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Michele Pilver Obituary

Michele (Sherman) Pilver, 75, of East Hartford, passed away on Friday, October 30, 2020. She was the beloved wife, for 56 years, of Melvyn Pilver. Born in Hartford, she was the daughter of the late Joseph and Ruth (Goldberg) Sherman. Michele was a graduate of Weaver High School and Central Connecticut State College. She worked several jobs before her years at the Hartford Courant from which she retired. She was one of the nicest and kindest persons to have walked this planet. She never had an unkind word for anybody. She loved her sons and grandchildren to no end. Her friends were many and she enjoyed dining out with them. She was also a member of the Temple Beth Tefilah in East Hartford. Besides her husband, Michele is survived by her sons Kenneth S. Pilver of Marlborough and his girlfriend Kimberly Pierce of Branford and Adam M. Pilver of Los Angeles, CA, her brother Charles Sherman and his wife Pam of Kalamazoo, MI, her brother-in-law Allan Pilver and his wife Elaine Pilver, cherished grandchildren, Nathanial Pilver, Rachel Pilver, and JD Pilver and nieces, nephews, cousins and dear friends. Due to the COVID-19 pandemic, a private graveside service will be held on Tuesday, November 3, at the Hartford Mutual Society Cemetery in East Granby with Rabbi Stuart Snyder officiating. The family will observe a private period of mourning. Donations in her memory may be made to either Temple Beth Tefilah or Animal Friends of Ct. May her memory be a source of strength and a blessing. Funeral arrangements provided by Hebrew Funeral Association, West Hartford.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Nov. 2, 2020.

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Susan Cote

October 28, 2021

Thinking of Aunt Michele this week and sending so much love! Thinking of how much she touched everyone´s life in such a beautiful way. We miss her dearly. Love, Susan Cote and Family

Andrea Schreibman

November 5, 2020

This is written, still, with a heavy heart. We always enjoyed our couples dining out get- togethers and the casino. We loved sharing our "cat stories". I always think of M'M's when referring to Mel and Michele; always "sweet" to one another and all who came into their lives in any capacity.
You will always be remembered with love and a smile.

Ken Pilver

November 3, 2020

Mom was the kindest person I know. Always caring and inquisitive. Loved her grandchildren and everyone's animals. Gonna miss you so much. I love you Mom...

Stuart Roth

November 3, 2020

We are saddened to learn of Michele’s passing. She was a dear, sweet friend, always with a smile. Never a negative word about anyone. We were fortunate to have been able to spend an afternoon with her a few short weeks ago. We will miss her but will cherish our memories. Stu & Ellen Roth

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Howard Gordon

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November 3, 2020

The Fitzgerald Family sends our love and prayers. So many great memories of the years at the soccer field. We are thinking of your family during this difficult time

Paul Fitzgerald

Barbara Pershan

November 3, 2020

Michele will be missed. She always had a beautiful smile and kind words. Was grateful I got to speak to her at high holidays service. RIP

Fay Merkin Clymer

November 3, 2020

Sending sincere condolences all the Pilver-Sherman families on Michelle’s z”l passing. A loss at any age diminishes us all.May she rest- in-peace. G-d Bless all those who mourn. Sincerely Fay Merkin Clymer and my family

Judy Simons

November 3, 2020

Dear Chuck and family,
So very sorry to read about your sister. My thoughts and prayers are with you. RIP Michele,

Ronnie Whitcomb

November 3, 2020

I feel it a pleasure and gift to have know Michelle and her wonderful family for some time now. I had never seen her not smiling and she was always happy and kind. My condolences to the family and I will miss Michelle. Bless her sweet soul.

Sandy Pilver Cohen

November 2, 2020

So very sorry to hear of the loss of your wife, Cousin Melvin. Sending my deepest sympathy to you at this sad time. May your memories be of comfort to you.

