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Thomas LALLY Obituary

83, of Marco Island, Florida, passed away peacefully with his loving family by his side Wednesday, December 9, 2020 at the home of his son, Michael, in Cumberland, RI. He was the beloved husband of Cynthia (Chirico) Lally and was a strong, positive role model for his sons and grandchildren. Tom was always willing to listen and share his thoughts with many real-world stories that were told with a big smile and his great sense of humor. Tom and Cynthia were happily married for a loving, wonderful 58 years! Born in Boston, MA, he was the son of the late Joseph and Lillian (Higgins) Lally and grew up in Westwood, MA. He graduated from Westwood HS and received a BS degree from Northeastern University. He was a 1st Lieutenant Signal Corps Army veteran serving with distinction in Germany from 1961-64. After conducting a military maneuver in Germany involving the transportation of over 10,000 troops from around the world Tom was honored with a military commendation for his service. Tom then returned home and worked over the next 31 years to grow his Allstate insurance agency in Enfield, CT. Tom and Cynthia simultaneously built, rented and sold 15 homes on the island of Martha's Vineyard. Besides his wife, he is survived by his children, Michael and Thomas Lally, his sister, Ann Rau, and five grandchildren, Christopher, Jessica, Caitlin, Erin, and Shannon. For 47 years, Tom loved spending summers boating, fishing and golfing with his family at the beach cottage in Old Lyme Shores, CT. During the winter months Tom and Cynthia lived at Hideaway Beach Club in Marco Island, FL with many close, wonderful friends. A private mass of Christian burial which will be livestreamed on the funeral home website (www.oneillfuneralhomes.com) Monday, December 14th at 10 AM in Saint John Vianney Church, 3587 Diamond Hill Road, Cumberland, RI. The burial will be private. Visiting hours are respectfully omitted. Arrangements by O'Neill Funeral Home, Cumberland, RI. In lieu of flowers, kindly mail donations in Tom's memory to Hope Health Hospice, 1085 North Main Street, Providence, RI 02904 or call (401) 415-4206. www.oneillfuneralhomes.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on Dec. 12, 2020.

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Elisabeth Prabulos

December 16, 2020

Cynthia We are thinking and praying for you and your Family.Thank-you for sharing Tom's Mass.
Elisabeth (Chickie Praus) and Joe Prabulos

Charles Beal

December 15, 2020

Dear Cindy and Family,
We extend our deepest sympathy to you at this difficult time. Together, you and Tom fought a courageous battle over a very long time. We thought we would share a few fun memories.
Love,
Barbara and Charlie
Remembering Fun Times With Tom and Cindy
Enjoyed many creative parties as part of the Simsbury group.
Charlie played golf with Tom and went to a professional basketball game at the Hartford Civic Center.
Enjoyed a memorable vacation in Spain.
Vacationed at Key West followed by a visit to your Marco Island home.
Went to a wedding at Martha’s Vineyard and stayed at one of your homes.
Encouraged us to rent a cottage at Old Lyme Shores which led to us buying our place in 1994.
Went to your family anniversary parties at the Old Lyme Country Club.
Enjoyed outings on your boat including swims at the “special spot” and a cruise up the Connecticut River to a mooring at Hamburg Cove.

December 15, 2020

Patricia Rohrbach

December 14, 2020

Mrs. Lally, Michael and Tom,
So sorry to hear about Tom's passing. Hope all the wonderful memories you have made through the years help ease the pain you feel.
Mr. & Mrs. Carl Rohrbach, Jr.

Gail Balboni

December 14, 2020

We have many fond memories of Tom. Marty especially remembers a fishing trip at Old Lyme that he ruined by becoming so seasick that Tom had to turn around and come back to shore. Tom was always such a fun and generous guy and we will always remember the great times we all had together.
With love and affection, Gail and Marty

James Salerno

December 14, 2020

Tom you will be missed by all that crossed your path. You were an inspiration to all that knew you. Rest In Peace. Barb and Jim. Salerno

Patty Levi

December 13, 2020

Dear Cindy,
We are saddened by your loss and want to send love and support. Over the years, it has been a pleasure to know you both at our 6000 home. Tom always wore that wonderful smile and I know that you shared many wonderful hours together at Hideaway. Know that we look forward to your return and sharing time here at Hideaway.
Love,
Patty and Paul Levi

Ann Rau

December 12, 2020

Rest In Peace Tom. I wish we could have spent more time together.
Love,
Your sister. Ann

Sympathy Gift courtesy of Edward Chirico. Group of 10 Memorial Trees Planted In Loving Memory of Thomas Lally.

Edward Chirico

December 12, 2020

Jill and Rich Morahan

December 12, 2020

Dear Mrs. Lally, Tommy and Michael,

We are so very sorry to hear about Mr. Lally. May he Rest In Peace with The Lord. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Denise Paquette

December 12, 2020

To The Lally Family
I am sorry for your loss
My thoughts and prayers are with you

Annie Corbett

December 12, 2020

We are so sorry for your loss, words cannot express. Will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. May eternal light shine on him.
Annie Corbett and family

Elaine and Michael Sponzo

December 12, 2020

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Richard Prendergast

December 11, 2020

Dear Tom, Mike, and Cynthia

Our deepest condolences for your loss. Mr Lally will be missed and it will feel out of place with out him. We hope to see you all in better times.

Rich and Karen Prendergast

The Wertenbach family

December 11, 2020

So sorry for your loss.

Tom Strubbe

December 11, 2020

I had the benefit of knowing Tom since the mid 70’s, having met him and Cindy in our Hideaway Beach development on Marco Island. He was a pleasant, clever, and engaging friend, and a true gentleman. He will be missed by me and by our entire community.

Janice Renehan

December 11, 2020

Mike and the entire Lally family, we are very sorry for your loss. We remember Tom’s positive attitude and sense of humor! We hope you find comfort in all your happy memories.
Sincerely, Rick and Janice Renehan

Bill Walker

December 11, 2020

To the entire Lally family, I extend our most heartfelt condolences. We pray that your family is consoled by a lifetime of fond loving memories. Mike always spoke so highly of his father, I wish I got to meet him. You'll be in our prayers. God Bless - The Walker Family - Medway MA

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