sorrow.
Shoshana, Nina, Chuck and Wendy Belfer-Tyler

elsa and peter gassner

July 30, 2008

Dear Susan and family,
We were deeply saddened to hear the news of Michael's passing. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and we wish to send our sincere sympathy.
Fondly,
Elsa and Peter Gassner

Stan Newborn

July 30, 2008

Remembering Michael who left us too soon in his young life.
Rest in peace.
Shalom,
Stan

bedtime photos

July 30, 2008

Nora Lamarti

July 30, 2008

I love you Michael, my best friend. You are forever in my heart & I am grateful for all of our memories. I hope you found peace...I promise to look after your mom.

Jessica Rutenberg Peake

July 29, 2008

I was devastated to learn about Michael's passing. He was such a wonderful, warm-hearted and fun loving person. He will be sorely missed by all who new him.

Kayla Hasbrook

July 29, 2008

My prayers and deepest sympathies go out to Michael's family and friends. I will be forever grateful for the time I got to spend with Michael. In the short time I knew him, his presence never failed to bring a smile to my face- and make me feel like I was somebody special. His sweet spirit will live on in the hearts of those who loved him.

pleasance lowengard silicki

July 29, 2008

I am so sad to hear of Michael's passing. My prayers and thoughts are with the family. Michael was an amazing spirit and a pleasure to grow up with. love and comfort to you all.

Hope Goldstein

July 29, 2008

Dear Susan,
I'm so sorry. We are thinking of you.
Love,
Rebecca, Sascha, & Hope

Rachel (Pasternack) Welcome & Family

July 29, 2008

Susan & Paul -

We are tremendously sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Michael was a sweet person who will always be fondly remembered.

Please accept our sincere condolences.

Linda Silpe

July 29, 2008

Dear Sue,
You will always be Merry's little friend...Sweet Sue to us. We are so sorry for your loss, though the distance is far and the years are long since we have seen you our thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.

Don and Linda Fisher Silpe

Paolo Villa

July 29, 2008

Michael, thank you for your smile, your wit, the sunshine in your eyes.
May your journey be easy and pain-free now.
Love always,
Paolo

Tom & Mary Carey

July 29, 2008

Dear Susan & Paul,
Our condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. Our prayers are with you.

Mary & Tom Carey

David Ecker

July 29, 2008

I'd like to express my deepest sympathy to you in your time of sorrow. I only knew Michael for a few years. In that short time, he helped me to face my fears and get my life back. I will miss him dearly and hold his memory close to my heart.

Yelena Pasternak

July 29, 2008

Dear Susan Finkle, Paul!
Please, please be strong....YOu have too...Michael and Lindsey would want you to be...
Every minute is a pain...Please know that we love you and care for you and will help in every possible way
I am so so sorry, Susan Finkle
With love, Yelena, Andrew and Daniel

Barbara Green

July 29, 2008

Michael was a very sweet young man – I remember him well.
My heart goes out to all of you, words though cannot possibly convey my feelings.
Luckily you have dear friends and family who will always be there to comfort you.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Kim & Travis Lytle

July 29, 2008

Susan, Paul and Family,
Our hearts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time.
With love, The Lytle Family

Jeannine Jersey

July 29, 2008

My deepest sympathies go out to the entire family. Michael was a great spirit, and he will be missed a great deal. All of you will be in my prayers.

John Brubaker

July 29, 2008

My deep condolences to all who knew and loved Michael. He was such a special young man - so full of talent, so bright, so full of love for his fellow human being, such a gleam in his eye. Michael, you touched the lives of so many in your years here. I was one of those people. May those of us who were privileged to know you pass on to others the gift you gave us.

maria wilcox

July 29, 2008

To the family of Michael,

My sincerest sympathies for this immeasureable loss, and someone who will never be forgotten. Michael was a treasure to me, and we always ended our long telephone conversations with an " I love you". Michael, I still love you and you will always live in my heart. Thank you for your kindness, support, and being a true friend. Until until I see you again, rest in Peace.

Maria Wilcox
Wethersfield, CT

Joanne Martins

July 29, 2008

I will miss seeing you. You are already missed by many friends. You always made me laugh. Another Angel.

Steve Veshosky

July 29, 2008

I was so very sorry to hear the news. Michael was such a warm, thoughtful and caring person, and an inspiration to so many. He will truly be missed by all who knew and loved him.
Rest in peace, my friend.

Judi Ann Goodman

July 29, 2008

I have known Michael for about four years and he struck me as a bright, caring young man. I wished for him all good things. I am greatly saddened by his death. My prayers are with you all.

