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HERBERT STEPHENS Obituary
HERBERT DALE "HERB" STEPHENS JR., a loving husband, father, granddad, brother, uncle, cousin, coach and friend to many, passed away Thursday afternoon, April 18, 2019. Mr. Stephens was 72. A Celebration of his Life will be held at 4:30 p.m. Thursday in the Sanctuary of University Christian Church, 2720 S. University Drive, Fort Worth, TX, with a reception to follow in the church's Walker Hall. In lieu of flowers, consideration of contributions to the TCU Letterman's Association or BITS (Brain Injury Transition Services) through Texas Health Harris Foundation in his memory is suggested. Born April 2, 1947, in Huntington, Herb was the son of Herb and Helen Waugh Stephens. He lived in Ceredo until enlisting in the United States Air Force and serving his country for four years. After a year at San Angelo State, Herb was recruited to play basketball at Texas Christian University, where he met the love of his life, Kathy Morris. Herb graduated from TCU with a B.S. in 1974 and earned his M.Ed. in 1979. As an educator, coach, mentor and athletic director for 36 years, Herb touched many lives. He was preceded in death by his parents and his loving son-in-law, Jamie Wellman. In addition to his wife, Kathy, Herb is survived by his daughter, Stephanie; grandson and best buddy, Payne; brother, John Stephens and his wife Cindy; sister, Patty Stephens Bevins; and several nieces, nephews, cousins and their families; and many close friends. Robertson Mueller Harper Funeral and Cremations is in charge of arrangements.
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Greg Shropshire
April 28, 2019
Back in the early 1970s, the Shropshire's would make regular visits to Daniel Meyer for TCU basketball games. We always remembered Coach playing as hard as he could, hustling and diving all over the floor turning completely red in the face. For me, as I was in my latter stages of Pee Wee basketball, watching him play left an impression that would eventually carry me through my college career. Little did I know at that time he would end up being my coach at Rosemont and then at Paschal. Even then, his passion and mentoring at the beginning stage of his career was visible. He was always there with a word of encouragement for anyone inspiring those to become the best they could be. During the course of life, you have those who mold you into the person you become. He was one of those individuals for me and he will never be forgotten. His influence on all those he touched during his career and personally will be felt for years to come. Rest in peace, Coach!
Herb Sarah and i stopped in to see Kathy, John, and Pattie. We stopped at your tank and Sarah caught this one. Thanks for being such a great neigh
David Bleakney
April 26, 2019
Sarah R C
April 25, 2019
God speed, Coach.
David Walter
April 25, 2019
All you taught me about basketball and life; your legacy living in me which I'm passing onto my children. You'll always be missed and never forgotten.
Jason Braud
April 25, 2019
As an athletic trainer who worked under Mr. Stephens, I don't know if I believed his passing to be true. Mr. Stephens was always the nicest toughest guy. An number of the athletic trainers in FWISD saw him on several occasions for numerous bumps or bruises cause he never stopped. It is only now looking at his smile he always had that I think it has hit home. If more of us had his ALWAYS positive outlook on life the world would be a much better place. I Sir am a much better person having worked and gotten to know you. May you rest in peace, thoughts and prayers to all your family and friends.
Colin Davis
April 25, 2019
To the Herb Stephens Family - our deepest condolences for your loss. Coach Stephens was an incredible man who mad a deep impression on my life. He wasn't coaching when I went to Paschal, but was my Anatomy/Physiology teacher and was a tremendous impact on my life. Like many young men, I can honestly say I wouldn't be the man I am today without knowing Coach Stephens. May God rest his soul and may He bless your family.
Rafe Aalderink
April 25, 2019
I knew Herb as a member of the Fort Worth Scottish Pipes and Drums. He was a kind and generous man. Herb had big plans for the band and started involving us in local sports activities, but in recent years he had to scale back his participation. We will miss his enthusiasm and initiative.
April 24, 2019
We are sending condolences to the family,
Kathy and Stephanie. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Boy he really loved
his family.
Not only was Herb a friendly neighbor, but
had a talent to keep you laughing. He will
be missed and we wish you the best.
Former neighbors on Wilkie Way,
David and Cassie Gordon
Robert Koger
April 24, 2019
To the Herbert D. Stephens, Jr. Family. Our condolences in your loss of a father son brother grandfather and great friend. Having known Herb for 40+ years we all have suffered a great loss. Herb was one of a kind a perfect gentleman who lived his life at Mach 2 with his hair on fire. I know from having sat with him on numerous occasions when he departed this world, he was screaming at the top of his lungs, "what a great ride, let's do it again"! Though Herb has left this rock we will see him again in heaven with a basketball in one hand and a golf club in the other. The best we can do is attempt to live as he did with integrity, dedication and ethics. Herb's legacy lives on in those of us that new him best and I assure you I will boast of what an exceptional man he was!!
Cindy Stephens
April 23, 2019
Sending my love and condolence to Kathy, Stephanie, & Payne. Sorry I could not be w/you all @this difficult time.
Thoughts and prayers & for the days to come.
Stan Wilkinson
April 22, 2019
You've heard of all the good Herb Stephens Jr did in his life for young people, but this is about the last few years of his life. About four years ago, he suffered a stroke and went through the rigors of paralysis and rehab. After his recovery, in typical Herb fashion, he started a support group to help those of us who had suffered a stroke. As the leader of this group, he gave us encouragement and hope. He called us the 'Magnificent Team'. He made a real difference in our lives. We thank Kathy for sharing him with us. He will never be forgotten. Stan Wilkinson
Michelle McAnallen
April 20, 2019
My father, Hobert Whitey Null, would like to offer his condolences to all of Herbs family. My daddy thought the world of Herb as they were classmates and athletes together at C-KHS. He was very saddened when informed of his passing. Many prayers to all of you in the days ahead.
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