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Patricia Hayes Obituary

HAYES, Patricia (Quish) "Pat" Patricia "Pat" (Quish) Hayes, 68, of West Hartford, beloved wife of John F. Hayes, died unexpectedly Sunday (June 22, 2008), at St. Francis Hospital and Medical Center, Hartford. She was born and raised in Hartford, daughter of the late William and Patricia (Poirot) Quish. Pat was a graduate of Mount Saint Joseph Academy and attended Saint Joseph College, West Hartford where she was awarded her Masters Degree. In her earlier years, she had various forms of employment, but her true love was her family and her Church. Pat had been communicant of the Church of Saint Brigid, West Hartford and was very active in the Ladies Guild of the Parish, presently serving as First Vice President, and was a former member of the Parish Council. She was also Past President of the Home School Association, was a Girl Scout leader at St. Brigid and was a youth advisor for the St. Brigid CYO. Pat was very proud of her activities with St. Joseph College and was a member of St. Joseph's College Alumnae Council. Besides her husband, John, Pat is survived by her son and daughter-in-law, Sean W. and Michelle Hayes of Toronto, Canada; two daughters and sons-in-law, Colleen H. and Kevin J,. Pedagast of Shelton and Erin L. and Larry Hermann of East Haddam and eight grandchildren, Raymond and Kelsey Pedagast, Benjamin and Aric Hayes and Lindsey and Kyle Hermann. She was predeceased by two granddaughters, Nora Grace and Naomi Rose Hayes. Calling hours will be Wednesday from 4-8 p.m. at Sheehan-Hilborn-Breen Funeral Home, 1084 New Britain Ave., West Hartford. The funeral procession will be Thursday at 10:15 a.m. from the Funeral Home followed by a Mass of Christian Burial, celebrated at 11 a.m. at The Church of Saint Brigid. Interment will be at Fairview Cemetery, West Hartford. In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Pat may be made to St. Joseph College, 1678 Asylum Ave., West Hartford, CT 06117.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jun. 24, 2008.

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Maria Figueredo

July 6, 2008

John I am so sadden by the news of Pat's passing. She was a great lady and the reason I joined St Joseph's College Graduate and Prime time committee. Pat was a formidable woman. I will miss her way of making other feel welcome and accepted. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Cheryl Oddi-Smith

June 26, 2008

John, Collen, Sean and Erin: I was very shocked and saddened when my father called to tell me "Auntie Pat" had died. I can still remember her voice and laugh. I have very fond and special memories of Auntie Pat and all of our times together with our families over the years, especially the beach. My sincere condolences to you. She will be greatly missed.

Nancy Scully Bannon

June 26, 2008

I was so saddened to hear about your loss. I will always remember Mrs. Hayes with great fondness. She was a woman who brought great joy to all who knew her.

Linda McGowan-Parsons

June 25, 2008

Sean, Michelle and families
My deepest sympathies to you in this time of loss. As our lives are defined in so many ways by our Mothers, this loss is especially painful. May you be comforted in knowing that she is at peace and that she has left a wonderful legacy in you, her children.

Domenica Michela

June 25, 2008

Dearest Sean and Michelle and Hayes Family,
Your colleagues at St Thomas of Villanova are deeply saddened by the unexpected calling of your beloved mother, Patricia, from her earthly journey. You were especially in our hearts as we began our Commencement Exercises yesterday as a faithful community joined in prayer for your beloved mother and for you and your families. May God comfort you at this time, may you be surrounded by family and friends that love you, and may your faith continue to sustain you always, in the hope of eternal life in paradise with your mother, Patricia, and your daughters, Naomi and Nora. In loving friendship, Domenica Michela.

kayla and lorene swarni

June 24, 2008

We know what emotional couple of weeks these have been . You are in our hearts and prayers and know how much you are loved. We are so sorry for your loss.

Joe and Linda Pouech

June 24, 2008

We are so sorry for your untimely loss. Please accept our sincerest sympathy.

Julie Gustafson

June 24, 2008

Dear Erin,
I am very sorry about the loss of your mother. I remember her from our SBS days as a very warm, caring and fun mother. I will keep you and your family in my prayers during this difficult time.
Warmest Regards,
Julie Gustafson Sampson

Dolly and Nunzio Chelli

June 24, 2008

Dear John and family,

We will all miss Pat and her generous ways. She never said 'no' to any Guild event and ran a great Cafe Brigid at the bazaar. She will be truly missed by us all. We will keep you all in our prayers.

Mark Benedict

June 24, 2008

Mrs. Hayes was large part of Jeanne's life, an inspiration and a friend, as she was to myself. A truly wonderful person who will be sorely missed. Her legacy is her wonderful family. Our sincerest sympathies to John, Colleen, Sean, Erin and their families.

Michelle and Albert Janzen

June 24, 2008

We will miss our yearly visits with Mrs. Hayes when she came to Canada with Mr. Hayes. God's peace to her family at this sorrowful time.

Susan (Oddi) & Walter Wasik

June 24, 2008

Our sincere and heartfelt condolences to John and the Hayes family. Pat was a great lady and will be missed by many.

Nikki Hermann

June 24, 2008

Auntie Erin, Uncle Larry, Lindsey and Kyle,

I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Mrs. Hayes as a very generous and loving person. I know that she will be deeply missed by myself and all the Hermann families. Please let me know if there is anything I can do. Love you lots!

Nikki

Loretta Strang (Shages)

June 24, 2008

I am sorry for your loss. Pat was a
large part of my life for many years -
growing up in the house backing to
my family's house in Hartford. She
was great fun and she, my sister
Linda and I spent many hours together playing. Truly a very special person.

joe,laura (J&L Landscaping)

June 24, 2008

We are very sorry for your loss

Eileen Kennedy

June 24, 2008

I'll always remember our fearless Girl Scout leader as healthy, well and happy with that great big laugh! She will be dearly missed.

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