Amanda Alfonso

July 29, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Take Care,
Amanda

Gerson Goldstein

July 29, 2008

Dearest Susan and Paul,
I cannot express how sad I am for you on Michael's passing. I rememeber Lindsey and Michael when you lived on Bretten Road upstairs from my sister and brother in law Deborah and Bob Guggenheim. I saw Michael not long ago and he seemed happy and positive. He was a wonderful sweet guy always there for anyone and very supportive and careing. I'm sure G-d has a very important goel for him in heaven. I'm also sure Lindsey and Michael are together and taking care of each other as well and making others laugh as they spread their love to others who have past. My deepest condolensces.
Gerson Goldstein

Julie & Jeffrey Noll

July 29, 2008

Dear Susan:

We are so sorry for your loss. Please accept our most sincere condolences.

Julie & Jeffrey Noll

Jeanne Young

July 29, 2008

Susan and Paul,
I was so saddened to hear of the loss of your son Michael.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time.

Deb Strong

July 29, 2008

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Finkle,
Please accept my families condolences at the passing of Michael. I knew Michael from NAMI and as a facilitator of a support group at CCSU. I trained him back in October, 2007. I enjoyed working with him. I found him to be very bright with a great sense of humor and easy manner.

Take care of yourselves,

Deb Strong

Amy Glater Mondschein

July 29, 2008

Dearest Susan and Paul,
I am so saddened about Michael. My thoughts and prayers are with you both and your family.
As I sent my son to camp this morning, I remembered when Lindsey and Michael were campers. They were the cutest, sweetest duo. I will always remember those days.
My deepest sympathy to both of you.

Jim Thompson

July 29, 2008

Michael generously shared his experience, strength and hope with me and many others. He brought light to darkness and calmed the chaos...a wonderful man and gift to us all. We thank God for his presence as we mourn his loss.

Fran Maltz

July 29, 2008

Dear Susan and Paul - Allen and I wish our words of condolence could ease your suffering, but we know they are completely inadequate. Please know that our thoughts, prayers and heartfelt sympathies are with you at this time of such painful loss. May God grant you strength.
Love, Fran & Allen Maltz

Elliott Strick

July 29, 2008

Dear Susan & Paul,
I am so sorry to learn about Michael's death. He was a very special man. Michael, I will miss your presence in this lifetime and will always remember you.

Abby Mayou

July 29, 2008

Dear Susan and Paul, I am with you in spirit. You are in my thoughts and my heart is with you. I am here for anything you need in the difficult days ahead. Abby

Andy and Tricia Rose

July 29, 2008

Dear Susan and Paul,
Our hearts, prayers and thoughts are with you during this very sad and difficult time. Please accept our deepest sympathies.
The Rose Family

David Mercer Ceder IV

July 29, 2008

I did not know Michael well, indirectly really, but he was always kind, intelligent, and humourous anytime we spoke.

I am sorry to hear of his loss - my thoughts are with his Family and the Community at this time.

wayne poisson

July 29, 2008

Susan and Paul,
There are no words that can truly comfort at times like this, its our family and friends being close to us that bring us some comfort.
Hopefully the peace which comes from the memories of love shared comfort you now and in the difficult days ahead. My love is with you always. You and Michael remain in my heart and my thoughts.
Michael i love you.

Luda Zarovnaya

July 29, 2008

Dear Susan and Poul, Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Doreen Ross

July 29, 2008

Susan, Paul and Family:

We are so sorry to hear of Michael's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Doreen, Lee, David and Marc Ross

Ann Degenhardt

July 29, 2008

Paul & Susan . .

I was so sorry to read of the passing of your son, Michael. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Your neighbor . .

Lynn Fontaine

July 29, 2008

Susan, I don't know what to say! I am so very sorry! Please know that I am praying for you every minute! My love always, Lynn

Debbie & Jimmy Callahan

July 29, 2008

Dear Family, Michael we love you. We have been blessed to have you in our lives form the time we met you. You made our lives full of fun, joy and laughter. May God take care of you always. You will always be in our prayers and thoughts.

Hyla Sklar

July 29, 2008

Susan and Paul
We wish you strength and courage at this sad time. Please accept our most sincere thoughts of sympathy and take comfort in the fact that you are in the thoughts of people who care.
Hyla and Harry.

Tracy Steinberg Healey

July 29, 2008

I am so very sorry for your loss Susan and family. My prayers are with you and your family.

Joseph Altomare

July 29, 2008

Michael loved to laugh and always had this way of making others feel good.I will miss him and his smile. He was an insperation and a power of example to alot of people.Michael I will always remember you.Thank you.

Karan Emerick

July 29, 2008

Susan And Paul
Word are inadequate.
We are so sorry.
Our prayers are with you.
Geoff and Karan Emerick

The La Fontaine Family

July 29, 2008

Susan and Paul,
Our hearts and sympathy are with you. I will fondly remember the times I ran into Michael at Wild Oats and we shared funny stories. All our love, Lisa, Mark and Sidney La Fontaine

Betsy Sklar

July 29, 2008

Dear Susan and Paul and the Ziplow,Finkle family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.

Love,Betsy

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