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Steve Willoughby Obituary

Steve Willoughby

May 16, 1947 - Nov. 20, 2023

DECATUR - Steve Willoughby, 76, of Decatur, IL, passed away on Monday, November 20, 2023, at Decatur Memorial Hospital.

Mr. Willoughby was born May 16, 1947, in Decatur, the son of Glenn and Gernetta (Ted) Willoughby. After attending Arthur Senior High School and Southern Illinois University, Steve graduated from St. Louis University Law School. His career practicing law in central Illinois spanned 50 years.

Friends and family may have long forgotten that Steve was a black belt. However, if they were fortunate enough to hear the way he made his banjo sing, they surely remember and long for a little more bluegrass.

Surviving are his former wife, Patty (Gerhardt); and their children: Gavin (Jessica), Mebame, NC, and Danielle (Ryan) Bender, Illiopolis, IL; three grandchildren; siblings: Debbie (Leon) Wilson, Champaign, IL, and Michael (Sue) Willoughby, Lawrence, KS.

He was preceded in death by his parents.

No services are planned at this time.

Condolences and memories may be shared with the family in care of Brintlinger and Earl Funeral Homes at www.brintlingerandearl.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Decatur Herald & Review on Nov. 22, 2023.

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Timothy Shay

November 29, 2023

I am sorry to hear of Steve's passing. He was an exceptional attorney and mentor to me.

Donna J. Spent

November 26, 2023

So sorry to hear of Steve's passing. He was our attorney for many years. Condolences to the family.

Nick Burton

November 23, 2023

Steve was a fellow lawyer whom I have known for nearly 50 years. He was a fine lawyer always able and willing to solve the most difficult legal matters without litigation, wasted time, and expense. I remember one beautiful day when I ran across Steve in Central Park as he strummed his banjo. I had no idea until then that he played the banjo, and played it well. He was a versatile man, friendly and upbeat. Sorry to see him go.

Debbie Hogan Romine

November 22, 2023

So sorry to read of Steve's passing. May you feel Gods warm embrace and lift you all in peace, comfort & courage throughout the days ahead.

Judi Redpath

November 22, 2023

I worked at his law firm for 21 years. He was a very kind and considerate to his employees. He will be missed

Sandy Bina

November 22, 2023

Too many memories to list. Too many good times to pick one. Steve was a great guy and will be missed.

Sue Hale

November 22, 2023

Family - My condolences at this time of Steve's death. He seemed to enjoy life in so many ways.
Hold your good memories close to your heart.
Sue Hale, Decatur, Il.

Sharon A Schneider

November 22, 2023

I worked with Steve as a legal secretary in his law practice. He was a kind man and a good attorney. Sympathy to his family.

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