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Virginia BREUER Obituary

BREUER, Virginia Parsons Virginia "Ginny" Parsons Breuer, 84, of Newington, beloved wife of the late William Breuer, Sr., died Thursday (October 7, 2010) with her family members by her side. Her devotion to family, music, God, and service to others was evident throughout her life in all she did. Born in Hartford on August 29, 1926, the daughter of Robert S. and Alice (Southwick) Parsons, Virginia attended William Hall High School in West Hartford, graduating in 1944. In addition to excelling in sports: field hockey, basketball and tennis, she developed a passion for writing while working on the school paper, "The Hallmark." In 1946 she graduated with an Associate's degree in Secretarial Science from Colby Junior College (now Colby Sawyer) in New London, NH. She began her working career at Trinity College in the Admissions Office as a switchboard operator, later moving to the Bursar's office where she worked as a mimeographer. Subsequently, she took a dental assisting position for Dr. George Odlum in West Hartford. After beginning this job she met her husband, Bill and married him on 10-3-53. Two children, whom she referred to as "her most cherished blessings" arrived in 1957 and 1960. She was a devoted mother and wife, gaining her greatest satisfaction in life from nurturing, encouraging and supporting her children and caring for her husband. Her love of children was also evident through her work as a nursery school teacher for 12 years, her involvement with her daughter's Girl Scout troop, and by dressing up to Trick-or-Treat with the neighborhood kids. She was a delightful blend of adult with a child's zest for living! She found contentment in the simple things in life and rejoiced in the gift of good health. Ginny also found great joy in music. She began singing as a child around her family's piano, continued with the Colby Sawyer Glee Club, was a member of the Church of Christ Congregational Choir for many years and finally with the Newington Choral Club. When her children were grown, Ginny began volunteering at Jefferson House in Newington where she brightened her clients days for 20 years through her ever positive spirit and enthusiasm for living. She was well known by her many friends for her faithful correspondence with cards, letters, clippings and jokes and she loved to leave candy and other treats on their doorsteps! She believed the most important thing in life was to tell people that you loved them and always had a smile and a hug for those she met. So in memory of Ginny, send someone a card and give someone a hug today. She leaves her daughter, Shirley Breuer of South Windsor, her son, William Breuer and his wife Monica of Cromwell, and her two grandsons, Timothy Andrew and Gregory Aaron Breuer. In addition, she leaves nine nephews, five nieces, and many great-nieces and nephews, who added to the joy of her life; cousins Richard and Priscilla (Parsons) Finck of Florence, MA, Kenneth and Phyllis Parsons and Shirley Parsons all of So. Hadley, MA. Virginia was predeceased by her sister, Shirley Parsons, and her four brothers: Clayton, Robert, Allan, and Richard. Funeral services will be held Monday (10-11-2010) at the Church of Christ, Congregational in Newington at 10 a.m. with the Rev. Dr. Kenneth C. Brookes and the Rev. Allen Tinkham officiating. Interment will be at Fairview Cemetery in West Hartford. Calling hours will be at the Newington Memorial Funeral Home, 20 Bonair Ave., Newington on Sunday, Oct. 10th from 5-8 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations made be made to the Newington Volunteer Ambulance, P.O. Box 310061, Newington, CT 06131 or The Jefferson House Good Samaritan Fund, 1 John H. Stewart Drive, Newington, CT 06111. To send condolences or for directions, please visit www.newingtonmemorial.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Oct. 8, 2010.

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Donna R. Gore

October 2, 2020

I often think of Ginny fondly since her passing, as I spent much of my professional career working with the elderly.
She was unique and "always a breath of fresh air with her eternal optimism."
She touched so many in her community and delighted in her large extended family.
She certainly treated me as part of the family, including her love for correspondence with everyone.
She is truly missed! I know that in important ways, Shirley and Bill carry on her legacy.
Much love to her entire family, as they observe this somber anniversary which Ginny would want to be transformed into a celebration, I have no doubt!

October 7, 2011

Shirley and Bill,
We are thinking of you at this time on the one year anniversary. You are all in our prayers.
Mark, Barbara and Matthew Grochowski

Joyce Bouchard

October 6, 2011

My thoughts & prayers are with you on this 1 year anniversary. I hope this helps to give you comfort at this difficult time.

