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SCHEIDE, Richard G.
Richard Gilson "Dick" Scheide of Nantucket died February 18, 2013 in Norwell, MA after a long illness. He was 83. Dick graduated from Westminster School in Simsbury, and the University of Virginia. He was commissioned upon graduation as a Second Lieutenant in the United States Marine Corps, where he served in Japan and Korea. He separated from the Corps with the rank of Captain. He was involved in many educational organizations, primarily as a Trustee, including: Wheaton College in Norton, MA; the American College of Greece in Athens, Greece; Westminster School and Watkins School, both in Connecticut. Some other activities included: Board Member of the Friends of the Public Garden in Boston; The Dover Church in Dover, MA; The Dedham Country and Polo Club in Dedham, MA; and numerous other organizations and charities. An avid outdoorsman, Dick enjoyed many activities including hunting, fishing, boating, horseback riding, dog showing, and camping. His dogs meant the world to him and he instilled his love for the outdoors and animals in his children, who continue to enjoy many of the things he exposed them to as children. He is survived by his wife Geraldine "Gerry" (Pierre) Scheide and his sons William of York, PA; Robert and his wife, Sarah of Nantucket, MA; and daughter, Susan of Canton, MA. He leaves three grandsons, Philip, Charlie, and Sam. He is predeceased by his parents, Philip and Virginia Scheide, his stepmother, Elizabeth Harris Scheide as well as his brothers, Philip and Jack Scheide. He also leaves several nephews and nieces.
A Graveside Service will be held on Thursday, February 21, 2013 at 11:30 a.m. in Fairview Cemetery, West Hartford. Those wishing to do so may make a gift in his name to The Alzheimer's Foundation of America. For an online guestbook, please visit www.mcnamara-sparrell.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Feb. 20, 2013.

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February 19, 2014

In our thoughts. Thank you for raising such a wonderful son, I know he gets his kind heart and gentle ways from you. Glad I got to know you when I did. Rest peacefully in Gods glory.

February 18, 2014

Hi Dad- it's Bill,
It has been a year now since you passed away; hard to believe.
Ironically, a TV show was on tonight about a man that was in "a home" and he had magical powers. The person visiting him has known him for a long time. The visited person also looked similar to you, in some ways, at one time. Got me thinking about the "magical powers" you eminated when you were around most anyone. You were usually positive when all around may have been negative. Offered your expertise and knowledge, ideas when asked. Gave my sons your utmost attention always.
You taught me right and wrong and ethics. Most of all, most of all- you showed me how to be a good father to one's/my children. For that I will forever grateful!
You were a great husband with Mom too. Know she misses you, also relieses you are peace with pups.
Between the both of you, raised 3 good kids.
Good night Dad, Always in my thoughts.
Love Bill

Susan Scheide

February 28, 2013

Thank you, Dad, for never once telling me there was anything I couldn't do because I was a girl. Thank you for letting me play with dolls AND tools. Thank you for teaching me to love animals. Thank you for loving me for who I am. Semper Fidelis Dad. I will miss you.

Dad and Jack, Dover, Mass circa 1977

February 26, 2013

Dave Officer

February 22, 2013

Dick was a great teacher and a great mentor. I was fortunate enough to work for him when I got my first management job. Due to his guidance and model, I didn't crash and burn. Thank you Dick

Jimmy Scheide

February 22, 2013

I have so many memories of my family with Uncle Dick, Aunt Gerry, Bill, Rob & Susan! I'm blessed to have spent time with them. It's been a few years since we've all reunited...the love I felt yesterday was & is stronger than ever! Dick was an amazing person....kind, gentle, generous, honest, loving & real! Seeing Gerry, my 3 cousins, & meeting Bills' sons yesterday put a permanent smile in my heart! Bless you all....until we meet again! With Love!

Corinna Osborne

February 21, 2013

I was honored to know you when I did and spend time with you and Gerry on ACK, you were a sweet gentleman and will never forget you.

Paul Kochis

February 21, 2013

Dick Scheide was a superb leader and a consummate gentleman. Working for him is a memory I will always cherish not only for his insights and personal warmth but also for his great talent for picking talent for his team. He assembled the most amazing cadre of thinkers, leaders and achievers at Bank of New England that I have ever had the pleasure to work with. His loyalty to his people and to the Bank of New England was fierce and he had an effective but gentle way of letting you know when you had missed his standards mark.He had my back several times when I had done so but he also gave my some big chances to advance my career, gambles for which I will be forever grateful. Whatever I learned about sales and management I first learned from him.He was a prince of a man and Gerry was his rock. God bless him and his family.

Jeanne Amabile

February 21, 2013

Dear Gerry: I was sorry to hear of Dick's passing. I will always remember him with much affection. He was the best boss and a good friend.
Jeanne

dan oates

February 21, 2013

I did not Know Richard Scheide, but I was in sigma phi at Williams with his brother Phil. Phil was a senior when I came in as a frosh in 1949. He flew an aeronca Champ and Scout at the flying club, which I later ran. I then bought a cessna 140 with the group of 20 members. Phil took me up in the champ in fall 1949 at Mt.Greylock N Adams Mass, and I had already a piper cub seaplane solo rating from Saugatuck River CT. Later I moved back from CA and DC and NYC to East Haddam CT near Phil's Joshua Tree home at Lyme CT. May they both rest in peace.

M Storrs

February 20, 2013

Mr. Scheide as he was referred to, was my boss' boss back in the day when there was a Bank of New England. It was my first real job and Dick was an impressive figure - very serious about his work but also very engaged with people. What a wonderful man to have known! Wishing your family many happy memories of him.

Diana Scheide

February 19, 2013

Rest in peace dear Pop Pop. I will never eat strawberry rhubarb jam without thinking of you. Hope you are fishing with your pups and horses. Prayers for all the Scheides for peace and God's loving embrace in your time of sorrow

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