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Robert Lehman Obituary
Robert H. Lehman, "Bob," beloved husband of Patricia Sullivan Lehman for 33 years, passed away peacefully at home on October 18, 2017, surrounded by his loving family. He was born in Johnstown, Pennsylvania on October 24, 1946, a son of the late Robert Sherman Lehman and Dorothy Mae (Burnheimer) Lehman. Besides his wife Patty, he leaves behind his cherished daughters Michele and Kelley Lehman, both of Portland CT, brother Barry Lehman and his partner Brenda of Boswell, PA, sister Barbara Weimer and her husband Gary of Johnstown, PA. He also leaves behind brothers and sisters-in-law James and Maraide Sullivan of South Carolina, Catherine S. Rau of Portland, Mary and Earl Rand of Vermont, John Sullivan of Middletown, Lisa Sullivan of Portland, Ellen and Christopher Nolan of Portland, Margaret and Anthony DeLucia of Glastonbury, many nieces and nephews, close friends, and beloved pets. In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by his mother- and father-in-law James and Catherine Sullivan, brothers-in-law Joseph, Michael, and Dr. Thomas Sullivan, and Christopher Rau Sr., all of Portland, CT. Bob will always be remembered as a friendly and caring man with an infectious smile and loving heart. In his spare time, he enjoyed going to car shows, both near and far, in his 1932 Ford Highboy Roadster. He also loved listening to music, and had recently taught himself to play guitar. He was a passionate man who always stopped to enjoy the simple things in life and will be truly missed. We would like to thank Cobalt Lodge Health Care and Rehabilitation Center and Middlesex Hospice Home Care for all their care and support through this difficult time. A memorial mass will be held on Monday, October 23rd at 10 a.m. in St.Mary's Church, Portland. Burial will be at a later date. Friends may call at the Portland Memorial Funeral Home, 231 Main St., Portland on Sunday, October 22nd from 4 to 6 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Cancer Society or Protectors of Animals, Inc. (East Hartford, CT).
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Jim DeMayo
October 13, 2023
Bob I cant believe that you have gone from us so long, aq couple of weeks ago I saw you roadster roll in to a car show and I expected you to jump out, run up to me and tell me a funny story. Bob still miss you after all this time, God bless you and your family, Ill be seeing you again in that big cruize night in heaven
Ed Cominsky
October 13, 2020
Rest in peace, Big Bob- from your favorite guitar player and friend of 48 years
Catherine Stone
December 12, 2017
Dear Patty,
We just learned of Bob's passing and are so sad for you and your family. We are thinking of you and hoping that you are managing with this difficult transition. The girls still speak of your family with such fondness. We hope to get them over soon for a quick visit.
Take care,
Catherine and Chris Stone
tom pantano
November 6, 2017
Sorry to hear about bobby passing he was a great guy. Loved those car shows. His 2 favorite oldies lovers never say goodbye by flamingos and since I don"t have you by the skyliners. Gonna miss him
tom Pantano
November 6, 2017
Sorry to hear about bobby passing, great guy His 2 favorite oldies Since i dont have you by the skyliners, lovers never say goodbye by the flamingos. Gonna miss him
Glenn Sinon
October 25, 2017
Bob was easily one of the nicest people I have ever met. I was so saddened tonight to hear of his passing. I always looked forward to seeing him at car shows with that gorgeous 32 hiboy. His smile and fun nature will be missed for sure. To his family, I am so sorry for your loss. He was an amazing man. You are on my thoughts tonight.
Panky Thompson
October 24, 2017
So sorry for your loss, I really enjoyed Bob's company at the car show's , like the marker plate on his car He was a man of CLASS.
Panky Thompson
October 24, 2017
So sorry for Your loss, Bob was a True Hot Rodder and friend,His marker plate said it all CLASS.
