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Sebastian Fiamma Obituary

FIAMMA, Sebastian Sebastian Fiamma, 78, devoted husband of Mary (Greco) Fiamma, of West Hartford, died suddenly on Saturday (November 22, 2008) in Hartford surrounded by his loving family. Born in Mistretta, Sicily, Italy, son of the late Vincenzo and Rosaria (Amendola) Fiamma, Sebastian lived in Hartford for almost 30 years prior to moving to West Hartford 33 years ago. He was the proud owner and operator of The Tailor Shop in Bloomfield for the past 35 years. Sebastian enjoyed the simple things in life...being with his family, wine making, time at the beach, working and an occasional "popsie". Besides his loving wife of 57 years, Sebastian is survived by three cherished children; two sons, Sebastian Fiamma, Jr. and his wife Cinda of Wethersfield and Joseph Fiamma of Exton, PA; a daughter, Roseanne Romano of Cromwell; a brother, Salvatore Fiamma and his wife Eleanor of Charlestown, MA; seven grandchildren, Joseph Romano, Daniela Romano, Sebastian Fiamma, III, Christina Rose Fiamma, Vincent Fiamma, Anjelica Fiamma and Rhiannon Fiamma, as well as one great grandchild, Adriana Romano. Funeral service will begin TODAY, Tuesday, November 25 at 9:15 a.m. from the D'Esopo Funeral Chapel, 277 Folly Brook Blvd, Wethersfield followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. at the Church of St Timothy, 1116 North Main St, West Hartford. Entombment will be in Mt. St. Benedict Cemetery, Bloomfield. Calling hours will be TODAY, one hour prior to the service (8:15-9:15 a.m.). Memorial contributions may be made to the American Diabetes Association, 306 Industrial Park Road #105, Middletown, CT 06457. For on-line expressions of sympathy please visit www.desopo.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant from Nov. 24 to Nov. 25, 2008.

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Ron DiMauro

October 10, 2009

To Sebby Jr. and family I just found out about your father's passing the other day in the memorial, I didn't see this a year ago in the paper, sorry to hear this, hope all is well with you and family

Ron DiMauro

Lisa Bragaia

December 10, 2008

Caro Signora Fiamma e familiglia,

Today, I learned of the passing of one of the most wonderful people that I have ever known. Your husband, father and grandfather had such a presence about him. He always showed genuine care and concern for his customers. He was a truly gifted artisan who could make a something simple and not so special become a one of a kind work of art especially made for you. My three children (ages 12, 8 & 5) were always treated with such kindness and respect. We would stop in from time to time "just because" to exchange a friendly hello, hug and share a laugh. My daughter and I received a gift in being able to share a conversation with him recently when picking up her favorite new pink pants. We will forever remember Sebastian Fiamma for his kindness and grace.

With deep sympathies and much love, Lisa, Giampaolo, Nicholas, Gabriella and Gianluca Bragaia

bonnie bercowetz

December 3, 2008

I only knew Sebby for a few years but he soon had a place in my heart. Always sweet and friendly, but with a devilish sense of humor, he was a lovely man. I was so sad to hear of his sudden passing.

Susan Buchholz

December 2, 2008

To The Fiamma Family,
My husband and I have been customers of Sebby's for 26 years, I am so sorry to learn of his passing.If we had not been away last week, we would have come to the funeral to express our condolences in person.
Sebby was a true gentleman in every sense of the word. I will miss his warm smile and hello. He never failed to ask about my family and was genuinely saddended when he learned of the death of my brother. He was superb in his craft; people like Sebby are a rarity today.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you,
Susan Buchholz

Dr. Daniel Marshall

November 26, 2008

Seby was a good friend, a very talented tailor and a warm personality. His greetings were with a deep, heartfelt smile. He liked people and they thought the world of him. I will miss him deeply.

David & Paula Baram

November 25, 2008

To The Fiamma Family,
Please accept our sincere condolences. Sebby was a respectful, friendly, dedicated and talented person who was always ready to help. His reputation as a master tailor was common knowledge throughout greater Hartford. Over the years, he made his clients feel like family, always striving to please and accommodate. We will miss his friendly smile and welcoming disposition. You should be very proud of his accomplishments. He was a one-of- a-kind artisan with a unique work ethic. Sebby contributed to fabric of life in Bloomfield and we will miss him.
Attorney David and Paula Baram
(Former Mayor)

Donna Winiarski

November 25, 2008

Junior and the Fiamma family:

I am sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved father.

May God Bless and hold you close during your time of mourning.

Todd & Kelly(Ruggiero) Rydecki

November 25, 2008

To the Fiamma Family,
We are so sorry for the sudden loss of your husband, father and grandfather. We know how special he was to your family. We didn't get to see Mr. Fiamma often but when we did (especially 4th of July at the Beach House) he was always a pleasure to be around. Todd always talks about the night of Christina's 21st Bday party when the Yankees lost to the Tigers in the Playoffs. He always said he was such a good sport about it considering Todd JUST HAD to wear a Tigers jersey and we all know he's far from a Tigers fan!!We know there are so many fond memories that you have all shared being such a close family. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers during this time. God Bless.

Linda Micacci

November 25, 2008

To the Fiamma family,

I am sorry to hear about your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Linda Micacci
Sister of Karen Langan and Sister-in-law to Richard Langan

D'Esopo Funeral Chapel

November 25, 2008

Our heartfelt sympathies in this, your time of grief.

Rosie Geer

November 24, 2008

Roseanne-
Sorry to read of the loss of your beloved father. Your family will miss him so much.
Your friend from Brown St. and classmate from St. Augustine's.
Rosie Franz Geer

November 24, 2008

To The Fiamma Family,
I Would To Express Our Deepest Sympathy For The Passing Of Husband And Father. May God Bless All Of You In This Time Of Sadness.

Al Rocamora And The Rocamora Family

Rich & Karen Langan

November 24, 2008

With deepest sympathy to the entire Fiamma Family... We loved Sebby very much...

John Ferrigno

November 24, 2008

TO FHE FIAMMA FAMILY: Sebby will be greatly missed by all of the customers that he served in the many years as the finest tailor in Bloomfield.He was a real gentleman and always found time to chat and service his customers. I'm sure that all of the merchants in the Wintonbury Mall and his devoted customers will miss him. My condolences and sympathy go out to all of his family.

Sarah and William Jett

November 24, 2008

Distinguished as a true gentlemen, Sebastian Fiamma wil be missed by all who delighted in his company. We offer prayers for his soul, and for his treasured family in their time of grief.

Lt Alvin Schwapp, Bloomfield Police Department

November 24, 2008

Dear Fiamma Family,

On behalf of Chief Hard and the Bloomfield Police Department, I would like to extend heartfelt condolences to you during your time of grief. Sebby was cherished and respected by generations of Bloomfield Police Officers. He took amazing pride in making sure our appearance was second to none in the law enforcement community and always greeted us with a warm smile. This is a sad day for many of us; however, the memory of Sebby will never fade.

Anita Greco-Petkis

November 24, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of great loss.

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