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tayve neese
December 6, 2007
Angela and Family,
May joy and comfort of memory carry you forward. Much strength and peace to you during this diffiuclt time.
The Neese Family
Kathleen Feltz (Williams)
November 27, 2007
Dear Barlow Family,
I was so saddened to learn of Pat's passing. I worked with Pat at CIGNA many years ago and was completely in awe of her. She was an incredible, intelligent, classy woman. I truly admired her! I know that God will draw you near during your time of sorrow and pray that in time, beautiful memories will help to heal your pain. God bless you all.
Kelley Carney
November 14, 2007
Angela and family,
I am deeply saddened by the news of your mother's passing. Gramma Pat was a beautiful woman with a contagious smile. She clearly loved her family, especially her sweet Olivia. May you find peace in this most difficult time.
Judy and David Borden
November 14, 2007
Dear Ed: We were so sorry to learn of Patricia's passing. Please know that you are in our thoughts and have our deepest sympathies in this time of sorrow.
Jacqui Anderson
November 13, 2007
My Dear Friend Eddie, I was so sorry to hear that you lost your soul mate Pat. My heart and prayers are with you and the family. My long time love of you as a brother is deepened knowing your sorrow and pain. God Bless you and keep you in this ordeal. Love you.
Jacqui
Rosemary Jackson
November 12, 2007
Dear Eddie,
I was most saddened to hear of the loss of your dear wife, Pat. Rudene and Charlie called me and I was so stunned.
Please know that you are in my thoughts and in my heart. Rudene and Charlie always spoke lovingly of your dear wife. I felt as if I knew her too.
Much Love,
Rosemary Jackson
(Rudene Barlow's sister)
(Charlie Barlow's sister-in-law
Michelle Hodge
November 12, 2007
Just want to let you know that the Hodge/Benford family love you very much and it was good to see all of you again. Continue to love each other and be there or each other and pray for one another. We will be doing the same here in Cincinnati. Love always,
Michelle
Joe
Mykal
Mathue
Marea Hodge Benford
Corey Benford
Kymberlei Benford
Koreynne Benford
Kamylle Benford
Earle and Pat Jackson
November 12, 2007
our prayers are with you in your time of loss. God bless the family
Penny Patton Willingham
November 11, 2007
To the Barlow and Lowe family. My heart grieve with you in the loss of your loved one. I pray God will keep you during your time of need. God Bless you all.
Steve Campanella
November 11, 2007
I would just like to express my regrets to the family and friends of Mrs. Barlow. I had the absolute pleasure of working with Mr. and Mrs. Barlow during my time at the South Park Inn. She was truly a special woman and a blessing. May God help you through these times of trouble and pain.
Shirley Thompson
November 11, 2007
My thougths and prayers are with you and your family.God will bring you through all trials and tribulations.
Cureene Blake
November 11, 2007
Thanks for being a tremendous blessing to us and for allowing us to share in your dreams and legacy.
The Blake Family
Adrian Martin-Davis SYCAH -student
Shantel Bremmer - SYCAH
Joyanne Christian
November 11, 2007
My heart goes out to you all, Ed, Angel, Todd, Mrs. Lowe, and Lovie. I first met Pat when I came to Walnut Hills as a 9th grader from Birmingham, Alabama. She became a very dear friend who helped make me feel welcome. She spent Thanksgiving with my family in Nashville when I was at Fisk University. My grandmother truly loved her and welcomed her as one of the family(she didn't do that for everyone). My son Johnathan and todd were babies together and we became even closer during that time. Her beautiful smile and loving ways will stay with me forever. May God be with you as go through these trying times.
Lovie please contact me.
Joyanne Page Christian
annette McGarrah Lawing
November 10, 2007
Ed, my condolences for your loss. My regards, Annette
James Anderson
November 10, 2007
Mrs. Lowe, My deepest sympathy, I am truly sorrow for your lost. I remember Pat as a skinny little girl, with a pony tail running around Revelation Baptist Church and when she arrived at Walnut Hills High School.
Billie & Sonny Duval
November 10, 2007
Eddie & Family, please accept our concolances at this tme of the loss of your wife, mom and Nana. May God bless all of you.
Ann Jennings
November 10, 2007
Dear Ed and Family:
I was so very sorry to hear of Pat's passing. Pat will be remembered as a woman of grace and dignity. May God grant you His strength in the days to come.
