Patricia Behrends

December 27, 1939 - June 6, 2025

Patricia Kaye Stienbarger Behrends, of Decatur, Illinois, passed away on Friday, June 6, 2025.

Patricia "Patsi" was born on December 27, 1939, in Quincy, Illinois, to W. M. Stienbarger and Vivian Joplin Stienbarger.

Patsi was a graduate of Millikin University in Decatur, Illinois, and held a postgraduate degree from the University of Illinois in education. She was an educator in the Decatur Public Schools for 30 years.

Surviving are two daughters, Natalie (Jason) Garner of Cape Coral, Florida, Stephanie (Michael) Madix of Bloomington, Illinois; granddaughters, Riley and McKensie Madix of Bloomington, Illinois; and her beloved Persian cat, Cecil.

Patsi enjoyed more than anything her family, family trips to Florida, the visual arts, reading, movies, and as much golf as she could play.

Memorial contributions may be directed to the Humane Society of Decatur, Illinois at 3373 North Woodford Street, Decatur, IL 62526.

Per Patsi's request, there will be no services and cremation rites will be accorded. She has requested that her cremains be spread on Sanibel Island, Florida, with her immediate family all together to celebrate her life.

Beck Memorial Home, Bloomington, Illinois, is assisting the family with arrangements.

Online Condolences may be sent to www.beckmemorial.com.

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Published by Decatur Herald & Review on Jun. 10, 2025.

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Kathy Davis

June 26, 2025

Patsi was both of my daughter´s teacher at Franklin school. They both loved her class and said she is my favorite teacher. Later Patsi and I played golf together. Lots of great memories.

Deanna Hall

June 16, 2025

I loved my time at Franklin and in Mrs. Behrends 5th grade class. She was one of many teachers I loved there! I remember our art projects being special and fun and especially remember Mrs. Behrends giving me my first "B". I was upset about it and spoke to her about it. She told me it would build character and I should get used to not always getting A's. She was partially right! Didn't get another "B" until law school, but it definitely did develop my character and as a bonus, my negotiation skills!
I always admired Mrs. Behrends as a classy lady. Thank you for being a meaningful and memorable teacher.
My condolences and love to her family and friends.

Olivia Davis

June 13, 2025

I have many fond memories of working with Patsi at Franklin School. She was especially gifted at bringing out the artistic and creative side of so many of her students. They were able to excel in this area and many felt a success in school because of her, that they hadn't experienced before. She was a lovely lady, great co-worker, and dear friend. She will be missed by many, especially the "old Franklin guard".

Robyn Hendricks

June 13, 2025

Mrs. Behrends was a talented and gifted educator who touched a lot of lives. My condolences to her family.

Lisa Fryer

June 12, 2025

I am deeply sorry for the loss of your beloved family member, Mrs. Behrends. My heart goes out to you during this incredibly difficult time. I remember being a student at Franklin, and I want you to know that my thoughts are with you.

Kathy Hill

June 12, 2025

So sorry for your loss. Patsi was a wonderful, loving, classy lady. I didn't get to see her very often, but when I did, it was such a joy!! Prayers for comfort & peace. Kathy Hill

Rodney L Fleener

June 11, 2025

I met Patsi when I transferred to Franklin School in 1979. I was the day custodian. Patsi insisted I call her by her first name and always treated me as an equal. We developed a great friendship and after she retired we would often meet on Friday nights at El Rodeo for dinner with Al and Judy. I can truly say that she was one of a kind. She loved her family dearly.

Riley

June 10, 2025

She was the best grandmother ever. She loved her golfing

Don Koshinski (Mr.Ko)

June 10, 2025

First met her as a parent of a student at Muffley. Then we reconnected when I transferred to Franklin where she was teaching. Then after we were both retire, we met at the Disc. She walking and I playing Pickleball. We shared memories about both Muffley and Franklin. I have memories of Natalie when she was a student of mine.

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