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N. Brian Gillespie

1946 - 2021

N. Brian Gillespie obituary, 1946-2021, Windsor, CT

BORN

1946

DIED

2021

FUNERAL HOME

Carmon Windsor Funeral Home

807 Bloomfield Avenue

Windsor, Connecticut

N. Gillespie Obituary

N. Brian Gillespie, 75, of Windsor, beloved husband for 51 years of Dianne (Steben) Gillespie, passed away peacefully on Saturday, October 16, 2021, at the West Haven VA Hospital. Born in Hartford on February 17, 1946, son of the late Neil W. and Viola (LaBell) Gillespie, he was raised in Windsor and was a graduate of Windsor High School, Class of 1964. After graduation, Brian enlisted in the US Air Force and served during the Vietnam War. He was awarded the Bronze Star for Meritorious Service and was honorably discharged in 1968. After his military service, he took a position at Combustion Engineering in Windsor and he returned to school at night at the University of Hartford where he studied business and later graduated with a Bachelors Degree. Brian spent most of his career with R.K. Griffith & Associates in Putnam where he worked as a sales engineer in the power industry for over 20 years. Most recently, he owned and operated his own business, NBG Power which he ran until his retirement in 2017. Brian was a fixture in Windsor Youth Baseball for over 30 years. He served as President of the Windsor Youth Baseball Association and General Manager of the Windsor American Legion and Junior Legion Baseball teams for 10 years. Brian also coached Windsor Little League Baseball, Windsor Youth All-Stars, Youth Soccer, Youth Baseball and Softball, Travel Soccer, and Girls and Boys Basketball. In 1999, he founded the Windsor Youth Baseball Association to oversee Windsor American Legion Baseball, Windsor Jaycee-Courant Baseball, and the Windsor Senior League. Proud of his military service, Brian was an active member of Gray-Dickinson Post #59, American Legion in Windsor and the Windsor V.F.W., Post #4740 where he was presently serving as the Quartermaster and Adjutant. He was a member of the Exchange Club of Windsor where he enjoyed volunteering on many service projects over the years. Brian loved his community of Windsor where he lived his whole life. He mentored countless children over the years while he coached over 60 youth sports teams. Most of all, Brian will be remembered as the consummate family man whose life revolved around his wife, his children, and his grandchildren. Besides his loving wife, he leaves to cherish his memories, his daughter, Kelly Gillespie Nesbitt and her husband Dave of Windsor; his son, Brett Gillespie of Windsor Locks; three grandchildren, Jalen, Amaya, and Jace Nesbitt all of Windsor; a sister, Jeanne Beltrandi of Enfield; his brother-in-law, Peter Suty of Windsor; his best friend, Jeff Echelson of Windsor; and many nieces, nephews, Godchildren, and close friends. He was predeceased by a sister, Sandra Suty. His family will receive friends on Tuesday, October 26, 5-8 p.m., at The Lodge Community Chapel, 130 Deerfield Rd., Windsor. A Mass of Christian Burial will be Celebrated on Wednesday, October 27, 10 a.m., at St. Damien of Molokai Parish - St. Gabriel Church, 379 Broad St., Windsor. Burial with Military Honors will follow in Windsor Veterans Memorial Cemetery. Memorial donations may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Way, Memphis, TN 38105, or to the V.F.W. Post #4740, 276 Broad St., Windsor, CT 06095. Carmon Windsor Funeral Home has been entrusted with the arrangements. For online condolences please visit, www.carmonfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Oct. 21, 2021.

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Denny DeMarco

November 11, 2021

Brian was a great friend and wonderful person. Everyone loved Brian because he was so lovable. I always have and always will think of Brian fondly.

BRUCE H ALEXANDER

November 11, 2021

We started rolling together around 7th grade, ran it through high school, pulled some capers. Brian was laways everyone's Man. A touch shorter? He went to to the hoop, grabbed his rebounds. someone give him lip? Brian fired back with wit and wisdom. I loved this guy, hope his family can do OK without him.

Tim Berrell

October 27, 2021

I'm so sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest sympathies to your family and yourself. RIP

Angelica Branfalt

October 26, 2021

I am sending all of my love to the family. He was one of the most amazing men I have had the opportunity to know in my life. Humble, funny, kind and genuine. He was a father to many of us. He was most respected and I will too miss him dearly. I am grateful to share so many great times with you and your family. Love you all dearly as my own family. I am with you all and sending all of my love , strength and prayers to everyone.

