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Paul Grogan Obituary

"Coach" Grogan passed away peacefully on June 8, at his home in his beloved town of Glastonbury. He had his loving family by his side as he walked off the court for the last time. "Coach" taught physical education at Glastonbury High School for 37 years, and he coached just about every sport during that time. He was known for his rapport with students, and his patience, understanding, and empathy for everyone. He leaves behind the love of his life and wife of 62 years, Carol Bletzer Grogan, his children, Lisa Shaw (and husband Lee), Paul Grogan Jr (and wife Kim), Jeff Grogan (and wife Lynn), Kelly Clarke (and husband Dave), 10 grandchildren (Jeremy, Spencer, Caleb, Kasey, Cara, Michael, Maire, Aine, Bridget, Kevin, great grandson Owen), and hundreds of former students whom he guided through their high school journeys. To drive through town or go to the store with him was like being with a rock star. Former students and friends would just beam when they saw him, and everyone had a story of an experience with him that they fondly shared while reminiscing of good times at GHS. It seems every kid dreamed of beating him and his great friend Coach Mehler at badminton, but no one ever did. Coach was born on December 20, 1932, in Worcester, Massachusetts. He graduated from Worcester Academy, where he gained a scholarship to play basketball. He was a standout baller. He went on to play basketball for Springfield College on an athletic scholarship. Upon gaining his teaching degree he got his first and only teaching job in Glastonbury. For him, getting out of the city and living in Glastonbury was a huge achievement. Shortly after, he met Carol Bletzer, who was a recent graduate of GHS. Carol scoped out the hot new teacher, pretended to be a newspaper reporter, and "interviewed" him for a fake article. Not much later, they were married. The rest is history. They were a strong partnership for 62 years! While teaching at Glastonbury, Grogan played semi-pro basketball for the East Hartford Explorers. He earned $5 a game playing in gymnasiums up and down the country with and against players such as the great Bob Cousy, who went on to star in the ABA and NBA, and against the world famous Harlem Globetrotters. He was a white player who was proud to play on an integrated team. For his career on the court and behavior off it, Grogan was enshrined in the Explorers Hall of Fame in 1991. Coach Grogan enjoyed spending time in the northern woods of Vermont and New Hampshire and relaxing at his "camp" in the Berkshires of Massachusetts. He loved taking his family for evening drives to stop at the country store for a hunk of cheddar cheese and penny candy, then look for wildlife in the fields and forests along the roadside. He instilled his love for nature and the outdoors in all of his children and grandchildren. While he enjoyed these excursions, his love for Glastonbury was primary, and these trips usually ended abruptly so he could return to the place he loved so much and be with the people he loved in his community. A celebration of his life will take place at the Glastonbury Elks Club, Friday, June 18, from 5:00-9:00 PM. A toast will take place at 6:00. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Cancer Society, or to the Connecticut Chapter of the Alzheimer's Foundation, in honor of his beloved wife. For online condolences, please visit www.mulryanfh.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jun. 13, 2021.

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john zesut

June 12, 2023

A great man and soul

Marlene

June 20, 2021

My condolences to the Grogan family, it was an honor to have met Coach Grogan during my years in High School 1979-1982. I will always remember his smile and positive words of wisdom. What a great man!

David Burke

June 15, 2021

My condolences to the Grogan family , I am writing on behalf of my late father , Norman Burke , a longtime teammate on the East Hartford Explorer Basketball Team. My Dad passed in 2007, but I have fond memories of the semi-pro team and the stories he would tell me of the opponents and his teammates. They are both probably shooting hoops now as they are reunited on another “team”
RIP Paul & Norm

Dale Ethier

June 15, 2021

My condolences to the Grogan family. Coach Grogan was one of the nicest and inspiring people I have ever met. His positive energy in the community will never be forgotten. I will never forget his words of encouragement and kindness. He would always tell me "work hard at whatever you do, and you will succeed." I took that advice with me through life, and he wasn't wrong. Coach Grogan will be dearly missed by myself and many others. My prayers are with the Grogan family during this time.

Elizabeth Morgan

June 15, 2021

He was a great man and always had your back. And he sure was good at badminton. I loved it when he would join in.

David Lynch, Jr.

June 14, 2021

Condolences to the Grogan family from one of the thousands of students who had the good fortune of calling him “coach.” An incredibly kind man I’ll always remember with great fondness. RIP

Ruth Henry

June 14, 2021

The world would be a much better place if more could have learned about life from Coach. Here are just a few of the lessons I learned: Be kind. Do your best. Love what you do. Listen. Laugh. Smile often. Don't give up! Thank you to the entire Grogan family for sharing him with all of us who were fortunate to live and learn in Glastonbury. Sending lots of love to you all from Vermont.

Renee Todaro

June 14, 2021

Coach Grogan was the best . I am so sorry for your loss. Grogan you are loved by so so many. We will miss you so much. Rest in Peace.

John P Zesut

June 14, 2021

great coach and gym teacher he was so personable will be missed by many

Michael-Ann (Kelly) Cerniglia

June 13, 2021

Condolences. Coach Grogan was well-loved and remembered fondly. My favorite memory was when he had us all out walking the neighborhood and the security guard picked up the whole class and brought us back early — crashing what was probably his only quiet moment of the day!

Reed Goodale 1960

June 13, 2021

Thanks coach for great memories.

David Goodale

June 13, 2021

Thanks coach for great memories.

katie (Raftery) Guilmette

June 13, 2021

The Aisles of Shoprite will not be the same when I go in as I really looked forward to seeing him shopping, especially when I worked there!! He was a very special man!!

Rob Larose

June 13, 2021

Coach Grogan was a big part of my life growing up in Glastonbury and he always gave me many talks of encouragement and also advice as to how to deal with what life throws your way. He was a very good man.

Bob Breen

June 13, 2021

Paul was a rare and special person. He is now in the Hall of Fame.

Paul berloni

June 13, 2021

From 1976 to 1980 when I graduated ghs coach grogan was the bomb the sweetest passionate guy but also he taught you what you had to do

Mike Bisi

June 13, 2021

Such great memories of such a great man - can't imagine the number of students he mentored thru his career at GHS! - thoughts and prayers to the family - will miss you Coach

Janet Dexter Moberg

June 13, 2021

Deepest condolences to everyone. Coach Grogan made a difference in my life. How beautiful a thing it is to join hundreds of others who can say that! His legacy is shining in all of your lives, in our lives. What a gift! May the God of all comfort bless you in peace.

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