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Richard D. Haviland Esq

1960 - 2013

Richard D. Haviland Esq obituary, 1960-2013, Old Lyme, CT

BORN

1960

DIED

2013

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Byles Memorial Home - New London

99 Huntington St

New London, Connecticut

Richard Haviland Obituary



Richard D. Haviland, Esq., born January 28, 1960, died December 27, 2013, after a courageous battle with cancer. Son of James T. Haviland II and Barbara J. Haviland, Richard is survived by his mother, as well as his siblings and their spouses; James T. Haviland III, Mary Lyndon Haviland and Thomas M. Neff, Elizabeth H. Padgett and David A. Padgett, and Anne H. Littlefield and Prescott T. Littlefield. Richard was a beloved uncle to five nephews, Matthew T. Littlefield, Peter H. Littlefield, Nathanael R. Padgett, Owen D. Padgett and Colin C. Padgett ("Pipper"). He was well loved by his cousins, his best friend Andrea Lombard of Windsor, CT., and many other colleagues, friends and family. Richard graduated from St. Bernard High School in Uncasville, CT in 1977. He received a B.S. from the University of New Hampshire in chemical engineering in 1982. He went on to obtain a J.D. in 1988 from the Western New England College of Law in Springfield, MA. Rich practiced law in New London until his illness made it impossible for him to continue. For a period of time, he proudly practiced law with his father, the late James T. Haviland II. Rich volunteered his time for community interests; serving at various times on the Groton City Council, the Town of Groton Representative Town Committee, the Town of Groton Board of Assessment Appeals, and the Town of Groton Zoning Commission. At Christmas, he was frequently seen dressed as Santa, ringing the bell for charity. He was also a member of the Social Society Froshinn in Mystic. Rich loved both sailing and hiking. An active participant in the Mystic River Mudheads Sailing Association and Eastern Connecticut Sailing Association, he raced locally on various boats throughout the years, most recently with his family on Zig Zag Zoom. Rich fell in love with the mountains as a college student and served as President of the University of New Hampshire Outing Club. An avid hiker, in 2004, Rich realized a lifelong dream by completing the Appalachian Trail. He also climbed the 100 highest mountains in New England. In the Appalachian Trail Community, his trail name was "Bearbait" due to an infamous encounter with a bear in Virginia. He was active in the conservation community, belonging to the Connecticut Forest and Park Association, the Appalachian Mountain Club, The Appalachian Trail Conservancy and the Nature Conservancy. Rich will be remembered as a dedicated son, devoted brother, loving uncle and loyal friend. He will be sorely missed. Calling hours will be at the Byles Memorial Home, 99 Huntington Street, New London on December 30th from 5-7 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at Saint Mary Mother of the Redeemer, 69 Groton Long Point Road, Groton, CT. at 1:00 p.m. December 31st. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Connecticut Chapter of the Nature Conservancy, 55 Church Street, Floor 3, New Haven, Connecticut. Please visit www.byles.com for directions, to sign the guest book or share a memory.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Dec. 29, 2013.

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gina debona/carter

February 20, 2015

I think of richard when I pass his office.he helped me with my divorce.

December 31, 2013

Please accept my sincerest condolences. May God and your fond
memories give you and your family comfort and peace during this difficult time.
Ms Porter

Kate & Kevin Brown

December 30, 2013

To all the Haviland clan...My friends, Even though it may have been expected its still never easy. May he rest in peace.
I found out of your loss just a little too late to make calling hours. I will see you all tomorrow. Our deepest sympathy and prayers will go out to you all tonight and especially to Mom H. I have such fond memories of growing up with your family. Love,

Mariellen French

December 30, 2013

I served on the Groton Zoning Commission with Rich, and found him knowledgeable and balanced in his commission duties. I believe the members of the commission miss him.

Brenda Black

December 30, 2013

Rich was a dear friend. Although, often chilled, (he kept the heat in the office very low) I enjoyed every minute working with him during these past 5+ years. I'll always have a special place in my heart and miss you dearly my beautiful part polar bear friend.

December 29, 2013

Too young. He always had a smile. He was proud to practise with his Dad. Was ready with a friendly hello With respect Martin Rutchik

David Deckler

December 29, 2013

To The Entire Haviland Family Rich represented me at 1 time did a good job and was a very funny guy! Some Dry Humor but a Good guy & Lawyer!Take it 1 Day @ A Time!!

Dan Horgan

December 29, 2013

An extremely intelligent and dedicated colleague, who always had sage advice to go along with his light hearted stories of his adventures on the water and on land/hills. He will be sorely missed.

December 29, 2013

Dearest Barbara,
No parent should ever lose a child, especially one as loving and devoted as Richard. He was a good friend a loving son and he thought of you every minute of every day. Our prayers, condolences and sympathy are with you. If there is anything you need please let us know.

Shaun and Myriam

maryellen shuckerow

December 29, 2013

Andrea so sorry to hear of the loss of your best friend Richard. Maryellen shuckerow

gina debona/carter

December 29, 2013

rich was my divorce lawyer. he was a very nice amn and he will be missed!

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Dec

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Mass of Christian Burial

1:00 p.m.

Saint Mary Mother of the Redeemer

69 Groton Long Point Road, Groton, CT

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