Ingrid Collins
November 10, 2007
Ed and Family - Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Pat was indeed a real gem with a sense of humanity, grace and style that touched everyone who interacted with her. God Bless.
Pat Sullivan
November 10, 2007
Dear Ed,
I was stunned and truly saddened upon hearing of the loss of your beloved. In this sincere expression of sympathy, may you find a measure of comfort and solace. You and your family will remain in our prayers.
Africka & Kelvin Ayala
November 10, 2007
Dearest Barlow and Strother Families:
The spirit and memories of Pat fills a room with peace and joy. It was a pleasure to work with her on many different levels. She epitomizes Ralph Waldo Emerson's definition of "Success". May God bless and comfort you now and always.
Ann Marie Poncet
November 10, 2007
Thinking of you all at this time and offering up my prayers for Pat, today especially. Angelica, I love you and will be with you in spirit. Love you. Ann Marie (Paris)
Elaine Patton Walker
November 9, 2007
Ed, Angel,Todd,Mrs Lowe, Lovie and all who loved and cherished Pat, My deepest sympathy. Pat and I met in 3rd grade and were friends and classmates through highschool, college and beyond. We were young wives, mothers and business women together. In highschool we started a sorority,and in college,(Well that is probably best left unsaid:) Selfishly, I thought she would always be here and of course, she is. Pat lives in the memories we each cherish, in her unforgetable sinature smile, her children and granchildren, her body of professional work, but most importantly she lives in the lives she touched that otherwise may never have felt the love of GOD through human touch.
Sleep n his arms my sweet, sweet sister.
Susan Redman
November 9, 2007
To Angela and your family,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Amanda & Albert Aughenbaugh
November 9, 2007
Todd,
We are so sorry for the loss of your mother. PLease let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.
Don + Kim Cyr
November 9, 2007
Todd and Family,
Sorry about your loss. Your Mom was always so pleasant and supportive. She will be missed.
The Cyr Family
David and Kathleen Gadoury
November 9, 2007
Todd,
We are very sorry for your loss, may God be with you in this difficult time.
Stephanie Edwards
November 9, 2007
From the Edwards family in Cincinnati, Ohio, our prayers are always with you.
Love you
Fraces Long and Stephanie Edwards
Joan Allen & Broaden Family
November 9, 2007
Eddie & Family
We were sadden to hear of your loss. May the peace of the Lord keep you in your time of sorrow.
Kim Walton( Whitehead)
November 9, 2007
To the Barlow family you have our deepest sympathy of your loss. May God continue to bless you in this time of need.
Love George & Marlene Whitehead and children
Althea Monts
November 8, 2007
Cousin Ed sorry for your loss we love you and will keep you and the family in our prayers Monts barlow family
Tammy Dory
November 8, 2007
Todd,
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine the pain you are feeling right now. My heart goes out to you and your entire family. May God give you all the strength you need to get through such a terrible loss.
Love,
Tammy Dory
Lana & Joanne (Shady Glen Manchester Parkade)
November 8, 2007
Mr Barlow & Family,
We are sorry to hear of your loss,we always enjoyed your visits to Shady Glen. With deepest sympathy.
George Bolduc
November 8, 2007
Ed and Family,
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Some of our loved ones are called home too early. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Bill Salvatore
November 8, 2007
Close to 30 years ago and for the next several years, I had the privilege of working with Pat at Connecticut General and then CIGNA on the same team. To date, it is still one of the best teams that I have ever worked with due in no small part to Pat. She was one of the most gracious, generous and classy people that I have ever met. Luckily, my wife, Jan and I ran into her and Ed this past April at the Atlanta airport and gave her a big hug and greeting. Her infectious smile had not diminished after all these years. Unfortunately, it was our last greeting. She was one of the "good ones" and truly will be missed. Our hearfelt thoughts and prayers go out to Ed and her family. Peace be with you, Pat.
Rev Brian Bryant
November 8, 2007
To Ed Barlow and Family
My heart felt sorrow goes out to your Family.
For we know that if our earthly house of this tabernacle were dissolved, we have a building of God, a house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens.
Abby Santa
November 8, 2007
Dear Dana,
I just met you not too long ago. Sorry to hear about your love one. Our hearts go out to you and family at this difficult time.
