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William Hayden Obituary

William A. Hayden of Old Saybrook was predeceased by the love of his life, Mary Bushnell Colhoun. Bill was the president of Spring & Buckley in New Britain for many years, and prior to that served in the US Navy on the USS Princeton during the Vietnam War. He was also a graduate of St. Michael's College in VT. The grandson of a naval Lieutenant Commander, Bill said that he had "salt water running through his veins". His love for the ocean was fostered by camping on Martha's Vineyard beaches in the 50s & 60s, where he later owned a vacation home. Bill had a zest for life, and on summer days he could be found skinny-dipping or bodysurfing in the buff. He was a free spirit who never missed a beautiful day outside. He enjoyed flying planes, sailing, and driving fast cars & motorcycles. He had a mechanical mind & loved cameras and photography. He was also an avid skier, reader, and cyclist. Even in his 80s, Bill could be found cycling by the ocean or "tooling around" on the backroads of Lyme, CT on his motorcycle. Bill is survived by his 2 children, Curtiss Van Dorn Hayden & his partner Ashley Parent as well as his daughter Kate Hayden & her partner David Ames. He is also survived by his sister Toni Durkee, her 3 sons, 2 Hayden nieces, and 3 Drooff nephews & their families. Bill had a warm heart and believed in the power of a hug. We envision him now lifting off the runway in his Stinson, piloting a curve through the clouds toward the Island with his beloved Mary, his co-pilot in this life. The family welcomes contributions to Martha's Vineyard land conservation in memory of Bill: sheriffsmeadow.org/support-us/donate-online

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Published by Hartford Courant on Nov. 2, 2020.

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Marc Isolda

June 17, 2022

Bill was a great guy, he use to bring mehis cameras in need of repair and as an old Marine we would gas about the Navy and Marines and Vietnam. We both road BMW motorcycles and many a time I would drive down from Litchfield County to pick up a camera for repair or go to lunch with Bill. I witnessed firsthand his devotion to Mary, they were a team. Seems like the basement was always crammed with bikes. He will be sorely missed.My sympathies go out to the family.

David Ross

November 7, 2020

Arrived in Connecticut to meet Bill as my son’s next door neighbour. A novice with woodland tools I foundBill a mine of advice on whatever I needed, especially chain saws!!. A loan of his gear and I was off. Margaret andI enjoyed a few nights on our annual visits with Mary and Bill and we were always happy to see them. He obviously missed Mary much and we will always remember his friendly approach. Lost touch when he moved to Old Saybrook but still could recount some of his tales on the 5.5’s which he blamed for his hearing and other maybe censored tales of life in the USN.

Jeff Cooley

November 4, 2020

He was a gem of a guy...we will miss his visits to the gallery and his good spirit. Our sympathies go out to family and friends alike.

Mike Meehan

November 3, 2020

My sincerest sympathy to Kate, Curt, Toni and all the Hayden family.
Remembering Bill and all the good times...

Curt Pease

November 3, 2020

Bill and I were very close and had a wild childhood, then kind of went our Own ways in later life. I could not have had a better close friendship than mine with Bill. I think of him often now that he is gone, and miss him even though we have not seen much of each other for some time. I know you really miss your Dad, I’m so sorry.

Claire Areno

November 2, 2020

I don't have a chance to meet Bill but I've been working with Curtiss for few years and I get a chance to have a glimpse of his character by their travels together.. He is a happy and adventurous person. He will be missed!

Constance Doyle

November 2, 2020

Remembering the time he brought my Aunt Mary out to Ohio to see her sisters Margery and my mom Nancy. Constance Doyle

Jane Piroumoff

November 2, 2020

In loving memory of Bill, a wonderful friend and bright spot in my life the past five years. We shared many happy times together with our interest in art, photography and flowers. I will miss him.

Kit Alexander

November 2, 2020

Bill was a very unique man with a free spirit and a desire to do it all. I spent many years watching Bill enjoy his life and doing his thing. I know that Sally gave him two special children and that Mary gave him many wonerfull years of love and adventures.
Rest in peace Bill and may God bless you.

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