Susan (Pilver) Cote

November 2, 2020

Aunt Michele has been a wonderful aunt to me. More than I could ask. We called ourselves the pisces of the family. It also bonded us that my birthday is the same as her father's. Michele was loving to everybody and had so much love and kindness to offer. She was always helping whether or not she was the hostess. When she came here she brought so much food, help and love. We will all miss Michele at any function. I am so blessed to know her and have been so close.

Nan Levin

November 2, 2020

Mel, Kenny and Adam-I am so sorry for your loss and share in your sadness. She was a good friend and I enjoyed the time we spent together. May happy memories sustain you during these difficult times.

Robin L Jensen

November 2, 2020

I had the pleasure of getting to know Bubby when she came in each year to make latkes for her grandchildren's classes. It was a time that I looked forward to each year as I had Nate, Rachel and JD. Her dedication and support of her family was evident. Anyone was truly lucky if they had the chance to get to know Bubby. Sending love to her family. A tremendous void is left in the Pilver Clan. Each one of her children and grandchildren should be comforted to know that Bubby is being carried on by them in the way that they treat others.

Ed Rosenthal

November 2, 2020

We knew each other since infancy as our parents were best friends. Although we lost touch after high school, I still feel a deep sense of sadness.
She was extraordinary in so many ways. My condolences to her family including Mel and her brother “Chuck”.
Eddie

Joseph Fleischmann

November 2, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Rich and Elaine Bucheri

November 2, 2020

Mel,
So sorry for your loss. May the memories of your long time together give you comfort.

Joseph Fleischmann

November 2, 2020

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Harvey Daitch

November 2, 2020

Melvyn, So sorry to hear of your loss. I have very fond memories of our younger days...we had many good times. RIP, Harvey Daitch

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Aaron Mounds

November 2, 2020

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Rich and Nancy Persky

November 2, 2020

Rich and I were saddened to hear this news. Our thoughts are with you and your family Melvyn.

Pat Adams

November 2, 2020

Ken and Adam Sorry lost of your Mom My prayers to you and family at this difficult time. Hugs

Vivian Chow

November 2, 2020

Mel, I’m so sorry for your loss; our loss. I really enjoyed working with Michelle and then keeping our friendship beyond the workplace. May Michelle Rest In Peace. I will miss her. Hugs to you.

Mrs. Deborah Bourbeau

November 2, 2020

Ken, Nate, Rachel, and JD., I was saddened to hear of Michele's passing this morning. We would, in years past, talk about you kids while at the Healthtrax pool. She was so very proud of her grandchildren! Having taught two of you three, I was always interested to hear how you were doing. It pleased me to hear of your individual successes. I knew Michele as a kind and thoughtful person and considered her a friend. You have my deepest sympathy in the loss of your mother/grandmother.

Rachel D Lindenthal

November 2, 2020

Dear Melvyn and Family, So sorry to learn of your excruciating loss...perhaps lightened only by the good and loving memories you have of her.
Rachel D Lindenthal

Allan Pilver

November 2, 2020

I am saddened by our loss of Michele. Her passing leaves a hole in our lives. She was a fine person who was always a pleasure to be with. She was a wonderful part of our family. Our gatherings of family and friends will miss her very much.

Harvey & Evie Goldberg

November 2, 2020

No words can express the feeling of loss I have for you and your family. She was one of the best people ever put on this earth. She was my friend all my life , family is forever. RIP

Elaine Pilver

November 2, 2020

Our condolences to Mel, Ken, Adam, Nate, Rachel and JD. Michele was a kind, loving and devoted wife, mother and grandmother. She was a special part of our family and will be greatly missed. Grief is hard, but special memories can help us cope. Love

Paul and barbara Pellegatto

November 2, 2020

It seems each day lately sadness rains upon us. Hoping you can heal your broken heart with happy thoughts of yesterday. So sorry for your loss Mel and family although we have not seen each other for quite sometime. Thinking of you at this difficult time. Peace be with you all.

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Jeanne McKinney

October 31, 2020

Mel, I am so sorry for your loss. May all your wonderful memories of Michele ease your pain during this difficult time. She was loved by many! My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

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