Ed Cominsky
October 22, 2017
Bobby,
As near as I can figure we've known each other 47 years. I treasured your friendship.. My best memory was the live music at Wood St, you and Shaff were there and you loved it and I loved playing it and yes if I would have made "the big time" you would have been my driver, not the equipment truck but the limo! We will resume our guitar lessons when I meet up with you again. Thanks for all the good times and thanks for always remembering my stage name.
Love and miss you,
Barb and Ed Cominsky aka Jack Duvall
and Big Barb and Big Ed as Bobby dubbed us way back when...Rest in peace Big Bob
Jeffrey Brackett
October 21, 2017
We will miss you at the car shows Bob! May you rest peacefully. With our sympathy, Jeff Brackett and Kim Kriksciun
Diana Flannigan
October 20, 2017
Bob always had a smile on his face and a twinkle in his eyes!! I have fond memories of him,the first person to let me ride his motorcycle and I was thrilled beyond belief,thank you Bob the chase is over!!
Jim and Donna DeMayo
October 20, 2017
Patty and family Im so sorry for your loss Bob and I met at the New England Summer Natioals were we worked and had a great time together I am going to miss his the times we spent together God Bless you bobby
Steve and Judy Van Blarcom
October 20, 2017
Bobby was the epitome of a true Street Rodder. He just loved to drive his Roadster and drive it he did. All over the country and year round. We always had a laugh together of the time I saw him on Christmas eve on the Berlin pike with the top down and a ski parka. I am deeply saddened by his passing but I know he kept up the fight until the very end. RIP Bob.
Terry Reilly
October 20, 2017
Kelley and family, so very sorry for your loss. May your fond memories live in your heart forever and bring comfort and peace.
Dennis & Sue O'Brien
October 20, 2017
So sorry to hear of Bob's passing Patty.
Last I saw him was at the CSRA clubhouse parked on the side a few cars from the back door. We chatted some and he said he was feeling great, in remission and expected to be getting better. Actually he didn't look that great but when you only see someone every few months it's hard to tell. Sue LOVED his Deuce and a few years ago we left Burlington VT at the same time and Sue rode with him all the way down well into Mass and ate at the Whatley Diner. We've had diner there every year on Sunday since then when we leave Burkington. I guess that's where we'll remember him every year from now on. R.I.P. Bob
Laurene McCrann
October 20, 2017
My deepest condolences go out to all of Bob's family and friends. I will surely miss seeing his smiling face at the car shows. God bless him real good.
Les Harris
October 19, 2017
I will always remember playing guitar with Bob at the Quinnipiac car show. He will be missed by every hot rodder who drives their car. I am truly sorry for his families loss. He was a good man.
Alison wagner
October 19, 2017
Patty ,Michelle,Kelley and the rest of the family.. my deepest sympathies on the loss of Bob, He was a friend to all.. even though I hadn't seen him in recent years , when we did see each other it was a big hug and hello how are you.. he will truly be missed.. my love to you all
October 19, 2017
Patty and girls:
Steve and I were saddened to read about Bob. I remember going to your house when Ethan was just an infant (now 27). Our thoughts are with you.
Steve & Amy Rand
October 19, 2017
JJ and I are deeply sorry for your loss. We will miss Bob so much and have so many wonderful memories of him.
October 19, 2017
Jim and I are so sorry for your loss. He was a great guy! Warm Regards, Jim and Gail Landry
Jerry Esposito
October 19, 2017
Patty and family ,sorry to hear of Bob's passing i'll miss him.
Marcy Jarzabek
October 18, 2017
Patty and girls,
So sorry for your loss...our condolences to the Lehman family.
Sincerely,
Jim, Marcy and Jarzabek family
kevin unikewicz
October 18, 2017
So,sorry Patty and family, I eat breakfast almost everyday at DeLaurs,He seen me with my PITTSBURG STEELERS SHIRT ON AND we WERE FRIENDS 4 EVER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!May God Bless him and you also , love always Kevin Unikewicz
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