Sincerely,

October 5, 2011

As a year passes we all remember and miss Ginny dearly. One song that reminds me so much of her is a composition called "Music in My Mother's House" performed by Another Octave; Connecticut Women's Chorus. It is Ginny through and through... For a preview of this song among others go to:
http://www.cdbaby.com/cd/anotheroctave

Respectfully,

Donna R. Gore,

Berlin, CT

Sandy Parlee

October 12, 2010

Shirley, I am so glad that I got to meet your mom, she was quite a woman, my prayers are with you at this time,I"m sure she is entertaining every one above

Phyllis Shimoda

October 12, 2010

Monica, Bill and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Bill's mom sounded like she had full life and was very giving to those around her. I hope all the good memories will ease your loss.

joanne frazao

October 11, 2010

I was away for a few days and just came back to hear the sad news. I am so sorrry to have missed the services for ginny. she volunteerd at jefferson transporting the residents to the beauty shop where I worked. I will always remember all the fun we had. she brightened up everyones day.She was just one of those special people that I will always be grateful for knowing. My deepest sympathy to her loving family.

Jean & Sam Dunning

October 9, 2010

Bill, Monica, Tim & Greg,
So sorry to read this obituary. We hope your memories of good times that you shared with her will help to console you during the days ahead.

October 9, 2010

Greg, I am very sorry for your loss. Vera Clement

October 8, 2010

Shirley and Bill, We are saddened by your loss. Your Mom's caring ways touched us and made us smile when she remembered our anniversary and Matthew's birthday each year. We will keep you in our prayers in this difficult time. With deepest sympathy and love, Mark, Barbara and Matthew Grochowski

Francine Sperre

October 8, 2010

To the entire Breuer family, i was saddened to see the loss of Ginny.My mom , Stella Sperre had met her when my dad Norman was undergoing radiation treatments.They exchanged phone calls , and notes.My mom cherished her friendships with her friends. She always wondered how they were doing.She wrote my dad a condolence note,which i still have.May the strength and support of your family,along with your fond memories, sustain you in your grief.We lost my dad, at the age of 94 in the summer of 2007.He was at his cottage in Clinton,and passed away in his sleep, with the birds chirping. He is buried with my mom,and his parents ,at Fairview in West Hartford.With sincere sympathy,Francine Sperre.

Donna Gore

October 8, 2010

To Shirley & Bill:

Although there is sadness in the passing of Ginny B., I know that she would want all to make a "joyful noise" concerning her many contributions to this life and most assuredly her innate ability to reach out to all she encountered.

You know what an honor it has been being part of your extended family all of these years. The vibrance and enthusiam for every gathering was always blessed by your mother. Come rain or come shine, she always preferred to show the "shiny side of life." She truly had a very positive impact upon me and I will always cherish her thoughtfulness.

Those of us who appreciate writing and the value of life's small gestures know that these are fading qualities in today's society. Ginny is being crowned the angel of friendship along with Aunt Shirl in that heavenly place now.

Both of you have faced these events with caring and dignity...trying to provide her with meaningful experiences til the very end. It is a true loss not to have either parent. However, her legacy will be continued in the many years of fond memories. I am grateful that we had a quality visit about a week ago.

(I would write a longer tribute' but my very recent hand surgery is a bit painful. I know she would understand...)
Suffice it to say that Ginny was there 'like a bridge over troubled water' and like the morning sunrise whenever and wherever it was needed.

Love Always,

Donna

Bob Polman & Family

October 8, 2010

Bill & Family- I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I remember as kids going to your house and your mom was always such a warm and good hearted person. She always made me feel part of the family. I know she will be dearly missed by all. I hope you find comfort in the following poem.

A Native American Prayer

I give you the one thought to keep-
I am with you still.
Do not stand by my grave and weep
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am a diamond glint on snow,
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awake in the morning hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand by my grave and weep.
I am not there... I did not sleep.
Do not think of me as gone –
I am with you still - in each new dawn

Jo Schaller

October 8, 2010

Shirley - it is with much sadness that I heard of the passing of your mom. She was such an outgoing, wonderful, warm person - qualities that she passed on to you!
I remember her coming to many of our sports games that we had in high school (and after) and cheering all of us on! No matter, win or lose, she always had a smile on her face.
As we got older, whenever I'd see her, she'd always brag about you or your brother but always made sure to ask how things were going with me and my family. She was always caring about others. My thoughts and prayers are with you now.

Joyce Bouchard

October 8, 2010

Dear Shirley, My prayers go out to you and your family at this most difficult time. She was such a blessing for everyone that knew her. With deepest sympathy, Joyce Bouchard

Judy W

October 8, 2010

Dear Shirley, I got to know your mom through your eyes and she sounded like a wonderful person. Take comfort in knowing that you are a wonderful daughter, that you have made your mother proud and that she has finally been able to return to your fathers loving arms.

Sharon LaFrancis

October 8, 2010

Dear Shirley and Family,
Mike and I are praying for each of you at this time. Your Mom possessed an exemplary zest for life! She was a treasure to know. May God bless each of you as you continue on your journey. We know fond memories of your Mom will support you through the challenging days ahead. With Love & Blessings, Sharon & Mike

Newington Memorial Funeral Home

October 8, 2010

With deepest sympathy during your time of mourning.

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