Abby Santa & Samuel Cephas (MC2 n' NETS)
Annette Hardrick Jernigan and Family
November 8, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Elaine Mobley
November 8, 2007
Dear Ed and Family, I was sorry to hear of your loss. May God bless all of you at this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Barb & John Swedock Jr
November 8, 2007
Mr. Barlow & Family
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. We are thinking of you & keeping you & your entire family in our prayers.
Sincerely, The Swedock family
November 8, 2007
TO Ed Barlow and Family,
We are sending our deepest sympathy, in the loss of your beloved wife Pat. She has made it home; for Jesus told the World that His Father has many mansions; if it were not true he would have told us so. Pat has arrived to her mansion. Knowing her and the fond memories of the days working at CIGNA will always be with us. God is so AWESOME! without flaws or error, know that during your time of bereavement he has no problem in carrying you. May he bring you peace and comfort. God Bless you all.
Sharon & Anthony Jenkins
Laurence J. Thompson
November 8, 2007
Dear Ed and Family,
We were so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved wife.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
May your memories embrace you!
With sympathy,
Larry & Linda Thompson
Chuck Knight
November 8, 2007
Our heartfelt sympathy to the entire Barlow Family during your time of lost. I've known Pat and Ed for over 20 years. She was a true mentor to me during my tenure at CIGNA. Her warmth an pleasant nature was truly genuine. She will be truly missed.
Sincerely
Chuck Knight & Family
Ron Brown
November 8, 2007
To all of Pat's family: I was one of the fortunate ones at CIGNA to have worked very closely with Pat for many years. She was one of the finest most caring people I ever met. When she spoke of the times she would go back to Ohio and sing with her sisters, we would laugh and her smile would light up the room. This world has lost someone very special. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Thomas and Laura Watson
November 7, 2007
Dear Ed,
Please accept our heart felt sympathy and sorrrow upon learning of Patricia's death. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Tom and laura
Maree Rogers
November 7, 2007
Ed and Family,
Please know my caring thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow. Some people come into our lives and we are changed forever. Pat was that person. Her kindness, warmth,elegance and generosity always made holiday's at your home very special.I will cherish those memories forever. Pat walks in beauty with God.
Maree Rogers (Hartford,CT)
Ben & Mickey Morgan
November 7, 2007
Dear Eddie & family,
We were deeply sadden to hear of Pat's passing. It was only a few weeks ago that we spent time together. We will always cherish those moments and the pictures we took. May the fond memories that you had together bring you some comfort during this time of deep sorrow and sadness. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. We send our hearfelt love and sympathy.
Karen Barnaby
November 7, 2007
Ed and family
I am so sorry to learn of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Karen Barnaby
Edward, Meryth, Tre' and Christopher Williams
November 7, 2007
Ed, we are so sorry for your loss. Pat was a wonderful woman with an beautiful infectious smile. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this very difficult time.
Mary Ross
November 7, 2007
Ed and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Pat was an awesome person, and it has been my pleasure to know you both. May she find peace in God's hands.
Brenda and Percy Christian
November 7, 2007
Ed and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. May you know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. And, always remember that earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal. May Jesus hold you in the palm of His hand and bless your family always. If there is anything we can do, please do not hesitate to let us know.
Carl & Lorrie Rankin
November 7, 2007
Dear Ed and family - please know that our thoughts are with you and your family and that you are in our hearts and our prayers. We are leaving for Florida tomorrow and will be unable to attend the celebration of Pat's life. Although we will not be there with you in body we WILL be in spirit.
Yvette Thompson
November 7, 2007
To the Barlow Family:
May God give all of you peace during this difficult time. Pat was one of my former bosses at CIGNA. She was a very kind, considerate and loving person. I will never forget her beautiful smile that always lit up the room. She is now at her final resting place as God knew best. I pray that God will give all of you strength during this difficult. Pat will truly be missed. God bless you all and may heaven shine upon you.
Yvette Thompson
Charles Robinson
November 7, 2007
To:Eddie Barlow Jr;
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy in your time of great sorrow.My thoughts and prayers are with you
Karen Spivey-Dortche
November 7, 2007
Dear Mr. Barlow, Cinque, Tracey, Marghru,
Words can not express how sorry I am for your loss. If there is anything I can do for you please call me. I am here for you.
Love,
Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home
November 7, 2007
Our sincere sympathies for your loss.
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