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Nancy Benson obituary, 1942-2018, South Windsor, CT

BORN

1942

DIED

2018

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Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home

419 Buckland Road

South Windsor, Connecticut

Nancy Benson Obituary

Nancy (Hutchins) Benson, 75, of South Windsor, beloved wife of Robert Benson, died unexpectedly on Monday, May 21, 2018 at Hartford Hospital. Nancy was born on July 27, 1942 in Hartford, CT, daughter of the late Erwin A. and Edith (Miller) Hutchins. Nancy grew up in East Hartford and was a graduate of East Hartford High School with the Class of 1960. She was married to the love of her life on October 1, 1960 and together they settled in South Windsor. Nancy had a passion and an amazing talent for quilting. She made quilts for her children, grandchildren and friends for many years. She also donated quilts to the Neonatal ICU units at several area hospitals. A kind, caring, loving, and devoted wife, mother, sister, grandmother, and great grandmother, she will be dearly missed. Along with her husband Robert, of over 57 years, she leaves her daughters, Robin Fox and her husband Rick of W. Hartford, and Heather Emmette and her husband Todd of Windsor Locks; her sister, Betty Hoyt of Windsor Locks; her grandchildren, Megan Emmette, Nicole Corneau, Sarah Griswold, Lauren Corneau, Janis Emmette, and Joshua Griswold; and her great grandchildren, Anna, Wyatt, and Elaina. She was predeceased by her daughter, Dawn Marie Griswold. Her family will receive friends on Saturday, May 26, 2018, from 6-8 p.m., at the Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home, 419 Buckland Rd., South Windsor. A private memorial service will follow. Burial will be private at the request of her family. In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to the St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105. Please visit us at www.carmonfuneralhome.com for online condolences and guest book.

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Published by Hartford Courant on May 24, 2018.

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Bob Benson

September 23, 2025

well babe,
On my way to NEW Hampshire tomorrow can you believe I have going there since 1960 65 years and stll going back. wonder if I can retire and get another social security check.
Love you Bunkie

Bob

September 2, 2025

I was just remembering the snowball fight we had in New Hampshire. Life with you was so much fun. Kicking leaves, just laughing and being together, miss you so much

Heather

July 27, 2025

Mom,
Happy Birthday, I miss you terrible. We took Dad out yesterday to look for a new recliner. He did find one. We went to Texas Roadhouse for dinner. We had a good day. We are all wishing you were here. Enjoy your day with Dawn. I love you, know that I'm hugging and kissing you from down here until I see you again.

Love you
Heather

Heather

May 21, 2025

Mom, I can say that the years that have past, do not make me miss you any less than when you left us. I think of you daily, and miss your encouragement. I wish I could show you what I have done with my quilting. People say your mom would be so proud of you. I just sometimes wish I could see the joy on your face with what I have done. When I finish something and am so excited and can't wait to show you. I hold it up to you to see, and know that you are looking down and smiling. I miss you Mom, today and everyday. I love you.

Robin

May 11, 2025

I think of all that has changed...
so much of it has changed

But so much has remained the same...
like how the sun never fails to set, like how the moon never fails to rise,
like how the flowers never fail to bloom, like how the sky can still look so pretty.

But my love for you will never change, even when my heart is so sad and I'm missing you.

Happy Mother's Day, Mom

robert h benson

February 26, 2025

Making dinner for Heather and Robin, don"t know why but you have been on my mind all day today. God it's so damn lonely here without you. Miss you so much
I love you
me

Robin

January 10, 2025

Mom, there is so much you've missed and so much I wish I could be sharing with you. I miss and love you.

Bunky

December 11, 2024

Hu babe, another Christmas without you, miss your laugh miss you touching me . I have the house all decorated but it's still empty without you being here. Seven years seven Christmas's without you. Miss you terribly
Me

Robert Benson

August 24, 2024

Looks like the Labor Day picnic is the whole family will be here. 18 people, first time a long time. Know you will be here in spirit. You and Dawn. Love you
Me

Heather

July 27, 2024

Mom, you never failed to love me even when I was at my worst. You were my biggest source of encouragement and love in both good and difficult times. I am absolutely grateful to have had your love. Mom, I’m missing you on your birthday. Happy birthday in Heaven.
Love,
Heather

Bob Benson

July 22, 2024

Watched the full moon on Saturday, seems like I lost you yesterday but it's been a long 6 years. Boy I sure could use one of your hugs.
Me

robert benson

May 16, 2024

Hi babe can't believe it's been 6 years seems like yesterday, miss you everyday, think about you everyday.Re did the monument at the cemetery. looks pretty good it was winter worn.
Love you me

Heather Emmette

March 19, 2024

Thanks Mom I needed that this morning! I love you.

Heather Emmette

March 18, 2024

Mom went on a mini retreat Friday and Saturday. I finished 2 quilt tops, I wish you were here to see them. You don't realize that in an instant that everything can be taken from you, and you wish you could do thinks over again. I love you and miss you.

