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Richard Wilcox Obituary
WILCOX, Richard C. Richard C. Wilcox, 56, passed away suddenly Saturday (March 25, 2006). He was born in Hartford, March 29, 1949, the son of Earl and Helen (Gowans) Wilcox. Dick last worked at MacDougall- Walker Correctional Institute in Suffield for the past six years as a Vocational Instructor. He was a graduate of the Class of 1967, from Manchester High School. He went on to receive his Bachelors in Criminal Justice and had been presently working on his Master's Degree. Prior to corrections, Dick worked in his family business in Wethersfield at Wilcox Dental Lab. He held a captains license and worked for the last few years in Old Saybrook on the Marine Patrol. He enjoyed fishing, boating and lobstering recreationally. He was a certified Scuba Diver and was proud of winning the Old Saybrook Chili Cook Off the last two years. Dick also served on the D.O.C. Honor Guard and was a former member of the Mystic Highland Pipe Band. His special interest included working extensively with N.E.A.D.S or the National Education Assistance Dogs Services. Besides his parents, he leaves behind his beloved wife of 23 years, Cheryl (Stone) Wilcox of Old Saybrook; son Richard Wilcox Jr. of Ellington; daughter Jodi Wilcox of Coventry; step-sons, Paul Loomis Jr. of Arlington, VA and Christopher Loomis of Middletown; a brother, Doug and his wife Nancy Wilcox of Ft. Meyers, FL; sister Karen Borkowski and her husband Leonard of Old Saybrook; two nieces, Heather Borkowski of Middletown and Krista Borkowski of Old Saybrook. In addition he leaves his two faithful labs, Stone and Barnacle. A memorial service will be held 10 a.m., Thursday at the First Church of Christ in Saybrook Congregational, 366 Main St., Old Saybrook. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the M.A.C. Fund, Old Saybrook Police Department/ Dick Wilcox, 225 Main St., Old Saybrook, CT 06475 or to the N.E.A.D.S. CT Department of Corrections York C.I., Niantic, CT Prison Pup Partnership.
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for Richard Wilcox
Laura (Winzler) Aldrich
April 30, 2006
Dear Karen, Doug, Mom and Dad Wilcox and to Dick's wife and children,
I don't know where to start... It feels like I've lost my big brother. My own brother called me only this morning to see if I knew about Dick's passing and if I had seen the story in last Sunday's paper about his extraordinary life. I told him I hadn't on either account. I have read the story and there was so much about Dick that I did not know, having lost track of his life over the last 20 years or so, an extraordinary man he was and he will be missed. I have so many fond memories of him when Karen and I were teenaged best friends growing up. I am so saddened by this news and my deepest sympathies go out to you all and your families.
Laura Gutt
April 9, 2006
To Cheryl and Family:
My deepest sympathy to you in the recent death of Richard. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. May the love of those around you provide you with comfort. May memories help lift the sorrow from your heart.
In deepest sympathy,
Laura Gutt
Karin (Gatelee) Fritz
April 9, 2006
My deepest sympathies to the Wilcox family. I just learned of Dick's passing and feel like I've lost a member of my own family. I worked many years at the lab and remember how we all worked and played hard. Dick's smile and sense of humor will always be the Light that breaks through this dark cloud. The lives he touched are better for knowing him.
Dale Griffith
April 2, 2006
To Dick's loved ones,
When I learned of Dick's untimely death, I was shocked and saddened. I am so sorry for your loss -- I will keep all of you in my prayers and in my heart.
Bobby Levin
April 1, 2006
My entire family was sad beyond words with the news of Dick's passing. We had the great pleasure of his frequent stops at saybrook Pt. when we were aboard our boat there and always enjoyed the visits to the marina. We all know that all of us in the area have lost a wonderful friend.
We wish Dick's family peace and much better days. Our thoughts are with you all.
Bobby,Adrienne,Jill&Laura Levin
PASTDUE
Marsha Pike
April 1, 2006
I am so saddened to hear of Dick's passing. He was bigger than life, full of adventure and the guy everyone knew was going to make the most fun of any situation. Dick, Earl, Helen, Karen and Doug all made me feel a part of the family. I feel like I've lost a brother. My deepest sympathy to his family.
Karen McGrath
March 31, 2006
To the Wilcox family,
It had been years since I last saw Mr Wilcox, I wanted to extend my deepest sympathies and condolences. My heart goes out to all of you right now, and I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Karen (Kaas) McGrath
(Mike McGoverns step-daughter)
Cathie Norsen
March 30, 2006
Dear Cheryl,
Our family offers condolences to you and your family. It seems like ages ago and a different lifetime but boy what fun we had. We were all part of the Bayview family and we will not forget that time in our lives.
We will keep you in our hearts and prayers.
The Norsens,
Bob, Cathie and our family
Ron Napper
March 30, 2006
Dick and I worked together at MacDougall - he was an excellent teacher and a true humanitarian. He had a positive impact on everyone he worked with - both students and staff. A friend to all, he will surely be missed!
Sheila Sullivan
March 30, 2006
Cheryl, Chris and Paul: We are all so sorry to hear about the passing of your husband and step-dad. While we didn't know Dick well, whenever we saw him he always had a smile and cheery disposition. I hope your memories and support for one another get you through these difficult times. Sheila, Dick, Brian, James and Morgan
Valerie Strong
March 29, 2006
To the Family of Dick Wilcox...
Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the passing of your loved one...he will truly be missed. His smile alone would brighten my day! We worked at MacDougal together and our paths crossed again when I transfered to York CI. He was truly an awesome person, full of love and compassion for his fellow man. I'll especially miss seeing him play with the Honor Guard. May God continue to bless your family with his mercy while giving you all the strength to carry on.
Lieutenant Valerie Strong
Hartford Correctional Center
Tom, Tor, Eric
March 29, 2006
Cheryl and family
Boat ride up the river, the cape,Kareoke,NY trip,lobster pots, emails, and of course the chili. Fond memories of Dick. His ability to make us laugh brightened our lives and will live in our hearts forever. Our love and prayers to you.
Tracey Heddle
March 29, 2006
Happy Birthday Dick!!God rest your soul,I will never forget your words of encouragement to me when when I needed it.You are the best! "A mans man"! I will miss you,I will never forget you.All my love to Cheryl and the kids,Tracey
Steven Hinchey DMD
March 29, 2006
To the Wilcox family, my deepest condolences. Dick was a kind man and very helpful to me in private practice, and correctional managed care. Always willing to help and advise on those tough dental cases, I will miss him and his friendship.
Jim Christofori
March 29, 2006
Cheryl,
On behalf of the entire staff at Westside Care Center, our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family. May God Bless You.
lorna & marcus mateya
March 29, 2006
Cheryl & Family
We are so sorry for your terrible loss. I (Lorna) and my children had the pleasure of going lobstering with Dick- last summer.
His kindness, laughter, humor, and above all patience-(for FOUR children)! made for a day of wonderful memories!! All our love, thoughts and prayers-
Lorna, Marcus & Family
Mel & Larry Gadbois
March 28, 2006
To the Wilcox Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your lose. We both loved Dick very much and have many very fond memories of great times with Dick and all of you. Love, Mel & Larry
Mindy Stone
March 28, 2006
We love you all so very much
~Adam, Mindy & Anthony
Michelle, Claire, Mark Kenna
March 28, 2006
When notified of this very sad news, Claire and I were alone at home. Michelle is on a pilgrimage to the holy city of Rome and won't return until late Sunday. However, I will make every effort to contact her in Rome and ask that a Mass be offered up in Dick's memory and for his soul.
Our aquaintance with Dick and Cheryl, although brief, were quite memorable. Claire and I remember fondly the exciting boat ride on the CT River with Dick at the helm and pointing out the sights along our way. Dick was always one for a surprize or two and he always made our visits together funny and enjoyable. We will keep our friend in our daily prayers.
Love, Claire and Mark Kenna
Glen & Sherrie Shorey
March 28, 2006
Cheryl,
We were very saddened to hear about your lose. Even though we knew Dick for only a short time it was always a pleasure to see both of you. Always laughing, smiling and full of fun. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Christine Arnold
March 28, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Wilcox Family. I had the pleasure of working at Wilcox Lab in Wethersfield and have always held a special place in my heart for Dick and his family.
I know words aren't enough to ease such pain but hopefully, they will bring you some comfort.
Judy (Florence)Williams
March 28, 2006
To Earl and family, I was sad to read about the death of Richard. I worked with Richard,Earl, Herb, and Karen at Wilcox Dental Lab from 1969-1975. What a great family that was to work for.We worked many long hours, and had lots of laughs through-out the day, but the work still got done, because Earl was the boss! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this great time of sadness.
Mike McGovern
March 28, 2006
I'm in shock, I don't believe it! It feels like my brother died. My deepest sympathies.
Dan Craw
March 28, 2006
I will always remember the breakfast the band had your house before the Memorial Day Parade. I will miss Dick very much and wish I could be there to help you in your time of need.
Vickie Jackson
March 28, 2006
Cheryl,
Words cannot express how deeply saddened I am for you and your family. May God continue to bless you as you go through this msot difficult time.
Sincerely,
Vickie Jackson (Westside)
Dr Bernard Park
March 28, 2006
Goodbye to a good friend, a patient teacher, and a person who exemplified the joy and zest that can be found in life. He was a man to be admired...I was fortunate to know him both professionally and personally.
Martha Kurilec, D.M.D.
March 28, 2006
My sincerest sympathies to the Wilcox family in the loss of Richard. I had the pleasure of working with Richard both in private practice and as a co-worker with the Department of Corrections. He will be sincerely missed.
Jay Orduz
March 28, 2006
My condolences, I worked with Dick at the Department of Correction at MacDougall I have since retired. He was a special man with a bright smile and pleasent attitude he will be missed by all that knew him.
Barbara Sodergren
March 28, 2006
Cheryl, I am so sorry to hear about Dick. He was a wonderful man. My children and grandchildren still talk about the day last summer that you both took them out in your boat. They will remember that day for the rest of their lives. Thank you so much for making an impack on their lives. Love, Barbara Sodergren
Officer M. Diaz
March 28, 2006
God Bless Mr. Wilocox and his family .
Dr. A, N. Toro
March 28, 2006
The Dental Staff, University of Connecticut, Correctional Managed Health Care, Dental Department will miss you. Thanks for your friendship during all these years.
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