Mary Beth McQueeney

October 24, 2021

Dear Dianne and Family,
We're sending you our sincere condolences on Brian´s passing. May he enter a blissful new life. I have fond memories of growing up across the street from Brian and his sweet parents and siblings, later where he lived with his own young family. He was always such a kind person with a great and easy laugh. Brian taught us younger kids not to eat the "yellow snow" and other important things to know. It took us years to figure out that when Santa Claus came to visit at our house accompanied by Brian and his mother Vi that Santa was really Brian´s dad Neil all dressed up. I know Brian will be greatly missed by all who he touched.

Sincerely,
Mary Beth and the McQueeney Family
Kathy, Tom, Jim (d: 2020)
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John LeBlanc

October 23, 2021

My sincere condolences to all of Brian's family, especially Diane. Brian was my cousin's husband, and I did not know all these great accomplisments about him as we didn't see each other much... What an amazing impact! Especially all those hearts and children's lives he mentored.. also thank you for your meritorious service to our country and it's citizens...
Please excuse Lisa and I from the services, as we are out of state..
Our thoughts and prayers to all his family, and may Brian rest in peace..
John and Lisa LeBlanc

Art & Janet Steben

October 23, 2021

Diane, Please accept our sincere condolences for your loss of Brian. You will be in our prayers.

Lori Foote

October 22, 2021

My sincerest condolences Gillespie family! I will always remember his smile. You are in my prayers!

Carl & Deb Bagge

October 22, 2021

Dianne and Family - so sorry to hear of your loss - he was a good citizen, veteran, and family man!

Ana Langevin

October 22, 2021

My deepest sympathy to the Gillespie family. May he rest in peace with the lord and may his fond memories get you through this difficult time. Sending my thought, prayers and love. Ana

Christina Lamar (Wells)

October 22, 2021

Hello Dee Dee and family - I´m so sorry to hear of Brian´s passing. Love you and have you and your family in my thoughts. Love, Christina

Derry (Nunes) Maglieri

October 22, 2021

Diane and family, I am so sorry for your loss. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers. Big hugs.

Linda Fongemy Todd

October 21, 2021

So sorry to hear of Brian´s passing. He was so friendly and fun to around. He and my mom kept a tradition for YEARS comparing the wins and losses for Red Sox (her team) vs. Yankees (his team). Sending my love to Dianne and family - Linda

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Patricia Talbot

October 21, 2021

Dear Dianne, I am so sorry for your loss of Brian. Sending prayers to you and your family. Love, your cousin Pat.

Pete and Betsey Lepak

October 21, 2021

A kind, devoted friend to so many, always with a compliment and warm smile. Brian, rest, we´ll miss you and we´ll think of you often.

American Legion Post 59

October 21, 2021

Brian,
Thank you for your service to our nation and community, may God grant you your final reward in Heaven.

Howie and Sara Rosenbecker

October 21, 2021

Diane and Family, Sara and I send our deepest condolences. Will always remember Brian for his wonderful personality and great smile.

Rita Sharon Kwarcinski

October 21, 2021

Sorry to read of Brian's passing. It has been lot's of time since we have seen each other, we worked together at CE in the late 60's and he caught the garter at my wedding in 1970. May your family know he is at peace and watching over you. RIP Brian until we meet again.

Debbie Mlinek

October 21, 2021

My heart goes out to the three of you. Hold on to each other and the many happy memories to help you through this difficult time. Much love and many hugs. Deb

Kathy Inman Fox

October 20, 2021

I know how much you grieve for Brian, because I know how much you loved him., and I know how much you´ll miss him! I love the fact that the 3 of us were together when he proposed to you and gave you the ring! It´s funny, but feels special to me . I feel so much for Kelly and Bret, I know he was a wonderful father.

Aaron Jubrey

October 20, 2021

Will always have a spot in my heart for the whole Gillespie family. Brian left a positive and lasting impact on our community. Through the tears, I'm grateful he was a part of our lives. Keeping you all in our prayers.

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Neal Carpentieri

October 20, 2021

heart felt condolences for your loss.

Carmon Windsor Funeral Home

October 21, 2021

With deepest sympathy during this time of difficulty.

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Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

The Lodge Community Chapel

130 Deerfield Rd., Windsor, CT

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Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

St. Damien of Molokai Parish - St. Gabriel Church

379 Broad St., Windsor, CT

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807 Bloomfield Avenue, Windsor, CT 06095

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