Heather

Heather

September 18, 2023

Mom enjoy your day with Dawn. Give her a hug and a kiss from me, and tell her I love her and Happy Birthday. Miss you very much! Love you Mom! Wish I could hug you and talk with you.

Heather

May 14, 2023

Happy Mother's Day! I love and miss you everyday. I put a quilt top together this weekend with some of your blocks and some of mine. It's a joint quilt I will always have.

I love you

Love,
Heather

Bunky

February 1, 2023

Happy unaniversary 65 years since I met you seems like it was just yesterday. Love you more today than I ever thought I could, more than all the stars in the sky

Me

Bob

November 23, 2022

Another Thanksgiving at Robin's house I will miss you, can't believe it's been 5 Thanksgiving days without you seems like just yesterday you were with me. I love you and miss you
Me

Lauren Corneau

August 29, 2022

Hi Grandma,

I have been thinking about you a lot today. I just wanted to say I love and miss you so much.

Bunky

August 26, 2022

Well labor day is coming up in a week going to be the last picnic of the year just hotdogs and hamburgers. Not going to be everyone things are getting smaller as our family getting older, getting married and just in relationships. Moving forward in their lives. Life goes on, I will be thinking about you
Love you
Me
.

Heather

July 27, 2022

Happy Birthday Mom, wish you could be with us tonight. I got a cake for you for dessert with Dad and Robin. I love you so much! I love you!

Bob Benson

June 26, 2022

Well july 4th is her pool is clean and I am during the 4th of July picnic. I will miss you and Dawn, Glenn is coming and Josh and Colton. Watch over us and don't let me over cook the ribs. Love you both, I'll be down to see you this week. Bunky

bob benson

May 9, 2022

thank you for helping me raise a beautiful family.
I miss you and love you
Bunky

Heather

May 8, 2022

Happy Mother's Day Mom! I love you and miss you terribly, but I know you are always with me. I just want to hug you and see you face and hear your voice.

robert h benson

April 24, 2022

Wow 25 years for Heather and Todd on Tuesday. Time goes by so slow and the years go by so fast. Maybe I'll give them a couple of bucks so that they will be able to go out to dinner.
love you Bunky

Bunky

December 17, 2021

Merry Christmas, just talked to Dawn l know you both will be among us on Christmas Eve but everyone who is here would love to give you both a great big hug. We love and miss you so much

Heather

July 27, 2021

Happy Birthday Mom, I love you!! Wish we were together to celebrate your birthday. You and Dawn celebrate together. Until see each other again, know that you are never out of my thoughts and heart.
Love you
Heather

Heather

May 21, 2021

Mom, I miss you so much. I had flowers sent to the retreat, saying wish we could be. I know you would want me to be here. I hope you are watching over us. I want to be able to hug you and talk to you, but until we are together I'll have to wait. Just know that I miss you everyday.

sarah

May 14, 2021

Love and miss you grandma

Bob

May 8, 2021

Happy mother's day thank you for being the mother of my children

Bob Benson

April 27, 2021

Hi babe
Another rock Angel put 6 new rocks on your wall today.
Love you
Me

Robin

April 7, 2021

If I had the chance to see one last time, I would ask you to hug me as tight as you can. I miss you.

Bob Benson

January 26, 2021

February 1st almost here, you have been a part of my life for 62 years. I will remember that Saturday afternoon for the rest of my life it was the day I fell in love with you

,

Bob Benson

December 12, 2020

Hi babe 13 days to Christmas I've got all of Christmas shopping done just baking cookies now. Really quiet around the house without you. I miss you every day

Bob Benson

October 1, 2020

Hey babe
Happy anniversary, I'm up here in New Hampshire I've got all of the ornaments bought for all the kids and for the two Christmas trees. I miss both you and Dawn, but I'm doing ok emotionally and health wise. Wish you were here with me
Bunky

Heather Emmette

July 27, 2020

Mom,
Happy Birthday!!! You have been gone now for 3 birthdays. I miss you so much. I know you and Dawn were with us all yesterday, when we celebrated Dad's birthday. We saw you on the feeder looking in on us. I'll give Dad a hug on his birthday for you and tell him how much you love him. I listen to a couple of your voice mails on my phone yesterday. It was good to here your voice. I love you and miss you so much. Keep watch on all of us until we can be together again.

Bunky

July 26, 2020

Happy birthday babe miss you very much. Had a great day today all of our kids and grandkids

May 21, 2020

I'm trying to keep busy day.
I love you and miss you so much.

Heather Emmette

May 10, 2020

Happy Mothers Day Mom. I love you and miss you so much everyday. Thank you for everything you have and do for all of us.

