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Barbara Smalley Selznick

1944 - 2024

Barbara Smalley Selznick obituary, 1944-2024, Miami, FL

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1944

DIED

2024

Barbara Selznick Obituary

Barbara Smalley Selznick

September 10, 1944 - December 8, 2024

Miami, Florida - Barbara Smalley Selznick, 80, passed away peacefully on Sunday, December 8, after a courageous four-year battle with cancer. Born in September of 1944 to Eleanore and H. Earl Smalley, she was the second of what became a large and loving family in Coral Gables, Florida. Barbara graduated from Rosarian Academy in West Palm Beach in 1962. She attended Marymount College in Tarrytown, NY before she began map-hopping California, Wyoming, Hawaii and more. Her love of travel and adventure led to her career as a flight attendant with Eastern Airlines.

After a successful blind date, Barbara met and married Jeffrey Selznick, the son of the legendary David O. Selznick, and a producer himself. Their life in Miami and California was filled with endless parties, horse racing fun and travel. When Jeffrey died in 1997, Barbara returned to Miami.

Barbara had a gift for friendship. Funny, fun-loving and generous in spirit, Barbara was a friend for life, and she truly had many dear friends to show for it. She was the friend you always wanted; loyal, smart, funny, caring all in one package. It always felt so good to be around Barbara. Just being herself, her genuine candor was classic funny. When each of us remembers our sister and friend, we will surely chuckle at something she had said to us.

Barbara is preceded in death by her parents and her beloved sister, Sansi Landry. She is survived by her siblings Peter Smalley (Faddy), Michael Smalley (Gina), Marilyn Smalley, Patty Smalley Bingham, Susan Smith (John), and Betsy Smalley (John), all of whom will cherish her memory.

In accordance with Barbara's wishes, no service will be held.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by the Miami Herald from Dec. 13 to Dec. 15, 2024.

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Suzy Swing Solovei

December 30, 2024

I met Barbara at Eastern Airlines.
She was so much fun to fly with and the passengers loved her as much as her crew.
RIP Barbara, my deepest condolences to your family. You will be missed by so many.
Suzy

Rita Kritcher

December 29, 2024

A lovely lady. We lived very close to each other so occasionally I would drive her home. RIP, Barbara.

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Cheryl & Howard Ettelman

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Mary Beth & David Kenny

December 16, 2024

You will always be in our hearts recalling all of the wonderful memories shared in so many places.

Alan. Kemo

December 16, 2024

A much loved friend
She could squeeze fun out of all circumstances
She is missed

Patrick S. Kenny

December 15, 2024

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. We all will miss Barbara.

Terry Schechter

December 14, 2024

We will miss you dearest friend!
Love Terry

Katie Scalamandre

December 14, 2024

Barbara was one of the kindest and funniest people I have ever known. I will miss her.

Jill heymann

December 14, 2024

Barbara was always the life of the Party, and a stitch going home from the event!
We will all miss her dearly; and will remember her antics, and the fun times we shared.
Jill

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Mac and Jill Easton

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Melinda McGahey Lytton

December 14, 2024

We are so sorry to hear of Barbara passing. Love to you all.
Melinda McGahey Lytton

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