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William P. Messenger Jr.

1967 - 2017

William P. Messenger Jr. obituary, 1967-2017, Manchester, CT

BORN

1967

DIED

2017

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Newkirk & Whitney Funeral Home

318 Burnside Ave

East Hartford, Connecticut

William Messenger Obituary



William P. Messenger, Jr., 49, of East Hartford, died unexpectedly on January 19, 2017. He was born in Hartford, April 26, 1967, and grew up in East Hartford. He then raised his two children in Manchester. Will was a Tax Correction Examiner for the State of Connecticut for over 27 years. He is survived by his father, William P. Messenger Sr., and his wife Elizabeth of Florida, and his mother, Patricia (Kelley) Henry, and her husband David of South Carolina. In addition to his parents, he is survived by his former wife Monique (Dufour) Messenger of Manchester, daughter Cassandra Messenger of Manchester and her fiancée Christopher Carlson of Middletown, his son Jacob Messenger of Manchester, one brother Timothy Messenger and his wife Renata of South Carolina, two sisters Ellenmarie Caisse and her husband Daniel of Portland, and Margaret Costa and her husband Albert of Middletown, as well as several nieces and nephews. Visiting hours will be Tuesday, January 24, 2017, from 4-7:30 PM, preceding the service at the Newkirk & Whitney Funeral Home, 318 Burnside Avenue, East Hartford, CT 06108. His Life Well Celebrated Service, will be at 7:30 PM. Burial is private. To view Will's Everlasting Memorial Video Tribute or to leave an online condolence, please visit www.newkirkandwhitney.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jan. 22, 2017.

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Jay Thibodeau

April 23, 2017

William was one of my best friends in grade school, I'm glad we got to reconnect for a little while as adults but wish we had stayed in touch I was so saddened to hear this...you may be gone but you will never be forgotten my thoughts are with your family :(

March 23, 2017

Bill, my thought and prayers go out to your family. I will pray for peace and acceptance for the messenger family, all my love, Peggy,NPR,fl

A. Box

February 2, 2017

My Condolences to your family. Will was such a pleasant and gracious person. May God Bless and comfort you during this time of sorrow. My prayers go out to you.

theresa ( Hetu ) Ashline

January 31, 2017

Grew up with Will as a kid. we lived a few houses away from each other. He was great person. srry for your loss my thoughts and prayers to you and your family. R.I.P Will.

Bill Daley

January 25, 2017

Eternal rest, grant unto him O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. When Bill and I first met Will we knew there was something special about him, I remembered hanging out with Will and Monique in the early years! what a kind and generous guy! Rest In Peace our brother until we all meet on that beautiful shore...sending our condolences to the family Cassie & Jacob may you cherish the special memories that last a lifetime. Love always Bill and Charmaine Daley

January 25, 2017

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Dawn and Chris Soucy

January 24, 2017

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Robert DiFusco

January 23, 2017

Although I didn't know your Father I want to send my deepest condolences to Cassie my friend and your entire family. May he rest in peace. We will pray for him in church this Sunday.

Brunelle Family

January 23, 2017

We would like to express our condolences to the Messenger family. Will was a great friend and will be sorely missed. God bless.

Kathryn Zandri

January 23, 2017

It was a pleasure working with Will at DRS for the past ten years. He was knowledgeable, courteous and respectful; always a true gentleman. My condolences to the family and many friends who will miss him dearly.

A. Greaves

January 23, 2017

My condolences to the Messenger family. May God continue to bless and keep you. I too met Will at work and can truly say what a great guy. Rest in peace my friend.

Marjorie Terry

January 23, 2017

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Marjorie Terry

January 23, 2017

My condolences to family and friends of Will Messenger. My prayers and thoughts are with you. William will be truly missed at DRS for his hard dedicated work and many many years of state service. May God bless and keep you during this difficult time.

Noemi Perry

January 23, 2017

Will,
You will always be remembered. You were quiet and serious at times but then once in a while would grant us a glimpse of your funny side. DRS has lost a great person. Rest in peace. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

charise floyd-pickering

January 23, 2017

Sending out sincere condolences to Ms. Cassie Messenger and family. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Carl, Charise and Kyle Pickering

Danny Goncalves

January 23, 2017

Rest In Peace Will You Will be missed by all of DRS condolences to the family sorry for your loss God Bless

Donna Grover

January 23, 2017

Kathy,
I am so sorry to hear this very sad and shocking news. My heart goes out to you and the rest of the family.

Melissa Pescetelli

January 22, 2017

Will was always eager to assist and was well
respected throughout DRS. My thoughts and prayers go out to Will's family during this difficult time.

michele Edwards

January 22, 2017

so sorry for your loss. My prays go out to the family at this time.

January 22, 2017

So very sorry for your loss... may he be at peace in a better place... ♥

Sandra Brescia

January 22, 2017

Monique and family I am so sorry for your loss you will all be in my thoughts and prayers during this trying time

January 22, 2017

So sorry for your loss.

Pamela Ambrogio Doolan

January 22, 2017

To the Messenger Family,

I am so very sorry for your loss. Will is in my prayers.

Will was a friend to many at CT DRS and will be dearly missed. He believed in hard work, enjoyed telling a good story , and was quick to offer assistance.

Please know that my thoughts are with you in this difficult time.

Sincerely,
Pam Doolan

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Arlene Ford

January 22, 2017

I was sorry to hear of Will's passing. I knew Will from DRS. He was always friendly, courteous and helpful. My condolences to his family.

Pat Gately

January 22, 2017

To Pat, Dave, Bill and family my condolences on the sudden passing of Will. Always pleasant with a smile and his humor from childhood and on. May he Rest In Peace.

Donna Larose

January 22, 2017

My deepest condolences to Will's family at this unexpected loss. Will was a great person to work with and we will miss him alot at DRS. He dedicated his working career to the state of Connecticut and I wish he was able to enjoy the fruits of his hard work. May he rest in peace.

Elaine Kowaleski

January 21, 2017

I am so sorry to learn of Will's passing. I met him when he started working at DRS. He always was polite, willing to help, always a gentleman and always a smile. Will and his family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mary Chamberland

January 21, 2017

So sorry to hear of Will's passing.

May he Rest in Peace Amen.

January 21, 2017

My Wife Kelly and I are very sorry to here of Will's passing. He was a great guy! Our condolences to his family.

Mark and Kelly Melmer

Laurie Robinson

January 21, 2017

Thank you Will for the many times you had us laughing so hard we cried. You were the most animated story teller we will ever know. We will always think of you and smile from ear to ear. Peace.

Matthew Davis

January 20, 2017

I'd like to send my deepest condolences from my family and I.
May Will rest in peace.
The Davis Family.

Melodie Wilson

January 20, 2017

Hey Will, it was a pleasure having you as our neighbor. We are saddened to know that you have moved on. You will be missed. Mel Wilson and Jim Hobbick

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