Papa

January 27, 2020

Good morning, babe
It's January 27th only 5 days to our unanniversary. 59 unanniversarys, seems like life time yet the first one feels like yesterday. I love to the moon and back.
Bunky

Heather Emmette

January 18, 2020

Taking Dad to Willington Pizza today, before the snow hits. I know you would have loved to come with us. I have been thinking about you a lot lately. I really wish you were hear. Would love to talk some things over with you. Please watch over us, keep a special watch over Anna.

Heather Emmette

December 14, 2019

Mom,
I know you with me when I was working on the binding for the baby quilt. It was great having you with me. I miss you so much. It has been hard for the lately. Love you!!

Bob

December 2, 2019

Getting so close to Christmas, miss you and Dawn so much I love you both

Bob Benson

September 24, 2019

Hi babe,
Getting ready for our anniversary on the 1st my suitcase is already packed. It's only sept 24, i'm coming up in the ragtop we can go out riding around and pick out Christmas ornaments for all of the kids. i'll need you there to help me pick out the right ones.
Love you
me

Bob Benson

July 22, 2019

I'll be down to talk to you and Dawn on Friday you both have been on my mind for about two weeks, miss you both so much. Me

Bob Benson

June 28, 2019

Thinking of you while I'm watching fireworks tonight

Bunkie Benson

June 27, 2019

Having the 4th of July picnic on the 6tth it's another party at our house. I know you will be with us. I hope that everyone knows that I have them because I love you. You are the love of my life and I can't wait to be with you again. Bunkie

Heather Emmette

May 4, 2019

Mom,

Today is the day, I love you, and miss you. I wish you could be here today. I know that you will be watching us from above today. Megan will be such a beautiful bride today, and will have a piece of you with her today. I will also be wearing your cross today, I'm sure you will be seeing me holding it a lot, wishing I was holding your hand.

Love,
Hrather

Heather

April 13, 2019

Mom,
It's so hard without you right now. So many many times I need to talk to you, or just hear your voice. Hear your encouragement.. Megan is getting married soon, I know you would have loved to see her walk down the center of the church. Please watch over all of us. I love you and miss you so much.

Love
Heather

Bunkie Benson

January 5, 2019

Watching your Texans babe don't look good for them but the game is not over maybe you have more pull than I do

December 25, 2018

Mom,
We missed you tonight. We had a good time, but definitely missed you. We all knew you were there in spirit, after Dad told us about the signs that you gave him over the past couple of days. I know that you were there watching over all of us. Love you Mom.
Love,
Heather

Bunkie

December 2, 2018

Hi Babe
All of the Christmas ornaments are wrapped and in a box I almost have Todd done need something for Wyatt and Alienna getting a pedicure for Anna soon I'll be able to relax and just think about you and Dawn and how much I will miss your presence with us for Christmas Eve. It will be very emotional for me I'll try to be strong for you but I don't know how I'll be with out you.
I miss you so much
Me

November 22, 2018

Mom,
Happy Thanksgiving, we missed you and Dawn today. It was hard this morning making rolls. I know It's Grammy's recipe,but I remember being young when she passed, and you helping me and giving me the confidence to make them. Thank you for all your support and love.

Love Heather

Bob Benson

November 19, 2018

Hi babe, I'm going to miss you and Dawn at the Thanksgiving table this year. It will be my first Thanksgiving with out you. It's going to be challenging. Be with me as I attempt to be strong. I love you me

November 18, 2018

Mom,

Someone else joined Nancy's Kindness Rocks today. There is now 60 members in your group. I know you can see the rocks that Dad is painting, they are beautiful, just like your heart and soul. Love you, and miss you everyday.

Heather

November 12, 2018

Hi, Mom, miss you and love you.

Heather Emmette

July 27, 2018

Mom,

Today is your birthday. I love you very much and miss you tremendously. Enjoy your convertible car ride today, and your time with Dad. I'm sure you and Dawn are celebrating your birthday. Until I see you again, know that a day doesn't go by without me missing you, and thinking of you. Happy Birthday, I Love you.

Heather

Patricia Carlson

May 26, 2018

I am very sorry for our loss,I go way back with Nancy, a little girl. She was a sweet heart. She was like family, including her parents. She was my sister in laws best friend . She also had a heart of gold. Paryers for the family , she will be missed.



Mark & Patty Crowley Carlson

Bill & Kim Kelly

May 25, 2018

So saddened to hear of Nancy's passing. She was a dear sweet lady and wonderful friend to the Kelly family for many years.

Mary Pippin

May 25, 2018

Sarah and Josh:

I was very sorry to hear of your grandmother's passing.

May you find peace in your memories.

Love You,
Mary

May 24, 2018

My Condolences To The Family;
I'm so sorry for your great loss. May all of the beautiful memories that you all shared with your loved one, bring you all some comfort when sadness sets in.

May 24, 2018

SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR DEAR NANCY. MAY GOD HEAL YOUR BROKEN HEARTS. PS. 147:3.

C.P.,LA.

Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home

May 24, 2018

Our sincere sympathies for your loss.

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