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Paul Meyer Obituary

Paul Eugene Meyer, 87, of Westerly, RI passed away peacefully at home on Thursday, October 1, 2020 after a long illness. He was the beloved husband of Joan Redden Meyer. Paul and Joan raised five boys in Vernon, Connecticut, happily spending summers in Westerly. In addition to his wife Joan, he is survived by his sons and daughters-in-law Thomas and Wendy Meyer of Old Lyme, CT; Kevin and Julie Meyer of Simsbury, CT; Christopher and Katherine Meyer of Tolland, CT; Jim and Leah Meyer of Middletown, CT; and Peter and Ann Meyer of Shrewsbury, MA. He also leaves behind 13 grandchildren: Jay Meyer (and his wife Caitlin), Annie Wadsworth (and her husband Blake), Ted, Jackie, and Ellen Meyer; Katia, Julia, and Laura Meyer; Veronica and Eric Meyer; William, Joseph, and Rebecca Meyer; his great-granddaughter Lydia Joan Wadsworth; and numerous nieces and nephews. Paul also leaves his four siblings: Joan Shea of Pawcatuck (and her husband Charles Shea); Barbara Pierce of Bradford (and her husband Martin Pierce); Peter Meyer of Westerly (and his wife Dorinne Meyer); and Dr. Kathleen Meyer of Westerly and West Springfield, MA. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11am on Wednesday, October 7 at St. Clare Church, 4 Saint Clare Way, Westerly, RI. The burial is private. Due to COVID-19 gathering restrictions, there are no visiting hours. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Paul's memory to The Westerly Land Trust, P.O. Box 601, Westerly, RI 02891 or St. Clare Church. Gaffney-Dolan Funeral Home, 59 Spruce St., Westerly is in care of the arrangements. For online condolences please visit www.gaffneydolanfuneralhome.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on Oct. 4, 2020.

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Leo Mainelli

October 14, 2020

Paul was a great engineer and compassionate person,,,who was my first supervisor when I started employment as a test engineer at Pratt. We had many good conversations that helped me get started on the right foot. The story I have to tell is one night when I was assigned second shift.
At the end of the shift ther was a JT3D test going on, that was going to be shut down for lack of engineer coverage. I said I would stay over to 3 rd shift to finish the test.
In my move to get ready for that, i parked m;y car in the Superintends parking spot at the front door of the building, with the intention to move it later.
Well, I got rapped up in the test and when the Super came in at 7pm, found a car in his spot, he his car right behind mine to block it in. When I got there about 8am I knew I was in deep yogurt, so I went to Paul and told him the story. He went to the Super and explained the situation and then told me the Super wanted to see me. I went to his office expecting to be fired. The Super talked to me like an old uncle , and I said it would never happen again , and he said he under stood the situation.
I am sure it was only because Paul explained it in the right way to him. Thanks Paul, you helped set my career on a good trajectory.

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